FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for couple profile led by the woman

By *sAandMrK OP Couple
10 weeks ago

London

Heyyy

First post be gentle

I’m the more experienced one in my relationship/ couple so I set up the profile for us here. Any tips on how to engage with single women on here when it is led by a woman

Thanks xx

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By *iss KinkWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

As a single lady I like to see photos of both of you on a profile

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By *inky PerkyCouple
10 weeks ago

Molesey

"As a single lady I like to see photos of both of you on a profile "

Agree. Lots of single men on this site pretending to be a couple.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm not your target audience but I think you don't seem to have anything that tells a single woman what you can offer her, just what you want. Single women who will meet couples are rarer than hens teeth hence they're called unicorns, you'll need to engage proactively and positively

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not a Bi woman, but you do need some pics of the man too, if you're both looking to be involved.

The lady would need to fancy you both.

There's loads of bi ladies on here, but you need to stand out to them, as they are often inundated by couples looking to fulfill their ffm fantasy.

What would you offer her & why should she choose you.

Clubs can be an easier way for couples to meet ladies too.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
10 weeks ago

tf1

Are you expecting the woman to play with both of you? It’s not blind date. You have 2 pics of you? Is he that hideous that you can’t put his pic up?

I’m sure he’s not but I wouldn’t engage with your profile.

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By *ev_1Couple
10 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Sorry OP but a couple profile is a couple profile and afraid who ever the profile is lead by it will be still the same outcome chances of getting a single female very slim but wish you the best of luck op x

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By *uenevereWoman
10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Your profile is unclear about what you can offer this sub, what is expected of her and what she gets out of it.

Sub/dom requires a lot of trust, and I doubt you'll find what you're seeking on here. If that's the dynamic you want, maybe get involved in your local kink scene.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Hey mrs here and although we both have access to this account, it’s typically me doing the communication. Being the female part of the couple talking is a great thing as women like to connect with women not only sexually but on a level. And it shows that it’s not uncomfortable for the mrs. Add lots of detail to your profile, and don’t just wink! Women get 500+ winks a day and you won’t stand out, take time to read the profile and reference it in your first message, or compliment a specific photo so they know you’ve made the effort. Attach a picture of you both and sign the message off with your name or I sometimes put I (the mrs) really love the photo of you in red! So they know it’s the female. Unfortunately there’s a lot of couples profiles that are just the male so a verified profile with verification is better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

All the above are very valid points.

I was happy to meet couples on my previous profile but tbh would be wary of yours because you still remain unverified after over a year on Fab.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

"All the above are very valid points.

I was happy to meet couples on my previous profile but tbh would be wary of yours because you still remain unverified after over a year on Fab."

Definitely a red flag for single women profiles, a woman gets so much attention on here that they don’t really need to chance it with a profile that could be fake or not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Definitely a red flag for single women profiles, a woman gets so much attention on here that they don’t really need to chance it with a profile that could be fake or not xx"

Spot on xx

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