FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone talk/message on here?

By *r big girther OP Man
5 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Hi I'm just wondering if anybody ever talks in here? I don't mean in chat rooms etc I mean on message so they can get to know each other?

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By *ogandher1962Couple
5 weeks ago

Reading

Lots of folk have conversations on here.

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By *r big girther OP Man
5 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"Lots of folk have conversations on here. "

Yes in chat rooms

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By *ogandher1962Couple
5 weeks ago

Reading

"Lots of folk have conversations on here.

Yes in chat rooms"

If you say so, we have one to one conversations with like minded folk away from the chat rooms.

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By *WANDTGCouple
5 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We chat with people on here and if we decide to do a social transfer the chat to another means. We've had a few coffees with people and still keep in touch via wattsapp. Depends if you click or have something in common.

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By *iker JackMan
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Yes they do and not just on chat rooms

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By *anonfire96Man
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

Yes absolutely, private message all the time, get to know someone before moving on to telegram or WhatsApp video chat.

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By *heelerMan
5 weeks ago

Northants

Yes sometimes can be hardwork at times and occasionally you may end up blocked but be positive one day it all may click.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 weeks ago

There and Here

Of course they do, but they can't chat with everyone.

I probably get 4 or 5 messages per day asking do I want to chat. How do I chat with those people, and the 4 or 5 from the previous day, and the day before that, etc, etc? A person can only spread themselves so thinly.

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By *olymalelincsMan
5 weeks ago

southend

Yup have had some lovely conversations with people on here via messages. Its not always easy to get noticed when messaging women though as they often get bombarded with messages from guys so your messages can get lost in the delug.

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By *lueDressWoman
5 weeks ago

Bath

Totally,I always get to know people by replying to their messages.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
5 weeks ago

cahoots

Yes that's what messages are for.

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By *uddsguy555Man
5 weeks ago

Huddersfield

No mate it's dog shit on here lol think of it this way where all trying to meet the same women!!!! Facebook dating is better than here you'll get conversations and meets on there

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yup, we chat alot on here via messages, we don't use the chat rooms option at all

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
5 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Yup, we chat alot on here via messages, we don't use the chat rooms option at all "

This ^^^

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By *iverstMan
5 weeks ago

Rossendale

Yes, chat a lot to one couple. When you hit 3000 messages it starts to count backwards!!

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By *oxy jWoman
5 weeks ago

somerset

im always talking to people that ive met or want to meet all the time i dont both with those ive no interest in .. im here to meet for real not to be a wank bank for guys...

also you have to remember zillions of guys seeking the few that means alot wont get a sniff at all

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By *nebworthMan
5 weeks ago

Knebworth

"Hi I'm just wondering if anybody ever talks in here? I don't mean in chat rooms etc I mean on message so they can get to know each other?"
Yes. I have had some great advice on various matters that I put into practice that worked. I was online company for a very bored security guard working from New Year’s Eve to New Year’s Day nearly a year ago. Chatted to a stunt man who told me about the stunts he did on Hot Fuzz. I have connected up people with information that they needed. Not everything on here has been about getting someone or some people into bed.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes, lots of people talk and meet on here.

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By *a1970Man
5 weeks ago

East cork

I chat mad with loads of people.... Some chat for a while some it's short and sweet....

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By *layfullsamMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

Only been on for couple of months op, what were your expectations?

Just reset those and join in forums etc to get yourself known etc

Good luck

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
5 weeks ago

All over the place

Yeah I do quite often

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Fife

It's generally the only place where there's not just dick pics and men actually communicate...

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By *ic loves to lickMan
5 weeks ago

Trumpton

yeah, read my profile mate

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By *moothGrooveWoman
5 weeks ago

Durham

Yep

I talk to loads of people who message me.

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By *asterofmaidsMan
5 weeks ago

Telford

Always chatting on here

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By *layfullsamMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

"It's generally the only place where there's not just dick pics and men actually communicate... "

Sorry ! Lol

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By *ookey734Man
5 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Had a few real nice chats on here, and a few not so!

