FabSwingers.com forum: *Deep breath* another round of "Rate my profile!"

By *imiTheSweet OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Im terrible with online stuff profile pages etc could do with an outsiders perspective, like does me wearing purple make me come across as Bi or camp? I'm getting the vibe it does but it's my favourite colour! The shades I genuinely wear when I'm outside so that's how you would see me most the time! I'm thick skinned so as long as it's constructive all feedback is appreciated! Sapios I'm asking you especially!

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By *WANDTGCouple
2 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

You do know you can use a comma rather than the exclamation mark !

Nice pics though I'll fab the favourite one, looking rather dapper. (Male half)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Well it says you're straight so I'd assume you wear purple because you like it

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Thank you! And I appreciate the comments agreed I tend to use the exclamation more than English allows believe it or not I starred using it when I was told using full stops and commas came across "aggressive" but you're right I shouldn't dumb down for folks scared of dashes on a screen! Ill return the favour for the like!

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Its true but folks have assume or straight not believe based on what I'm wearing yh I thought we were past that as well 🤷🏾‍♂️ haha, I'm personally am aiming for Dapper! But some seem to get the wrong end of the stick!

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Photos are better than most, though could maybe remove two of them as they're sort of repeats.

The text....genuinely couldn't read it. Maybe split it up a bit?

(Bry)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Thank you! And I appreciate the comments agreed I tend to use the exclamation more than English allows believe it or not I starred using it when I was told using full stops and commas came across "aggressive" but you're right I shouldn't dumb down for folks scared of dashes on a screen! Ill return the favour for the like! "

I don't know who told you that basic punctuation is aggressive but in my opinion they're incorrect

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I fully agree! I was shocked when it happened apparently I was being aggressive in text and couldnt figure out why till I got told by a few people in replies what the aggressive part was. Not on here this was Facebook but ever since I avoided using them and it stuck I suppose cause that was a few years ago I locked of FB shortly after that cause I thought it was silly but didn't want to come across that way to peeps! TBF I've not had any one say I was aggressive since, 🤷🏾‍♂️ unless it was intentional!

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...I was told using full stops and commas came across "aggressive"..."

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I'm sorry but I find that very hard to believe! Whoever told you that is clearly mocking you and woefully misleading you. You are being played.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I fully agree! I was shocked when it happened apparently I was being aggressive in text and couldnt figure out why till I got told by a few people in replies what the aggressive part was. Not on here this was Facebook but ever since I avoided using them and it stuck I suppose cause that was a few years ago I locked of FB shortly after that cause I thought it was silly but didn't want to come across that way to peeps! TBF I've not had any one say I was aggressive since, 🤷🏾‍♂️ unless it was intentional!

I'm famously very poor at placing commas correctly, mainly because I'm in a rush to get my thoughts down. However I feel that commas and full stops make it much easier to read a block of text.

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By *lowercandyWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

Does that mean you could create space as well?

It's all crammed together and I stopped reading as it became hard work.

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Hmm what to say. Pics are good if not a little samey. The fact that you put you are 420 friendly and partake will put some off. I have a friend who vapes it for"medical reasons" and you can still smell it on his breath. But yes very dapper.

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
7 days ago

Birmingham

Sir! I assure you I have no reason to lie about something as random as this! 🤷🏾‍♂️ And why would I even make that up, to what benefit is it to me? It's giving me any brownie points on here apparently, I'm articulate and educated enough to get my feelings across utilising queens English, Yes it was weird when I got pulled up about it but when it got cosigned by a few other people I conceded and didn't have an problem since, I mainly just used it to end a sentence or line TBF and didn't have anyone question it until now. I wouldn't do it if I'm typing a letter but texting it became a thing that stuck. 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *an Andreas0911Man
7 days ago

luton

Hello everyone! I was wondering if you guys could give me advice on my profile.

Anything said would be much appreciated!

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
7 days ago

Birmingham

The pics are a basic cause I don't take pic of myself I've never been a selfie guy so I have to consciously take pics for others something I don't always do so I take them bulk.

With the 420 thing if you vape it you shouldn't smell of burnt which is usually the off-putting part as it lingers, I've not been told anyone could smell it on me so it might depend on what type of vape they're using, I don't use the dry herb vaporiser as they still smell mine's a distillate so nothing on the breath either.

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By *harAndBryCouple
7 days ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Hello everyone! I was wondering if you guys could give me advice on my profile.

Anything said would be much appreciated!"

Poor form to jump on someone's post - it gets confusing as people don't quote when they reply. Best start your own.

Or just read all the others as it's always the same advice.

(Bry)

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By *ythenMan
7 days ago

North Co. Dublin

"Hello everyone! I was wondering if you guys could give me advice on my profile.

Anything said would be much appreciated!

Poor form to jump on someone's post - it gets confusing as people don't quote when they reply. Best start your own.

Or just read all the others as it's always the same advice.

(Bry)"

Would definitely agree with Bry on this .. sometimes taking a breath helps .. it’s only a bit of fun .. that’s just my 2 pence worth 😈

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By *he MuffinmanMan
7 days ago

West Gloucestershire

"Im terrible with online stuff profile pages etc could do with an outsiders perspective, like does me wearing purple make me come across as Bi or camp? I'm getting the vibe it does but it's my favourite colour! The shades I genuinely wear when I'm outside so that's how you would see me most the time! I'm thick skinned so as long as it's constructive all feedback is appreciated! Sapios I'm asking you especially! "

Seems a pretty good profile to me….. couple of things I would change, if you don’t mind a guys input?

The photo of you on the 20th Sept ….. messing change for one of you smiling rather than ‘glaring’

And being picky…. It’s piqued not peaked

But other than that I wish you success

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