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My 6 inch cock versus a 10 inch

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By *orderboyblue OP   Man
4 days ago

Scottish Borders

Hi all

I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.

Anyone else had a similar experience??

Gary

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
4 days ago

brighton

Not all women want an enormous cock. Granted some do but for many of us it's not comfortable or fun. Bear in mind our bodies don't usually accommodate 10 inches of penetration! Mr is nearly 8 inches and that's a bit too long at some angles. 6 inches is a decent and very pleasurable size! You shouldn't let things affect you in that way.

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By *rownsuga1982Man
4 days ago

leicester

its not the size of the nail but the hammer behind it

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By *onely lover40Man
4 days ago

Sheffield

I've come across guys who dwarf my 5"but that's a turn on for me always had a thing for bigger cock than mine for as long as I can remember luckily I have an understanding wife who also has same views

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By *an8iMan
4 days ago

Bilston

That's why you get a menu in a restaurant, people like different things I'm 8 inches I've been turned down because I'm to big and turned down because I'm to small so it's all about preference

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By *he Lollipop ManMan
4 days ago

Truro

Lots of husbands are looking for guys with bigger cocks.

They want to enjoy the spectacle.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 days ago

Kendal

As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!

I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.

C xoxo

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
2 days ago

Hyde

I describe my cock preference as 'Goldilocks'

Not too big and not too small.....

10" wouldn't be a pull factor for me - so don't be leaving rooms as you're denying some women fun!!

K

X

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By *eyeYCouple
2 days ago

Nr Leicester


"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!

I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.

C xoxo"

That! 👍😘

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By *oxesMan
2 days ago

Southend, Essex


"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!

I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.

C xoxo"

I think you just answered my question who R/chickflixx like Manuel Ferreira, Owen Gray, Small hands and girthmasterr. Ruth the exception of the last guy they are not hung or traditionaly handsome. Do it buddy be the performance in bed.

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By *ove and DuckCouple
2 days ago

Between Sheffield & Chesterfield

Duck prefers the smaller cocks to the big cocks !

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By *lfa RomeoMan
2 days ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

As a man with an average size cock, i too am intimidated when I see men with large ones,

But as someone said in a comment above, it's not always about the size but the man behind it.

Still when you read some bio, it's clear to see, a lot of women do prefer the larger ones.

But I agree there's not one size that fits all.

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By *ake and BeckyCouple
2 days ago

Gravesend

Such lovely words for the OP from the ladies here. Really nice to see.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 days ago

Bedford


"As a female, I've had bigger and smaller, and whilst I'm certainly not a size queen I find that attitude is the most important thing!

I've found there's a lot of guys who may not classify as "hung" on here that are actually better lovers, as they know their "downsides" per se and make up for it in other ways. I've also had the owners of the rather larger phalanges have an attitude, possibly not too dissimilar to the OP, where "because it's massive i don't need to try, she'll love it anyways" and they've actually been crap shags.

C xoxo"

This, very much so! Give me a guy with a smaller cock who can have me on fire and dripping without even having to whip it out any time over the "hung" guy who thinks cock is the only way to satisfy a woman.

OP, I get that it can be intimidating in the group setting when someone just strolls in with a cock bigger than yours. Don't let it intimidate you, though, and continue to have your fun.

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By *j2015Couple
2 days ago

Glasgow

Mr here

I thought size would bother me when we first started and with every experience it just proves more how much it doesn’t matter.

The issues I read in the OP was more about attitudes not dicks sizes. If someone is dick swinging while literally dick swinging i would expect that they are politely asked to leave.

I have seen big guys fuck bad and smaller guys fuck good 😊 worring about it says more about you than it does about your cock.

Happy fabbing

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By *omblingFreeCouple
2 days ago

The Village

hate to sound like the quintessential old fart but lessons like this used to be learnt in the shower after P.E. some guys are swinging, some guys just wink from behind a bush. and just like in P.E in school, we all have no choice but to play and do the best with the equipment we've been handed

Mr

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By *uckurcumMan
2 days ago

Bishop Auckland

Not all hung guys are good at using what they have ...trust me on this ...

It's not all about hey,look what I've got for you !

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 days ago

Cheltenham

Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?

A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.

If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size.

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By *axtanMan
2 days ago

los Cristianos now

Don't go to clubs!!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
2 days ago

There and Here

It's not all about the cock 🤷

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 days ago

Mansfield

I would of been out there in a heartbeat. Give me a nice comfortable 6 or 7 with someone who knows what their doing. Xx

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By *portbilly1976Man
2 days ago

manchester

Lovely to read the comments on here from women….from an average fella, thank you x

Reading a good portion of ads and bios you would think that only melanated hung guys are sought after on here sometimes!

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
2 days ago

Cardiff


"Hi all

I was in a club on Friday and got into a group scenario in a room which was a lot of fun. Was spoiled a bit when a hung, black guy turned up who had a huge cock and thought he was Gods gift. Me and a couple of blokes left the room feeling a bit humiliated with our rather smaller dicks.

