It's hard to say your doing something wrong if we have no idea what you are doing. However, please see below some thoughts based on assumptions we have made from your profile. They may not be accurate assumptions, but at least you can see how people may be viewing you.
Considering you have been on here for around five years, there really isn't much to go on from your profile, no verifications, not much of a forum presence and your bio is pretty pointless.
Firstly, drop the disclaimer, it does nothing except to prove you have no idea what you are talking about.
Then block single men from messaging you in your message filters so you can drop the line 'Not looking for guys thank you'.
That leaves you with just three lines of text. Do you really feel that those three lines are enough to make people want to know more about you? I ask because it seems to me that you have three lines of throwaway text. For example, who doesn't 'Enjoy good company, banter, flirting and naughty fun'? I would suggest that description will apply to everyone on this site, therefore it won't help you stand out from the crowd.
As previously mentioned, you don't have much of a forum presence. That's fine, many people don't even know there is a forum, but it does suggest that you have perhaps not used all the tools of the site to make your presence known. Don't rely on messaging alone, so often messages are not read, deleted or simply ignored (especially if the profile isn't enticing). Have you used the chatrooms for example? Maybe through the chatroom you could get cam verified, which would be a good first start.
Unfortunately, a long term presence on the site with a pretty empty profile, no veri's etc comes across as the profile of a person in a relationship looking for something behind there partners back. I'm not judging, just telling you what we see. I'd suggest that after five years the site isn't working for you and that your best bet is to get off the site and meet some people face to face at a social or a club.
Good luck  |
