FabSwingers.com forum: Real women

By *eachmealesson OP Couple
2 weeks ago

brid

We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
2 weeks ago

your head

Plenty of women on here are real. What's a genuine woman to you?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Define a real and or genuine woman for me OP.

I've met plenty of women from here and would like to know how to tell 💜

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

I must admit there are lots of fake profiles, and it does seem to be getting worse. I had one of my old profiles reused by someone a couple of years ago. The only thing is it wasn't photo verified and I always do that.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

There's lots of real women on here op, but you're limiting your chances with them by only showing one person in your pics.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I must admit there are lots of fake profiles, and it does seem to be getting worse. I had one of my old profiles reused by someone a couple of years ago. The only thing is it wasn't photo verified and I always do that."

How was one of your old profiles used?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Can't get a reply - they must be fake.....

I've met plenty of real women on here and my couples profile.

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By *rpeggioCouple
2 weeks ago

Baughurst

"We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters"

Most likely you have found them already, but you prefer to disregard them as fake. They are that large percentage of profiles that do not reply to your messages. The few that do reply, it's likely to be the fake ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

What are you offering?

Maybe take time out from messaging and have a hard think about what you are looking for and what you bring to the table, and write the profile accordingly?

I may be very wrong, but the profile feels like it is made by a man?

Which may put women off.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

You are looking for what is probably the smallest demographic on here - and you’re looking for someone who isn’t bothered what your man looks like, according to your profile. I imagine that reduces your pool of potential to nothing (or rather, the types of profiles you describe above).

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters"

Not to sound negative but your preference is very narrow, so statistically you're not as likely to find what you want in someone as much as many other profiles here 🤷‍♂️

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"You are looking for what is probably the smallest demographic on here - and you’re looking for someone who isn’t bothered what your man looks like, according to your profile. I imagine that reduces your pool of potential to nothing (or rather, the types of profiles you describe above). "

Beat me to it

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
2 weeks ago

tf1

I’m a single woman. I would look at your profile and keep on scrolling. I don’t know what you want and it’s not blind date.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
2 weeks ago

Kendal

Unfortunately your're looking for the most wanted demographic, who can quite literally pick and choose.

As a couple, what's making you stand out to a potential suitor? What can you offer, other than mentioning "fun" three times in as many sentences.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Even without the invisible man I mean sure we don't want to see who we're fucking right, there's hardly anything written.

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
2 weeks ago

Gravesend

Tbh it's a bit of an uninspiring profile. If you are looking to catch a real woman you need to try harder.

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By *cubasteve007Man
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Plenty of women on here are real. What's a genuine woman to you? "
ones that don't hide their profile like you

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By *essTTWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Barely any text and no pictures of the male half

Of course anyone who doesn't reply is a fake account

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By *essTTWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Plenty of women on here are real. What's a genuine woman to you? ones that don't hide their profile like you"

Hiding a profile is nothing to do with whether someone is genuine or not

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By *orleneWoman
2 weeks ago

lancashire

im confused by what they mean real women..

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
2 weeks ago

your head

"Plenty of women on here are real. What's a genuine woman to you? ones that don't hide their profile like you"

Hiding my profile means I'm not genuine? Right.....No one owes anyone anything on here, you know that right?

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By *eachmealesson OP Couple
2 weeks ago

brid

Thank you to everyone that actually offered advice/help.

Shame a certain demographic came in just to be angry

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By *lowercandyWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

"We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters"

Perhaps it's your filtering process or your interpretation of genuine because there are lots of genuine people on fab.

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"Thank you to everyone that actually offered advice/help.

Shame a certain demographic came in just to be angry "

Nobody is showing signs of angry imo. It's just you have sent a few mixed messages that people here are trying to address, I'm sure you know they have no obligation and won't care if you struggle when you don't want to listen. These are basic things really, that are easy to rectify

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

"Thank you to everyone that actually offered advice/help.

Shame a certain demographic came in just to be angry "

A certain amount of sarcasm, maybe. Anger, no. Forgive me for speaking on everyone’s behalf, but what we’re suggesting is that you revisit your profile (and perhaps your expectations) before looking for blame elsewhere.

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By *abioMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters"

Single women are to couples, as couples are single men…

Lots in one group looking for a smaller amount in the other

So I would off the same starting point of advice…

Why should (or would) a single woman pick to play with you both over any other couple? What is your selling point?

Work that out… and then go backwards….

