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"It's hard as a single male, i think we flood Fab. And most woman want drop dead gorgeous men so I'm just glad I got an opportunity. Might take a while for the next but I love this lifestyle so I'll be hanging around. I should try clubs though" The most popular guys that I know on fab would probably collapse in laughter if someone described them as drop dead gorgeous, so I don't think that is often the case | |||
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"i dont know about all but i select the men i meet via fab very very carefully there has to be attraction sexual attraction i would never use a guy just because hes got a cock and i dont think many women do there has to be a connect of some sort... most people dont like most people thats a fact of normal life ley along swinging lifestyle most people are just not compactable ... men are alway looking for excuse's and always ignore the fact that they out number women and couples at least 100 to i some areas alot more so thats your number one problem there simply is not enough women or couples in this life style in fact i think there are less women and couples now than there where 10 0r 20 years ago... add in alot of couples just dont want to meet guys full stop the add in all the fake women and couples and your pool of meets is shrinking add in all the couples and women going back to the old ways of private invites partys where 99.99% of men are not welcome.. and lastly couples 75% of couples are male led and alot of them the guy picks the meet and trust me hes not going to pick the hottest guy he'll pick some one somewhat ''below him'' not all of course... guys the simple truth is there is not someone for every one on this scene hence so many guys moaning no one will be interested in you until someone is and there nothing else you can do about that unless you go to socials and clubs but even then you may not get anywhere ... im only here for guys or was but i could get 300 message and not one will interest me but you say oh all 6 packs and big dicks but i can assure you most of my meets are not " Completely disagree that the man of the couple picks other men below them. Absolute rubbish. If you are fun, friendly and make the effort, anyone can be popular at the clubs. | |||
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"i dont know about all but i select the men i meet via fab very very carefully there has to be attraction sexual attraction i would never use a guy just because hes got a cock and i dont think many women do there has to be a connect of some sort... most people dont like most people thats a fact of normal life ley along swinging lifestyle most people are just not compactable ... men are alway looking for excuse's and always ignore the fact that they out number women and couples at least 100 to i some areas alot more so thats your number one problem there simply is not enough women or couples in this life style in fact i think there are less women and couples now than there where 10 0r 20 years ago... add in alot of couples just dont want to meet guys full stop the add in all the fake women and couples and your pool of meets is shrinking add in all the couples and women going back to the old ways of private invites partys where 99.99% of men are not welcome.. and lastly couples 75% of couples are male led and alot of them the guy picks the meet and trust me hes not going to pick the hottest guy he'll pick some one somewhat ''below him'' not all of course... guys the simple truth is there is not someone for every one on this scene hence so many guys moaning no one will be interested in you until someone is and there nothing else you can do about that unless you go to socials and clubs but even then you may not get anywhere ... im only here for guys or was but i could get 300 message and not one will interest me but you say oh all 6 packs and big dicks but i can assure you most of my meets are not Completely disagree that the man of the couple picks other men below them. Absolute rubbish. If you are fun, friendly and make the effort, anyone can be popular at the clubs. " your fully entailed to your opinion as am i but i see it all the time and i never said all i said most are male led and the guy picks the meets and use's that to his advantage most not all ... and ive done clubs all over uk for years at least twice a month if you think all guys stand a chance in clubs then why are there so many wanking dead why are there so many men getting nowhere on the club scene ... most of the guys i meet come from the club scene where ive met in the club and took it private trust me pnlya chosen few will get play in a club ..i did say a club give you better chance than online ... was at a privat invite only party over xmas two guys were recomended they were both very nice guys very chatty funny but no one invited then to play why no attraction even the couple that recommended then did not play with them .. at he end of the day attraction of sorts is key you can be nice and easy to chat too / great personalities but if your not attracted then its going nowhere and ill say it again its only my opinion im not being rude or abusive ive broken no rules ive just given my opinion that we are all entitled to even if some dont like it ..itts a forum for all not the chosen few  | |||
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"i dont know about all but i select the men i meet via fab very very carefully there has to be attraction sexual attraction i would never use a guy just because hes got a cock and i dont think many women do there has to be a connect of some sort... most people dont like most people thats a fact of normal life ley along swinging lifestyle most people are just not compactable ... men are alway looking for excuse's and always ignore the fact that they out number women and couples at least 100 to i some areas alot more so thats your number one problem there simply is not enough women or couples in this life style in fact i think there are less women and couples now than there where 10 0r 20 years ago... add in alot of couples just dont want to meet guys full stop the add in all the fake women and couples and your pool of meets is shrinking add in all the couples and women going back to the old ways of private invites partys where 99.99% of men are not welcome.. and lastly couples 75% of couples are male led and alot of them the guy picks the meet and trust me hes not going to pick the hottest guy he'll pick some one somewhat ''below him'' not all of course... guys the simple truth is there is not someone for every one on this scene hence so many guys moaning no one will be interested in you until someone is and there nothing else you can do about that unless you go to socials and clubs but even then you may not get anywhere ... im only here for guys or was but i could get 300 message and not one will interest me but you say oh all 6 packs and big dicks but i can assure you most of my meets are not Completely disagree that the man of the couple picks other men below them. Absolute rubbish. If you are fun, friendly and make the effort, anyone can be popular at the clubs. your fully entailed to your opinion as am i but i see it all the time and i never said all i said most are male led and the guy picks the meets and use's that to his advantage most not all ... and ive done clubs all over uk for years at least twice a month if you think all guys stand a chance in clubs then why are there so many wanking dead why are there so many men getting nowhere on the club scene ... most of the guys i meet come from the club scene where ive met in the club and took it private trust me pnlya chosen few will get play in a club ..i did say a club give you better chance than online ... was at a privat invite only party over xmas two guys were recomended they were both very nice guys very chatty funny but no one invited then to play why no attraction even the couple that recommended then did not play with them .. at he end of the day attraction of sorts is key you can be nice and easy to chat too / great personalities but if your not attracted then its going nowhere and ill say it again its only my opinion im not being rude or abusive ive broken no rules ive just given my opinion that we are all entitled to even if some dont like it ..itts a forum for all not the chosen few "No not at all it's all good. Alot of guys don't get anywhere in clubs because like you said the old WANKING DEAD and alot are not social at all. In clubs if you are fun and friendly you have a very good chance of getting somewhere. On here it's crazy how many people are meeting men and women that have put 0 effort into their profiles. (Blank profile) rubbish pics. Everyone's different on fab and looking for different things. Be boring if everyone was the same  | |||
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"fun and friendly would not be any good to me unless theres attraction of sorts normally sexual attraction and ill speak for all my clubbing friends most are couples they will not play unless attraction ..lets be clear im talking about play ..talking and having a laugh i can do with anybody and oh boy i can talk ... "Yeah I know what you mean. There definitely has to be a physical attraction too. | |||
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