Always open to more, it's supposed to be fun after all and being nice costs nothing

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By *ififuckslutCouple
4 weeks ago

Salisbury

We have chatted on here. Got some really good advice and contacts in the French forum when we bought a holiday cottage there. Ended up locating an electrician to re-wire the place via a Fab contact.

We actually find that most guys (and its nearly always guys) that contact us saying they want to chat dint really want to chat. They start out all chatty but soon lose interest when we say we aren't going to meet them right away.

In short they don't really want to chat they want to see more pics or get a meet.

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By *r big girther OP Man
3 weeks ago

Caerphilly

It just seems like everyone who i message either deletes or ignores 🤔

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
3 weeks ago

your head

"It just seems like everyone who i message either deletes or ignores 🤔"

Maybe they just aren't interested in you? Have you checked that their profiles match up with what you're looking for and vice versa before you message?

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By *idnightMischiefMan
3 weeks ago

London

Yes people chat.

However, women are absolutely innundated - so you may end up frustrated, with your message going unread for months (or completely).

It's not about rejection because we all have to suck that up - it's more about the amount of men blowing up women's inboxes.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

Exactly this!

Have something to offer other than your dick and you may just find more people interested in you

(to the guys who moan no one will shag them)

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By *rStamina88Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Yes people chat.

However, women are absolutely innundated - so you may end up frustrated, with your message going unread for months (or completely).

It's not about rejection because we all have to suck that up - it's more about the amount of men blowing up women's inboxes.

I very rarely message single women. Couples I message the most.

To meet single women it's best going to a club. Well clubs are always much better to meet anyone.

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By *r big girther OP Man
3 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Are there any fake profiles on here that anyone knows of?

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By *urious249Man
3 weeks ago

Newry

I rather have a bit of a chat with someone first, get to know what they're into, sexual health etc. See if there are any red flags before meeting.

Although I've had many "want a BJ?" Messages where they're just expecting me to go "yes" and leave the house straight away lol.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
3 weeks ago

your head

"Are there any fake profiles on here that anyone knows of?"

Probably some, just report them if you come across them. Naming and shaming is against site rules.

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By *r big girther OP Man
3 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"Are there any fake profiles on here that anyone knows of?

Probably some, just report them if you come across them. Naming and shaming is against site rules. "

How would I know, im only asking because recently there has been alot of new profiles but no picture and interested in everything, and no description 🤔

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By *ensman100Man
3 weeks ago

Hounslow

Yep!

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By *andystick72Man
3 weeks ago

kinky Street

No we just fuck lol

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By *onyHoveMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton

I find I have fairly regular nice conversations on here. It's not all about the meets. Its good to get to know people.

Spontaneous also good, obviously!

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By *izandpaulCouple
3 weeks ago

merseyside

It all depends what you are looking for.

We tend to politely refuse chat requests unless we are planning a meet as we can't see the point in just chatting to random folks who have no intention of meeting, much prefer chatting at swingers socials or 121.

It's each to their own but we have plenty of vanilla friends for chatting we use sites like FAB for swinging.

Good luck whatever it is you are searching for.

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By *ewbie09Man
3 weeks ago

alcester

Is this another, poor me, nobody replies to messages post.

Simple answer, women and couples are inundated with messages. Make yours stand out. If they don’t reply, so what. Move on. Simple

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife

"I rather have a bit of a chat with someone first, get to know what they're into, sexual health etc. See if there are any red flags before meeting.

Although I've had many "want a BJ?" Messages where they're just expecting me to go "yes" and leave the house straight away lol."

Had the check because that's usually what women get sent and do..... refreshing to hear a man with standards

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By *urious249Man
3 weeks ago

Newry

"I rather have a bit of a chat with someone first, get to know what they're into, sexual health etc. See if there are any red flags before meeting.

Although I've had many "want a BJ?" Messages where they're just expecting me to go "yes" and leave the house straight away lol.

Had the check because that's usually what women get sent and do..... refreshing to hear a man with standards "

I've made it clear on my profile to everyone that I'm not desperate to meet anyone from here. I would much rather quality over quantity so when it comes to that we definitely need to have some kind of standards lol

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