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"I would say that’s it’s down to a lot of ‘couples’ profiles actually just being a single guy masquerading as a couple- my gut reaction would be that this was the case if it was only the guy who could attend. Personally we wouldn’t do a social meet either way if only one of the couple could make it. " I agree on the distrust issue. But I also understand the OP's confusion that they'd happily meet a woman alone but not the male half of a couple. Maybe if a new profile, or one with no recent verifications confirming they're genuine. But as its just a social we'd have no issue meeting either half separately, on the basis that it was just a social. We'd still want a social with both present before anything else may potentially happen, but it's understandable that couples may have different work patterns, or childcare issues and that it can sometimes be tricky to both be free at the same time. But people will do what people do. You won't change their minds, so just use it as a filter and move on to someone who approaches life the same way you do. 🤷♂️ R | |||
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"We would never meet a couple unless both are there. " Same | |||
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"Thanks for the replies ❤️. Would totally understand if we were a brand new profile, completely unverified and all of that. Just really confused me to be honest, the changing of goalposts but people are confusing I guess! C xoxo" The majority of your verifications are on cam and many don't set a lot of store in those, so it really could be a case of wanting to make sure the female half of your couple exists. | |||
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" The majority of your verifications are on cam and many don't set a lot of store in those, so it really could be a case of wanting to make sure the female half of your couple exists. " This !!! | |||
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"Thanks for the replies ❤️. Would totally understand if we were a brand new profile, completely unverified and all of that. Just really confused me to be honest, the changing of goalposts but people are confusing I guess! C xoxo The majority of your verifications are on cam and many don't set a lot of store in those, so it really could be a case of wanting to make sure the female half of your couple exists. " Well hopefully tonight's in meet verification from a lady helps that then!!! Two in person verifications in the last few days, if people still want to play the "can't be a real couple" card that's on them 🙄🙄 C xoxo | |||
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"Thanks for the replies ❤️. Would totally understand if we were a brand new profile, completely unverified and all of that. Just really confused me to be honest, the changing of goalposts but people are confusing I guess! C xoxo The majority of your verifications are on cam and many don't set a lot of store in those, so it really could be a case of wanting to make sure the female half of your couple exists. Well hopefully tonight's in meet verification from a lady helps that then!!! Two in person verifications in the last few days, if people still want to play the "can't be a real couple" card that's on them 🙄🙄 C xoxo" The verifications that are now not showing on your profile any more? Apart from the verification summary? Don't know if it's intentional, and of course you are allowed to run your profile however you wish. But this is not helping prove what you want to prove. | |||
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"Similar but reverse scenario. If I get chatting to a cpl and it looks like progressing to a social, I always explain that the hubby will be with me on initial meet. This is for MY safety. In all honesty would you let your wife out to meet a cpl who could be ,,, well you get the gist. Put simply, if they won't adhere to that one stipulation then it's over before ots started. How lone ladies manage is beyond me. I'd assume they take some sort of chaperone or other safety precautions. ![]() See, that would also be a no for us...if single women only meet with a male partner, their reasons are their own but they're a couple, not a single woman... | |||
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"I would say that’s it’s down to a lot of ‘couples’ profiles actually just being a single guy masquerading as a couple- my gut reaction would be that this was the case if it was only the guy who could attend. Personally we wouldn’t do a social meet either way if only one of the couple could make it. I agree on the distrust issue. But I also understand the OP's confusion that they'd happily meet a woman alone but not the male half of a couple. Maybe if a new profile, or one with no recent verifications confirming they're genuine. But as its just a social we'd have no issue meeting either half separately, on the basis that it was just a social. We'd still want a social with both present before anything else may potentially happen, but it's understandable that couples may have different work patterns, or childcare issues and that it can sometimes be tricky to both be free at the same time. But people will do what people do. You won't change their minds, so just use it as a filter and move on to someone who approaches life the same way you do. 🤷♂️ R" You don't get females pretending to be a couple. You do get males pretending to be a couple. Hence why some will meet the female half alone and not the male half alone. | |||
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"I will share our views and this is just our view, I am not judging anyone's else's opinion. If a couple can't make time to do social together then we will politely move on. Put simply, if managing time for a social is so difficult for someone then it is unlikely they will manage time to get a play meet in. ... " ___ This would be exactly our view! | |||
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"I will share our views and this is just our view, I am not judging anyone's else's opinion. If a couple can't make time to do social together then we will politely move on. Put simply, if managing time for a social is so difficult for someone then it is unlikely they will manage time to get a play meet in. ... ___ This would be exactly our view!" Same here, it's probably the view of 99% of swingers on here. | |||
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"I have a couples account with my wife. I meet solo frequently just due to work or whatever. My wife's into meeting women so mostly for her..its the club together. Made no difference how well verified as a couple we where. If they had not met us both previously, the assumption was, I was cheating or lying. No amount of veris (and we do a lot of social events together) or explanations in the profile made any difference. Each to their own. I dont have to justify it to anyone anymore than they have to justify their reasons to me. There's no shortage of "single guy" accounts on here so I just changed it up and stuck to clubs and socials when I'm out alone. Be nice to meet through fab but I've gave up on it a long time ago. " As you have said you don’t get meets from fab so it’s a totally different situation | |||
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