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Thank you to everyone that actually offered advice/help.

Shame a certain demographic came in just to be angry "

Who's angry? All I see is people giving their advice......

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By *exy and HotCouple
2 weeks ago

St Albans

"There's lots of real women on here op, but you're limiting your chances with them by only showing one person in your pics. "

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By *end1Man
2 weeks ago

southend on sea

Do love these posts where the OP has a pretty plain profile and asks for people's advice and then moans because they don't like some of the answers!

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By *ack jay300Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

Hi just joined weeks or so

Near edinburgh , finding it almost really difficult to get verified sicial or otherwise , any advise or people near who can help

I am photo verified

Much appreciated for any help

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By *oxesMan
2 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters"

You have been on here over a year and only met one person. Maybe you are finding it hard because people will struggle to verify your status.

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Hi just joined weeks or so

Near edinburgh , finding it almost really difficult to get verified sicial or otherwise , any advise or people near who can help

I am photo verified

Much appreciated for any help"

Bad form to jump on someone else's post, best start your own thread.

(Bry)

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By *lossomTreeWoman
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

Firstly I can assure you it's just as hard the other way round.

I'm on the verge of giving up with couples and putting my energy into single men - yes, it's gotten that bad.

Secondly you don't have any recent verifications, your only one is hidden, you don't have any recent photos nor any photos of mr.

So it would be a no on many counts from me.

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By *oxesMan
2 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Firstly I can assure you it's just as hard the other way round.

I'm on the verge of giving up with couples and putting my energy into single men - yes, it's gotten that bad.

Secondly you don't have any recent verifications, your only one is hidden, you don't have any recent photos nor any photos of mr.

So it would be a no on many counts from me. "

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
2 weeks ago

Halifax

OP: are you real and genuine?

Saying because real and genuine people never struggle to find other real and genuine people.

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By *lakeyboy30Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

That's funny I read there's plenty women on here hmm interesting then why is it ur all ghosts pretty much I mean I had loads offer from guys but u females are a myth

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By *unincornwallMan
2 weeks ago

launceston

There are fake profiles but majority are real..you just gave keep trying(that's what I tell myself.lol)x

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By *assy LassieWoman
6 days ago

Lanarkshire

"That's funny I read there's plenty women on here hmm interesting then why is it ur all ghosts pretty much I mean I had loads offer from guys but u females are a myth "

What were your expectations in 6 weeks. Most women don't message first.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
6 days ago

Leeds

"That's funny I read there's plenty women on here hmm interesting then why is it ur all ghosts pretty much I mean I had loads offer from guys but u females are a myth "

A myth are we? Ok.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 days ago

Staffordshire

If you want a woman to join both of you, why not have pictures of both of you?

Personally, we wouldn't message a profile of it doesn't show both people. That's just how we work it though.

If it was a mans profile he would be told to put effort into his bio.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
5 days ago

Coventry

We're not in a position to give advice on how to hook up with women on here because we don't really use the site for that.

However we can also share there are other avenues you can find what you're looking for that maybe more successful (we find they work for us). The first being our main playground clubs/parties/organised socials. But also don't forget the everyday world. We sometimes pick up single ladies just out and about or in bars and clubs. Sometimes ladies in the lifestyle (we tend to find our people) and (more often) those who aren't but are open to it or want to try it. We just find the physical world far more success than the online world.

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By *iss KinkWoman
5 days ago

North West

I’m real

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By *hirleyMan
5 days ago

somewhere

"I’m real

Yeah but you could be a time waster 🧐

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By *iss KinkWoman
5 days ago

North West

"I’m real

Yeah but you could be a time waster 🧐"

I also May not be

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By *etro1940sCouple
5 days ago

Kingston upon Thames

Real , candid and very robust ... xx Anne

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By *uenevereWoman
5 days ago

Scunthorpe

"We really are struggling to find real and/or genuine women on this site. Seems to be getting worse for fakes and time wasters"

Unfortunately, I suspect that your profile, relative youth and inexperience are a large part the issue here.

You don't really seem to know what you want, or what you could offer to a potential meet, other than "fun". This means that genuine women are extremely unlikely to be interested... we are not playthings.

As a single woman, if I was meeting couples, I would want a much better idea of the dynamic and to see photos of both.

Maybe sit down and think about what you are seeking from Fab and how you can better express that in your profile. I would also reconsider your age range...would you really meet a lady in her 90s?

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