FabSwingers.com forum: Private Party

By *parkle Dust69 OP Woman
3 days ago

edinburgh

Looking for some advice regarding private party set up.

What is the normal etiquette around pre-party chats and introductions. I do not give my number out (happy to use a platform that is anonymous or meet in person prior to a party) given previous bad experience with exchanging private numbers it's now a hard rule for me.

I understand everyone will set parties up differently but just as a general rule is it expected to hand numbers out? No point in continuing to look for parties if this is a block point

Thanks in advance for any view points

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By *xpatadventurerMan
3 days ago

Work Abroad / London

Hi Sparkle

Many moons ago myself and my girlfriend were very active on the swinging scene.

We used to throw some fantastic parties at our house in Wiltshire and they were all very succesful.

A few tips:

Start small with 3 - 4 people you carefully select.

Communicate through a dummy e mail address and a burner telephone number.

Select people carefully who have good Verifications and well written Profiles.

If the Parties are good to start then they will soon recommend to their friends and as we found out we regualrly had 20-30 people attending in a short time. Many of them are good friends to this day.

Be patient and do your research ....Its all about the people.

Wish you luck xx

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By *parkle Dust69 OP Woman
3 days ago

edinburgh

Thank you for your help.

Just to clarify, I am not looking to host parties, was more wondering if it was worth me pursuing invites if I am not giving my personal number out. Do hosts expect personal numbers from people?

Happy fabbing

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By *xpatadventurerMan
3 days ago

Work Abroad / London

Understood

Then use a burner Sim Card with a cheap phone.

There also Apps you can use...Teleguard/ Telegram where you do not need or can hide your phone number.

Good luck xx

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By *parkle Dust69 OP Woman
3 days ago

edinburgh

Thank you, I am more than happy to use a telegram, just wondered what the norm was regarding comms

to know whether to continue my private party journey or not

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By *xpatadventurerMan
3 days ago

Work Abroad / London

Any host/hostess of a private party will understand your need for discretion if they are genuine.

Insist on this ...If it is a problem then avoid them !!

As a female you would be a a good addition to any party but define your boundaries and only attend parties with hosts who have good Verifications and a good track record on Fab.

Have fun xx

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By *rincessandthebearCouple
3 days ago

Alton

We host parties and do all comms through Fab. We release list of Fab profiles the week before so people can connect if they wish.

I (female half of couple) won’t give out my mobile, if any comms done for other parties through WhatsApp then partner uses his number.

Hope that helps.

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By *parkle Dust69 OP Woman
3 days ago

edinburgh

Thank you, I appreciate your help

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By *entlemanFoxMan
3 days ago

North East / London

Hi OP,

I arrange small parties. A good host can manage without having your phone. I use fab for initial arrangements, then telegram where all the attendees can chat together before they arrive. No phone number needed.

However, I do insist on an in person social in advance with all potential attendees.

Good luck in finding a party.

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