FabSwingers.com forum: Rate my profile

By *kinkk OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Help us make our profile unicorn worthy please!

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Put in some text. There’s literally nothing at all to give someone an idea of what you offer and are looking for.

Think about your photos. Most women aren’t into action shots.

I say this as someone who spent almost 20 years on the scene as a single woman looking for couples. There are many couples, comparatively few single women looking for them and you need to stand out and answer the question - why you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

There's no text.

Unicorns are in high demand and short supply.

If one looks at your profile, sees there's absolutely nothing to indicate compatibility, to let them know what sort of play you're looking for, and it's all just a blank slate, they'll move on to the next profile that gives them that information without having to fish for it 💜

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Out of 5 pics three are a bum in fishnets. You need a bit more variety. Only looking for women under 30 will limit your options

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By *ogandher1962Couple
2 weeks ago

Reading

Perhaps write a profile in the first instance

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By *ude boy 2017Man
2 weeks ago

Bolton

Never had mine rated

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By *kinkk OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yeah that is a good idea to add some more text. if not action shots what kind of pics do you recommend? As a woman what are you looking in a couples profile?

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By *kinkk OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Makes sense we will try to add more info to make it personalised. How do you feel about the content we have uploaded?

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By *kinkk OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Thanks for the suggestion, we are quite inexperienced in this scene that is why we are unsure about bringing in someone over 30.

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

As most on here have said, not enough text to say what you want or offer. Some nice pics of you together as a lovely couple, not in the throws of sex goes a long way. Apart from that you are young and fit so should appeal to quite a few people.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

We aren’t your target audience but if I was looking to join a couple the lack of what you would offer a woman in your write up would put me off. What’s in it for me expect fulfilling your fantasies.

Loose the bum in fishnet pics, you only need one. Add some full body pics (blur faces if you like)

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not your target audience, but some pics of you together, not action shots.

Think about what your target market would want to see.

Pics can be dressed, in underwear with heads cropped off.

Remember any woman had to find you both attractive and know what you're offering her.

So add a bit about what you're offering any bi woman who chooses you, they're in high demand as most couples want an ffm too.

What are you into too,what makes you different.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Yeah that is a good idea to add some more text. if not action shots what kind of pics do you recommend? As a woman what are you looking in a couples profile?"

I think this might be in response to me?

I’d say, it’s more than just a good idea - it’s critical to your success here.

Your photos look very male gaze focused - women, in the main, don’t look at photos of strangers and think ‘I was that was me being fucked.’ They will gauge something of your personality and character from what you choose to share. Look at successful profiles to get ideas but in general more teasing and informative even - full body shots including clothed.

What was I looking for? Exactly what I said - to understand what you’re looking for and what you offer. The key is for the reader to be able to understand compatibility.

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By *kinkk OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Yeah that is a good idea to add some more text. if not action shots what kind of pics do you recommend? As a woman what are you looking in a couples profile?

I think this might be in response to me?

I’d say, it’s more than just a good idea - it’s critical to your success here.

What was I looking for? Exactly what I said - to understand what you’re looking for and what you offer. The key is for the reader to be able to understand compatibility. "

Made some changes how does it look now? Thanks for the suggestions!

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By *uzzieboyMan
2 weeks ago

taunton

I’d like a little feedback

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By *ogandher1962Couple
2 weeks ago

Reading

"I’d like a little feedback "

Perhaps start your own thread rather than piggybacking

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Yeah that is a good idea to add some more text. if not action shots what kind of pics do you recommend? As a woman what are you looking in a couples profile?

I think this might be in response to me?

I’d say, it’s more than just a good idea - it’s critical to your success here.

What was I looking for? Exactly what I said - to understand what you’re looking for and what you offer. The key is for the reader to be able to understand compatibility.

Made some changes how does it look now? Thanks for the suggestions!"

So I’ll be totally honest.

It reads like a horny man has written it. You’re more than just your genitalia.

Many single women want to make friends and become part of a community. They want to meet people - not a wet pussy and a curved BBC. Above all, those aiming to meet couples want to meet people who put them at their ease, who they’ll feel relaxed with and like a human being not a sex toy or a fantasy there to help them tick a box.

This pitches you as a couple who want to turn up, fuck then go separate ways. If that’s you, perfect, see how you go and if you find the success you’re after. If not, stop thinking purely about the sex and start thinking about connections.

I might have this wrong, but if she hasn’t already, get the woman to write it.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
2 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

We’re not your target audience; but I wholeheartedly agree with the poster suggesting to get the woman to write it. The minute I see a male penned “Dom/sub” profile it raises more questions than answers. Frankly, we don’t have the time or inclination to raise them so would just move on.

Rather than relying on a profile, particularly if this is new to you both, consider going to a club to watch, learn and communicate with each other about what you like, don’t, your feelings, where your boundaries and communication needs are.

But mostly, I would suggest that the woman goes and initiates play in clubs, you’ll quickly learn what it feels like, and consider in more depth what you have to offer the person joining you, and how you might make them feel wanted and welcomed into your dynamic.

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