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By *eachyPairx OP   Couple
4 days ago

South Yorkshire

Evening everyone, Mrs P is really keen to explore the ENM world - but not really sure where to start looking as there doesn’t seem to be many single guys on here looking for that. Has anyone got any advice on the best places to look? Or any tips about that aspect of the lifestyle?

Thanks in advance!

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By *ear in the chairMan
4 days ago

yeah there

Surely your veries indicates you're already in an ENM relationship? Or do you mean Poly maybe?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 days ago

Coventry


"Surely your veries indicates you're already in an ENM relationship? Or do you mean Poly maybe?"

ENM is a really broad concept. Can you tell us a bit more of what she is looking to explore? Especially in terms of if it's sexual side missions, a full on additional love relationship or somewhere on the spectrum in-between? It may help focus people's replies. Obviously that's something you may be figuring out and subject to change. But a little more information at where you guys are at may help.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
2 days ago

Chester


"Surely your veries indicates you're already in an ENM relationship? Or do you mean Poly maybe?

ENM is a really broad concept. Can you tell us a bit more of what she is looking to explore? Especially in terms of if it's sexual side missions, a full on additional love relationship or somewhere on the spectrum in-between? It may help focus people's replies. Obviously that's something you may be figuring out and subject to change. But a little more information at where you guys are at may help."

This is great advice - ENM is a bit of a spectrum with swinging at one end and polyamory at the other - with a load of stuff in the middle.

The other thing to be aware of is that everyone will have different definitions of various labels and apply them to themselves in different ways, so never assume you know exactly what someone means when they say they’re ‘poly’ or whatever. Ask questions.

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By *oxy jWoman
2 days ago

taunton somerset

ENM is an acronym for ethical non-monogamy

as others have said its a very wide spectrum from swinging to poly

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
1 day ago

Back of the bins.

Enm is an umbrella term that sits over everything from porn producers to swingers and polyamory.

If you mean polyamory chuck your question up as lots of us here are poly!

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By *elkieWoman
1 hour ago

Durham

Yorkshire’s got a really strong ENM/poly community and a few events, get yourselves out to something.

However, all of my current partners bar one are people I met at kink or swing events (in one case, on fab) where we caught feelings. There’s a number of single blokes around who are up for a non-escalator relationship, but they tend to keep this very quiet

because they’ve been burned in the past.

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