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Need advice. How would you go about asking someone on your hotlist to become a friend?

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By *oadsofscousecum OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

So basically I was just admiring someone on my hotlist and on there profile they friends only content (understandable for obvious reasons) but I just want to watch more because when they are getting their freak on its next level hot because wow they can fuck and having orgasms like taking candy from a baby.

Soooo what would you say to someone that doesn't know you to give you a glimpse beyond the veil?

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By *ugarbonkCouple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

This is a swingers website.

The idea is supposed to be to see people you fancy, talk to them, meet up, have sex, then become friends.

Think you might be confusing it with pornhub.

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By *oadsofscousecum OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Firstly the amateur porn on here is well better than pornhub, xhamster is slightly better but the some of stuff on here is very very good. It's raw and horny as fuck. Why would they have a top page and fabs and a hotlist if part of the draw of the website isn't to watch people like yourself have sex.

Also I asked for advice not a condescending point of how you use the website and you're right I'm wrong because you use the website differently to me. Your own reality is not everyone's.

I see the website as a place that celebrates sex and like minded people that aren't uptight about sex can meet up or have a horny chat.

So get off your high horse and realise people use the website for different purposes than yourself.

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By *iss KinkWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

You start chatting first. I only add people I have met or planning to meet

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By *oadsofscousecum OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Ye it's hard to get seen by them though because they must get inundated with messages. They get thousands of fabs on every video and there's nothing outstanding about me for them to bother to look, which I don't blame them, I wouldn't look twice at profile. Dick pic for a profile picture because I'm too much of a pussy to put my face on it.

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

Just be honest what your intentions are and polite they can only say no.

I personally only added people as friends when I'd met them so you might not get what you're after with them just wanting to view their pics and vids but good luck

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By *ogandher1962Couple
2 weeks ago

Reading

It probably depends what their profile says, if anything, about accepting random invites. Our profile states they won't be accepted and will probably result in a block.

Maybe send them a polite message in the first instance.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
2 weeks ago

cahoots

OP...your first two responses on here were aggressive and meek in equal measure so would suggest neither of these approaches. As others have said, friends lists are for people they've met so maybe that's what you should be asking for. Good luck.

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By *tormchasingCouple
2 weeks ago

Essex

I think if they wanted you to see it they wouldn't have made the content "Friends Only".

Your only option is to talk to them. You're not entitled to see it usless they want you to

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

When people say “I’ve added u as a friend hun, want to see more of u” I kist send them packing. The question irritates me. There are A LOT of photos and videos in my public gallery. And the ones who usually say this are the shadow profiles with zero photos themselves.

I only have on my friends list people I have already met in person or whom I’ve built rapport over years. YEARS. I’m not accepting any random on my friends list.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Send them a message asking if you can send a friend request or just send the request.

They are the only two ways I know of and the only way you'll find out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Some people will add as many friends as possible because it generated fabs and they like to be in hot pics

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By *ugarbonkCouple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Firstly the amateur porn on here is well better than pornhub, xhamster is slightly better but the some of stuff on here is very very good. It's raw and horny as fuck. Why would they have a top page and fabs and a hotlist if part of the draw of the website isn't to watch people like yourself have sex.

Also I asked for advice not a condescending point of how you use the website and you're right I'm wrong because you use the website differently to me. Your own reality is not everyone's.

I see the website as a place that celebrates sex and like minded people that aren't uptight about sex can meet up or have a horny chat.

So get off your high horse and realise people use the website for different purposes than yourself. "

LOL great reply

Aggressiveness won't really convince people to allow you to look at their private photos.

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By *rpeggioCouple
2 weeks ago

Baughurst


"Firstly the amateur porn on here is well better than pornhub, xhamster is slightly better but the some of stuff on here is very very good. It's raw and horny as fuck. Why would they have a top page and fabs and a hotlist if part of the draw of the website isn't to watch people like yourself have sex.

Also I asked for advice not a condescending point of how you use the website and you're right I'm wrong because you use the website differently to me. Your own reality is not everyone's.

I see the website as a place that celebrates sex and like minded people that aren't uptight about sex can meet up or have a horny chat.

So get off your high horse and realise people use the website for different purposes than yourself. "

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You seem very articulated. My advice is that you write to the couple explaining the same thing that you originally posted her and ask if you can send a friend invite. Have you tried that?

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