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"What is “straight acting”? " It’s usually a term used in the gay community meaning looking/behaving hetero normative. It has become a predominant trend among gay/bi people. | |||
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"Personally, I think your profile pic is not especially appealing to everyone. A bit niche ? Your repeated request for privacy and discretion would stop me from messaging you. " Ok thanks i can make them changes i didnt know i set that as my profile pic lol x | |||
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"It goes on a little bit, and you'd be amazed just how many people are put off by poor spelling and grammar. " Hi thanks i was just going off what i was told last time to be more in depth but i know what you mean | |||
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"What is “straight acting”? Im bi and love to be a sub to couples so some like you to be fem and some like you to be manly I can play either role " | |||
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"What is “straight acting”? Im bi and love to be a sub to couples so some like you to be fem and some like you to be manly I can play either role " That might read versatile , can top or bottom or switch being Sub or Dom depending on the playdate. | |||
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Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything
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"I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look
Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything
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"Hi i start the sentences with i as im talking about myself as in trying to give a picture of what im like I agree the toilet pic is not the most appealing i may get one of the ladies at the spa to take a better pic of me I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look
Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything
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"I’m the same. I don’t know what to do with my profile I’m really struggling " Your first pic change it. You haven’t been on long and your competing with thousands of men so you really have to stand out. It’s not easy I would suggest going to a club | |||
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"I’m the same. I don’t know what to do with my profile I’m really struggling " "We do not use any other social media platforms". Who is "we"? | |||
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"I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look
Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything
But that's just my opinion. "Yeah I read 'any hole is a goal' too | |||
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"Your photos are over a year old and not particularly flattering and I have to be honest, I kinda cringed a little at the opening line. I would recommend you think of it as your shop window - you want to make it enticing, to encourage people to reach out, to know more" Hi what made you cringe lol! Ive had a bit of a manscape, I was speaking with one of the ladies at the spa the other week about the lack of response i get on here, she said it was probably down to how much hair i have on my chest and down below, it was not very attractive. She gave me a suggestion of a good electric razor and what grade to go for in each area. I feel so much more confident and i have had a few positive comments from the females in the sauna. | |||
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"Morning ladies and gents, I have redone my profile a few months back following the advice recieved, body pics and adding my hobbies in to my profile. However from the day i redone my profile i get no message replys at all. Is there something i have put in my profile thats putting people off? " Your photos are uninspiring (Try something more b&w erotic style maybe) The blurb length is ok but doesn't draw me in to want to message | |||
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"I’m the same. I don’t know what to do with my profile I’m really struggling " Your outnumbered as a single guy and your profile is your shop window. The photos are uninspiring You want an 18 &a 99 year old? It looks like you ticked everything on the interest box This makes me think you don't really care what or how you just want a shag. I'd never ask you for a face pic as I would personally have expected you to read my profile before messaging and it asks in there (so people who don't, well it's easy to move on to the next message). | |||
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