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"Photos a bit “samey”. You’re also going to be very young for a lot of folk here. Good luck "Yeah I thought my age would be a big issue. Do you reckon maybe some full body photos might help. Obviously as much as they can lol | |||
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"Photos a bit “samey”. You’re also going to be very young for a lot of folk here. Good luck
Yeah I thought my age would be a big issue. Do you reckon maybe some full body photos might help. Obviously as much as they can lol"Up to you really. | |||
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"Photos a bit “samey”. You’re also going to be very young for a lot of folk here. Good luck
Yeah I thought my age would be a big issue. Do you reckon maybe some full body photos might help. Obviously as much as they can lol
Up to you really. "I appreciate the advice | |||
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"Just the profile pic would mean would be an instant delete for us, unfortunately. If we did actually open your profile, the dick pics would prevent us reading further. Sorry. (Bry)" I appreciate it. What do you suggest I change in order to seem more appealing? I wanna keep my discretion | |||
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"I appreciate it. What do you suggest I change in order to seem more appealing? I wanna keep my discretion " One tasteful dick pic, so we can see it's not far too big/small/hairy/deformed is good. Other pics....dressed, partially dressed, easy to crop out your face and stay anonymous. Take a look at the verifications of people you'd like to meet, and look at their pics. At least then you'll be targeting your pics at your target market. (Bry) | |||
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"I appreciate it. What do you suggest I change in order to seem more appealing? I wanna keep my discretion One tasteful dick pic, so we can see it's not far too big/small/hairy/deformed is good. Other pics....dressed, partially dressed, easy to crop out your face and stay anonymous. Take a look at the verifications of people you'd like to meet, and look at their pics. At least then you'll be targeting your pics at your target market. (Bry)" Appreciate it 🤍 | |||
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"Three cock pics and a screenshot of a photo taken in a plane don’t show you off at your best. Your text doesn’t really tell us what you’re looking for or what you offer. " So more detail in what I can do as well as what I want to meet? In terms of photos, I’ve got a meet planned for this week so potentially some action shots and maybe even just normal pictures also? | |||
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"Three cock pics and a screenshot of a photo taken in a plane don’t show you off at your best. Your text doesn’t really tell us what you’re looking for or what you offer. So more detail in what I can do as well as what I want to meet? In terms of photos, I’ve got a meet planned for this week so potentially some action shots and maybe even just normal pictures also?" I’d absolutely avoid action shots or keep to a minimum. They’re not always that popular. Women don’t look at them and think I wish that was me. They want to know what you look like. | |||
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"Three cock pics and a screenshot of a photo taken in a plane don’t show you off at your best. Your text doesn’t really tell us what you’re looking for or what you offer. So more detail in what I can do as well as what I want to meet? In terms of photos, I’ve got a meet planned for this week so potentially some action shots and maybe even just normal pictures also? I’d absolutely avoid action shots or keep to a minimum. They’re not always that popular. Women don’t look at them and think I wish that was me. They want to know what you look like. " So to try and keep my discretion I should post more clothing/body photos? | |||
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"Three cock pics and a screenshot of a photo taken in a plane don’t show you off at your best. Your text doesn’t really tell us what you’re looking for or what you offer. So more detail in what I can do as well as what I want to meet? In terms of photos, I’ve got a meet planned for this week so potentially some action shots and maybe even just normal pictures also? I’d absolutely avoid action shots or keep to a minimum. They’re not always that popular. Women don’t look at them and think I wish that was me. They want to know what you look like. So to try and keep my discretion I should post more clothing/body photos?" I don’t think you get it. Your profile post whatever you want of you Post photos of others is nothing about your discretion it’s about their discretion | |||
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"I do require 100% discretion as I have 2 jobs. However if there is talks of a meet, I don’t see why a face picture is unreasonable. That’s good of you to consider someone who may want to sleep with you that wanting to see your face is not unreasonable!!" I can’t tell if this is sarcasm but I’m assuming you’re saying this is either a pointless thing to say or just needs rewording. | |||
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"I do require 100% discretion as I have 2 jobs. However if there is talks of a meet, I don’t see why a face picture is unreasonable. That’s good of you to consider someone who may want to sleep with you that wanting to see your face is not unreasonable!! I can’t tell if this is sarcasm but I’m assuming you’re saying this is either a pointless thing to say or just needs rewording. " No sarcasm at all. Most people who want to share their bodies with someone would like to see a face picture yet the way you’ve worded it seems like it’s not unreasonable to me comes across as just not right People do put things like face pics on request And if you have 2 jobs that stop you showing any face picture then you’re fishing in a very very small pool | |||
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"I do require 100% discretion as I have 2 jobs. However if there is talks of a meet, I don’t see why a face picture is unreasonable. That’s good of you to consider someone who may want to sleep with you that wanting to see your face is not unreasonable!! I can’t tell if this is sarcasm but I’m assuming you’re saying this is either a pointless thing to say or just needs rewording. No sarcasm at all. Most people who want to share their bodies with someone would like to see a face picture yet the way you’ve worded it seems like it’s not unreasonable to me comes across as just not right People do put things like face pics on request And if you have 2 jobs that stop you showing any face picture then you’re fishing in a very very small pool " Oh I’ll happily share a face photo if a meet seems likely or if I’m getting in with the person. I’ll just have to change this to”. “Face pics available upon request lol | |||
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"Oh I’ll happily share a face photo if a meet seems likely or if I’m getting in with the person." We never know if we're shallow or not, but we don't get to the stage of knowing if a meet is likely until we've seen a face pic. For us, swinging is very much based on attraction and we get too many messages to spend ages chatting to faceless guys. (Bry) | |||
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"Oh I’ll happily share a face photo if a meet seems likely or if I’m getting in with the person. We never know if we're shallow or not, but we don't get to the stage of knowing if a meet is likely until we've seen a face pic. For us, swinging is very much based on attraction and we get too many messages to spend ages chatting to faceless guys. (Bry)" Yeah that very much makes sense. I see a lot of accounts asking for a face pic upon the first message to teat attraction. | |||
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"In terms of photos, I’ve got a meet planned for this week so potentially some action shots" Only if you get permission from others in the pics AND you're prepared for almost everyone to question whether they do indeed know you're posting them. Also consider that very few women want to see the other women you're playing with. You're much better off with casual pics of yourself, suited, jeans slightly undone, hands over the cock, etc. (Bry) | |||
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"Yeah that very much makes sense. I see a lot of accounts asking for a face pic upon the first message to teat attraction. " It's one of the reasons we went public with all our pics* - wouldn't want to get chatting to someone and really like them for them to say no thanks after we eventually revealed ourselves 
* we're very lucky in that we can be open with what we do.
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"Not sure what a face pic has to do”teat attraction”, surely you’d need breast photos for that 🤣" Aha, autocorrect not kicking for that one 😂😂 | |||
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"Yeah that very much makes sense. I see a lot of accounts asking for a face pic upon the first message to teat attraction. It's one of the reasons we went public with all our pics* - wouldn't want to get chatting to someone and really like them for them to say no thanks after we eventually revealed ourselves
* we're very lucky in that we can be open with what we do.
(Bry)"Yeah I get you. I really appreciate your input | |||
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"Would love for anyone to give us tips on ours " Hiya Profile seems ok, you have a lovely selection of photos/videos but maybe add some smartly dressed as well | |||
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"You repeat your 'young' within multiple statements, which is potentially overkill, as viewers already know your age. Stick with maximum 1 positive statement, would be enough. More body pics would be good "Didn’t even notice that lmao. And body pics is next on the agenda | |||
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