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By *rCanyouhandleme OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Newport

Been on and off fab for a few years had a fair few meets on old profiles but for some reason I’m not getting much luck lately.

A bit of feedback would be much appreciated

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

A lot of dick pics may put many of lf, especially as your first pic is one. Other than your ability to fuck hard - which many, like myself love - it's not for everyone and I think you'd benefit from more emphasis on what you bring to eny engagement. A broader range of pics, perhaps demoting the sunbed one a bit and more about you would be lovely.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
3 weeks ago

cahoots

We aren't in your age range but some of your preferences would put us off, as would words like rough and hard plus any guarantee to make someone cum is pure fantasy as everyone is different.

Profile aside, lots of men say Fab isn't what it used to be probably due to a high influx on men to the site so maybe it's just how it is.

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By *anonfire96Man
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Yeah over confident, not everyone wants the hardest fuck of their lives. Bruised cervix isn't fun. You can't guarantee to make someone cum ,

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By *rdere OpusCouple
3 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Too many dick pics.

The rough thing.

Too much time spent on talking about discretion/secrecy and not enough telling us about you and what you offer.

Those are my guesses as to why you may be struggling. Obviously, if rough sex is what you’re looking for - it’s there, upfront, for people to choose - but it will limit you’re audience.

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By *armandwet50Couple
3 weeks ago

Far far away

Leave it as it is, it's fine

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By *iking_WitchWoman
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

I don't like whiny ass statuses. Saying it's 'dead' is quite a turn off. If it was a club or a pub you'd just leave. I find that off putting.

Rough, hardest fuck of your life...... no mention of after care, no mention of socials to put someone at ease and get some good boundaries in place first.

Boring pics which is a shame cos with some imagination and creativity you could have some really good photos.

Personality does not come through, perhaps you have none or don't want to offer that side of you but again off putting for lots of women.

You cannot guarantee an orgasm or indeed the hardest fuck of your life.

The discretion secrecy thing. Surely goes without saying right? Emphasising it makes me assume that's more what you need.

If you like your cock sucked you have to say you are bicurious surely?

As it is your profile is just another generic profile. You need to be creative, different, stimulate a woman's mind, spark her intrigue, stand out. Send cool messages. Be quirky and fun. Show your human qualities. I 'guarantee ' you'll get more responses 😉

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By *ucka39Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

Op are you doing anything different now than what you did previously

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

The 29th July dick pic isn't doing you any favours as your other pics are way above average. You total lack of profile text would mean we'd have trouble finding anything interesting to message about and makes it hard to get a feeling for you. And your age range might be a bit restrictive.

Shame you're not more local to us, though.

(Bry)

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By *ogandher1962Couple
3 weeks ago

Reading

Three words isn’t really a profile.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Been on and off fab for a few years had a fair few meets on old profiles "

Did you have the same user name then that you have now ?

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By *iss KinkWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

Your profile is hidden

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Im guessing it was bad since youve now hidden it

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I would appreciate mine critiqued too please

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By *iss KinkWoman
2 weeks ago

North West


"I would appreciate mine critiqued too please"

Your bio repeats itself. The cock picture is not flattering at all

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"I would appreciate mine critiqued too please

Your bio repeats itself. The cock picture is not flattering at all "

I agree.

OP read through your profile and you will see several paragraphs are repeated

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By *ogandher1962Couple
2 weeks ago

Reading


"I would appreciate mine critiqued too please"

too many uses of the word "I" for us.

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By *an Andreas0911Man
2 weeks ago

luton

I was wondering if I could get advice for my profile.

I’d appreciate it x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"I was wondering if I could get advice for my profile.

I’d appreciate it x"

Your two pics in changing room mirrors are too small to see

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By *ogandher1962Couple
2 weeks ago

Reading


"I was wondering if I could get advice for my profile.

I’d appreciate it x"

Firstly we'd suggest you keep your comments here rather than DM'ing us

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I was wondering if I could get advice for my profile.

I’d appreciate it x"

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It correct protocol to create your own thread to ask for advice and not piggy-back on someone else's.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile name will put people off.

You’re a Dom but not a Dom, depends if it stops you getting sex or not - that’s how I read that. Don’t change for people - you’ll not find the right people if you adapt to their needs over yours.

One pic and only a little bio suggests not much effort has gone into selling yourself well.

K

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Been on and off fab for a few years had a fair few meets on old profiles "

"Been here before. Had lots of great experiences " yet your only verification is from someone you met on your previous profile but didn't play with.

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By *scapenwMan
2 weeks ago

North Wales Coast

Any feedback on my profile would also be greatly appreciated

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Any feedback on my profile would also be greatly appreciated"

Poor form to jump on someone's thread as people don't always quote on replies and then it gets confusing on who's advising who. Better to start your own.

(Bry)

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