FabSwingers.com forum: How to keep a FB / FWB a FB/FWB

Plymouth

Soo as per title how do you keep your fuck buddy a fuck buddy. I have one, the sex is great dont need to give details just great. We've been getting on well, and the chat has been more involved and not just about the sex either. There is a connection there which has grown, and ngl some feelings. But I dont want to get into a relationship, it's not for me. I'm pretty sure she wants more and I don't wanna do that.

It has been communicated that I don't want a relationship but I love us fucking. Should I do the whole treat em mean? I've got more respect for her than that. And I don't wanna hurt her.

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By *hropshirestartwoCouple
5 weeks ago

Telford

Depends on your circumstances. If you're both not in a relationship then I would say, why don't you see where it leads.

If one or both of you are attached then you have to be honest, and say you have to go your separate ways.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

It's a relationship, may not be a "traditional" vanilla one but, it's still a relationship between two people.

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By *aughtyNigel888 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Plymouth

Both unattached. So could give it a go. Only I'm not wanting to have a relationship, but i don't want to say I only want you for sex without it sounding selfish and hurtful.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

"Both unattached. So could give it a go. Only I'm not wanting to have a relationship, but i don't want to say I only want you for sex without it sounding selfish and hurtful. "

I think if that's the truth then you need to say it, that's clear and honest. Ms

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Both unattached. So could give it a go. Only I'm not wanting to have a relationship, but i don't want to say I only want you for sex without it sounding selfish and hurtful. "

But do you only want her for sex?

If so, it's kinder to say it than lead her on 💜

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By *lik and PaulCouple
5 weeks ago

cahoots

"Both unattached. So could give it a go. Only I'm not wanting to have a relationship, but i don't want to say I only want you for sex without it sounding selfish and hurtful.

I think if that's the truth then you need to say it, that's clear and honest. Ms"

Honesty is always best if she wants more and you don't...if you like her why string her along...that's not nice.

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By *aughtyNigel888 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Plymouth

Sorry...I'll rewind a bit.

When we first started we both agreed that this was purely a FB basis. We both enjoy each other sexually, but i just get a hint of her wanting a bit more than just fucking. Maybe cos we've been spending a little time together where we arnt fucking a bit of feelings are sparking up.

Ill have the conversation, with myself first then her...i dont think I want the trials and tribulations of a relationship but she is undeniable.

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By *dz69247Man
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Got to be honest, sounds like she’s catching feelings, which isn’t a massive shock if you have been fucking and spending time together.

You can’t unfortunately have your cake and eat it, you have to be honest with her, explain that you are in position to be in a relationship, but enjoy your time together.

That way she knows the score, you can’t keep her just as a fuck buddy if she wants a relationship. It will either help align you both, or you may lose her. But unfortunately you don’t really have a choice.

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By *rpeggioCouple
5 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Sorry...I'll rewind a bit.

Ill have the conversation, with myself first then her...i dont think I want the trials and tribulations of a relationship but she is undeniable."

If you started as FB then just be honest and say the truth: you like sex with her, you like this bin sex time with her, but you don't want a relationship at this stage. If you have not led her on to believe otherwise, she may not like it but she should accept that you two started as Fabs.

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By *rD5Man
5 weeks ago

Gloucester

Hi Nigel.

Is the fb in question the one in your video on your profile?

If so you need to tell her you don’t want a relationship, tell her that you’ve been using her and let her down drastically so she hates you then send her my way because I’ll give her a relationship if she wants one 😉

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

"Sorry...I'll rewind a bit.

Ill have the conversation, with myself first then her...i dont think I want the trials and tribulations of a relationship but she is undeniable.

Saying at this stage, gives hope. Say the truth. Ms

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By *aughtyNigel888 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Plymouth

It is a tricky one. Looks like a serious chat is required, but it always leads to naughty business.

Thank you for assisting i already knew that a conversation was needed. Fingers crossed she just wants to keep it at just sex 😂

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

"It is a tricky one. Looks like a serious chat is required, but it always leads to naughty business.

Thank you for assisting i already knew that a conversation was needed. Fingers crossed she just wants to keep it at just sex 😂"

Meet in a coffee shop/bar. Ms

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
5 weeks ago

Rotherham

During my two cuckold relationships my gfs preferred regular bulls rather than one off as such they had several fwbs each some visited for 4-5 years.

Some of the bulls were single some were in relationships, communication of what needed and basic rules need to be in place. we had a cuckold contract between myself and my gfs that was easy. The rules were also explained to potential new new bulls. It was purely sexual , we didn't meet the bulls for may other purpose and they left shortly after finishing .

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