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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had an issue lately where I cum way too quick, sometimes with very little physical touching.

Can anyone help with techniques or suggestions of how to stop this

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

We are out of the UK

get more experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"get more experience"

That is a lot easier said than done!

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By *abba44Man
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Have a wank a hour before that will stop you cumming too quick.An old dodge from the military when they have been away for several weeks and need to satisfy the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the opposite problem well not for me the wife says I take too long to come

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By *randma loverMan
over a year ago

London

I have the same issue and I find the best solution is to use the edging method and use your thumb as your nearly ready to cum , and stop immediately and relax for a minute or more before you get back to being ready to make your edging technique again and as many times as you can

it’s not that easy to do but it’s worth the effort and you should be able to control your cum most of the time

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I've cum without physical touching.

Guys don't seem to mind...

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By *randma loverMan
over a year ago

London

I have the same issue and I find the best solution is to use the edging method and use your thumb as your nearly ready to cum , and stop immediately and relax for a minute or more before you get back to being ready to make your edging technique again and as many times as you can

it’s not that easy to do but it’s worth the effort and you should be able to control your cum most of the time

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

You could potentially use a numbing desensitizing type cream/gel, which may make it easier to hold back, alongside other techniques. Use your mind to think of something that's a big turnoff, before too late too

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

I know from experience, to try and train yourself, when you’re ready to come, with your thumb and four finger squeeze the head of your cock until you feel it starting to go limp and by that time the sensation should have eased off and you do this over and over again until you’re ready to come, overtime you will be able to control that coming sensation until you’re ready, hopefully, as one person said on here, easier said because like me, when I get that sensation I want to come

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice all

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By *alkingbobMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

Edging often works for me but easier said than done got a hand job once came before I knew it and couldn't get hard again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's refreshing to hear you guys stories and to just know I'm not alone. It kinda feels awful when it happens

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By *herrybakewellCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I have the opposite problem well not for me the wife says I take too long to come"

I'm the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a mixed bag overall, sometimes ive lasted 45+ mins and sometimes its been really quick, i think its all down to how turned on you are in your mind. Defo try and occupy your mind and use the edging technique

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By *rMrsBiCardiffCouple
over a year ago

Roath

Just remember that hours of fucking is not every woman's thing.

I cum fast. I do repeat but still cum fast. But I use my hands and my tongue to make sure she is satisfied before fucking.

Then we go again.

She loves the fast cumming. She says it makes her feel good to know I'm so turned on. And that she would be bored by long periods of just fucking.

Women's bodies tend to respond more to clitoral stimulation. Which isn't a huge part of straight fucking. Fingers and tongues are much better at stimulating the clit inside and out.

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