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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I've rewrote my profile. Would be nice if you could take a look and let me know what you think.

Ill be honest. I've been nice and friendly with everyone but still having trouble getting a meet

Kind regards

Bash full

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm no expert, but your words seem fine to me!

What might be more offputting is the photos or lack thereof! I like to look (perv!!!) at peeps and the one photo you do have is mostly 'space.' Maybe try adding a few more??

Just a thought Taz x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, don't want experts just average people like yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I've rewrote my profile. Would be nice if you could take a look and let me know what you think.

Ill be honest. I've been nice and friendly with everyone but still having trouble getting a meet

Kind regards

Bash full"

I would agree with the other comment. The only major thing missing is pics. You get a brownie point for explaining why you can't accommodate.

You've only been on here 8 weeks - there are PLENTY of guys who have been on here a year or more and have still not had a meet - this isn't Instashag. It takes time. As for the one meet you have had, she is likely to get verified much more quickly than you (that's the way it is) so maybe keep an eye on here profile and see when she gets the green tick and THEN ask her to verify you.

Having said that, not everyone worries about you having veris or not - don't fall into that trap.

Other than that, to get thing rolling a bit quicker, find yourself a club and go along. Anyone you meet in person can verify you - if you ask nicely - and you'll get yourself known a lot quicker.

Good luck with it.

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Thank you, don't want experts just average people like yourself "

Lol, Did you really just call me average???!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I've rewrote my profile. Would be nice if you could take a look and let me know what you think.

Ill be honest. I've been nice and friendly with everyone but still having trouble getting a meet

Kind regards

Bash full"

You are too young for me but if it helps, your profile seems alright to me. Ive just posted a topic about my profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you, don't want experts just average people like yourself

Lol, Did you really just call me average???!!!!!!!! "

Errr i thought that too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you, don't want experts just average people like yourself

Lol, Did you really just call me average???!!!!!!!! "

Getting Popcorn and beer and waits for his reply

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

In general, your Profile isn't too bad, for a first timer, but I would agree with previous posters that your Pics need to be clearer.

A facial pic works wonders. Don't go down the route of placing cock pics on the main profile; keep them for private use.

But as it has been said, you've only been on here 8 weeks or so, so that makes you a mere beginner!

This is NOT an "Instant Fix" site. You are up against countless other guys. so your Profile has to make you stand out against the rest.

You have to "sell" yourself. Get into the Forum pages; get to socials and clubs in your area, anything to get yourself noticed.

It takes Patience, more Patience, and a lot of...ermm, Patience!

Good Luck.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Hello A,

I agree with all comments and advice given above.

I have 'seen' you in the forums and found you to be polite and respectful, keep participating. Its fun and people will get to know you.

The worst thing you can do, in my opinion, is to ask for advice and not follow it...see where I'm coming from?

You never know, listen to your elders and I might be in touch for a social chat I may add and to veri you of course!

Xx Bambi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello A,

I agree with all comments and advice given above.

I have 'seen' you in the forums and found you to be polite and respectful, keep participating. Its fun and people will get to know you.

The worst thing you can do, in my opinion, is to ask for advice and not follow it...see where I'm coming from?

You never know, listen to your elders and I might be in touch for a social chat I may add and to veri you of course!

Xx Bambi"

You can message me anytime, thanks for the advice and compliments xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you, don't want experts just average people like yourself

Lol, Did you really just call me average???!!!!!!!! "

No disrespect intended you seem like lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this yet another 'cry' for attention I wonder? - Look at me!! oh please look at me - pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile text but definitely need more pics. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this yet another 'cry' for attention I wonder? - Look at me!! oh please look at me - pathetic

"

Nope. just after some advice, pretty sure I'm allowed to do so

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this yet another 'cry' for attention I wonder? - Look at me!! oh please look at me - pathetic

Nope. just after some advice, pretty sure I'm allowed to do so "

Yeh deffo some times it takes a second eye to spot things u havnt

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

"

It never works. I make a point of joining in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

"

I could block but ill happily talk to anyone socially, even on this site. Just wanted bi and gay people I'm not interested, I may rephrase it to make it softer

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

I could block but ill happily talk to anyone socially, even on this site. Just wanted bi and gay people I'm not interested, I may rephrase it to make it softer "

You've got a bit of a conundrum here young man!!

A. Let all men contact you because they can, then either block or respond with a No Thank you then block. If you do not block they will message again 2/3 weeks later because they forgot their fist email.

B. Block them and take control of whom you contact...that entails making the first move and being the one 'in fear of the delete/block' button!

Which ever your decision....good luck! Just remember, a lot of people do not read profiles xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

I could block but ill happily talk to anyone socially, even on this site. Just wanted bi and gay people I'm not interested, I may rephrase it to make it softer

You've got a bit of a conundrum here young man!!

A. Let all men contact you because they can, then either block or respond with a No Thank you then block. If you do not block they will message again 2/3 weeks later because they forgot their fist email.

B. Block them and take control of whom you contact...that entails making the first move and being the one 'in fear of the delete/block' button!

Which ever your decision....good luck! Just remember, a lot of people do not read profiles xxxxx"

I see what you mean. But to be honest I've never really had any messages from guys so it's doing its job. Like I said, ill just reword it

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

I could block but ill happily talk to anyone socially, even on this site. Just wanted bi and gay people I'm not interested, I may rephrase it to make it softer

You've got a bit of a conundrum here young man!!

A. Let all men contact you because they can, then either block or respond with a No Thank you then block. If you do not block they will message again 2/3 weeks later because they forgot their fist email.

B. Block them and take control of whom you contact...that entails making the first move and being the one 'in fear of the delete/block' button!

Which ever your decision....good luck! Just remember, a lot of people do not read profiles xxxxx

I see what you mean. But to be honest I've never really had any messages from guys so it's doing its job. Like I said, ill just reword it "

So young...and yet so wise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

I could block but ill happily talk to anyone socially, even on this site. Just wanted bi and gay people I'm not interested, I may rephrase it to make it softer

You've got a bit of a conundrum here young man!!

A. Let all men contact you because they can, then either block or respond with a No Thank you then block. If you do not block they will message again 2/3 weeks later because they forgot their fist email.

B. Block them and take control of whom you contact...that entails making the first move and being the one 'in fear of the delete/block' button!

Which ever your decision....good luck! Just remember, a lot of people do not read profiles xxxxx

I see what you mean. But to be honest I've never really had any messages from guys so it's doing its job. Like I said, ill just reword it

So young...and yet so wise "

You sweet talker you

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"OP.... Why the little rant at the end about no guys.... Just filter them and remove that.

I could block but ill happily talk to anyone socially, even on this site. Just wanted bi and gay people I'm not interested, I may rephrase it to make it softer

You've got a bit of a conundrum here young man!!

A. Let all men contact you because they can, then either block or respond with a No Thank you then block. If you do not block they will message again 2/3 weeks later because they forgot their fist email.

B. Block them and take control of whom you contact...that entails making the first move and being the one 'in fear of the delete/block' button!

Which ever your decision....good luck! Just remember, a lot of people do not read profiles xxxxx

I see what you mean. But to be honest I've never really had any messages from guys so it's doing its job. Like I said, ill just reword it

So young...and yet so wise

You sweet talker you "

That's the Italian in me....I look forward to seeing more pics...and really nice ones as has been advised by many

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've got more if you add me as a friend

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