Anyone else had a similar experience??

Gary"
it’s how you use your cock that matters the most

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By *jonesMan
2 days ago

Plymouth

One younger lady who has certainly had a range of sizes ..said I had a Goldilocks cock..

There is always someone with a bigger cock ..it doesn't bother me ..

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By *teve 18!Man
2 days ago

Workington

Everyone is each to their own I guess. When I see a profile pic where a women is playing with 3 men always makes me think how do you beat that if we're to meet her lol.

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By *erry bull1Man
2 days ago

doncaster

It’s not the size of the wave

But the motion of the ocean

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By *ony MannMan
2 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I have been told that most guys with big cocks think that is what it is about. She told me skill and care is more important.

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By *londebiguyMan
2 days ago

Southport

With most regular and well adjusted normal people , size doesn't really matter.

I'd say that most would prefer more effort and satisfaction.

In my experience the can be very nice to look at but not always the best for function or fun really.

I would not worry about it.

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By *aramelChocolatecoupleCouple
2 days ago

Surrey

As a wife of a man with a big cock, don't get me wrong, I enjoy it, however, I often enjoy tongue and finger game more. Don't feel intimidated. You don't need a huge dick to pleasure. Sometimes those with huge ones don't put the effort in!

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By *orny PTMan
2 days ago

Peterborough

Cocks are like boobs: too big equals too much pain.

With my fingers I can please two women at once and totally drain them.

Growers' privates matter!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?

A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.

If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size."

This. 💯

There's a lot of penis envy both on Fab and in clubs.

You have what you have, big, small or average. Nothing will change that. If someone has a size preference then guess what....you can't change that either.

Going into online life or club life with a mindset that you're too small, too big, or just average - in fact any focus on dick size at all - is completely pointless and will ruin your experiences. Likewise any preconceived notion that 'all women' want BBC or big dicks. Women aren't a hive mind and they most certainly don't.

Men are way more hung up (no pun intended) on dick size than women, trust me. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
2 days ago

Cambridge


"Duck prefers the smaller cocks to the big cocks !"

And that adds to the mystique and dynamism of swinging xxx

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
2 days ago

Cambridge

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
2 days ago

Cambridge


"Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?

Some men are hung up; other blokes prefer the banter and personality route. Could also be age/experience related....

A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.

If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size.

This. 💯

There's a lot of penis envy both on Fab and in clubs.

You have what you have, big, small or average. Nothing will change that. If someone has a size preference then guess what....you can't change that either.

Going into online life or club life with a mindset that you're too small, too big, or just average - in fact any focus on dick size at all - is completely pointless and will ruin your experiences. Likewise any preconceived notion that 'all women' want BBC or big dicks. Women aren't a hive mind and they most certainly don't.

Men are way more hung up (no pun intended) on dick size than women, trust me. 🤷‍♂️"

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
2 days ago

Cambridge


"Being in the other side of the fence I do know that guys can be intimated by size. That’s on them not me. If we are in a group situation I am not going to hide away simply because it makes them uncomfortable. By the same token I wouldn’t expect them to hide away either - why let it get to you like that?

Some men are hung up; others blokes prefer the banter and personality route. Could also be age/experience related....

A good group situation goes with the flow - I have seen people behave poorly irrespective of their size.

If you are good at what you do then she will be happy. If you are not good then that’s on you. You can be good or bad irrespective of your size.

This. 💯

There's a lot of penis envy both on Fab and in clubs.

You have what you have, big, small or average. Nothing will change that. If someone has a size preference then guess what....you can't change that either.

Going into online life or club life with a mindset that you're too small, too big, or just average - in fact any focus on dick size at all - is completely pointless and will ruin your experiences. Likewise any preconceived notion that 'all women' want BBC or big dicks. Women aren't a hive mind and they most certainly don't.

Men are way more hung up (no pun intended) on dick size than women, trust me. 🤷‍♂️"

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
2 days ago

Cambridge

Some men are hung up; other blokes prefer the banter and personality route. Could also be age/experience related....

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
2 days ago

Cambridge


"I have been told that most guys with big cocks think that is what it is about. She told me skill and care is more important. "

Mibbe some but not most - in clubland I've seen a number of WE blokes who remain humble and give off pleasant vibes...

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
2 days ago

Cambs

Just own it, can’t make it bigger or change it at your age!

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
2 days ago

Dumbarton


"Not all women want an enormous cock. Granted some do but for many of us it's not comfortable or fun. Bear in mind our bodies don't usually accommodate 10 inches of penetration! Mr is nearly 8 inches and that's a bit too long at some angles. 6 inches is a decent and very pleasurable size! You shouldn't let things affect you in that way. "

I totally agree

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
2 days ago

Ayrshire

Don't worry about being a grower

Be a Show'er

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