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By *untime40 OP   Man
5 days ago

Currently in Sevenoaks

Morning ladies and gents,

I have redone my profile a few months back following the advice recieved, body pics and adding my hobbies in to my profile.

However from the day i redone my profile i get no message replys at all.

Is there something i have put in my profile thats putting people off?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 days ago

Leeds

Personally, I think your profile pic is not especially appealing to everyone. A bit niche ?

Your repeated request for privacy and discretion would stop me from messaging you.

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By *anonfire96Man
5 days ago

Mansfield

It goes on a little bit, and you'd be amazed just how many people are put off by poor spelling and grammar.

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By *ack FrostyMan
5 days ago

Wolverhampton

What is “straight acting”?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"What is “straight acting”?

"

It’s usually a term used in the gay community meaning looking/behaving hetero normative. It has become a predominant trend among gay/bi people.

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By *untime40 OP   Man
5 days ago

Currently in Sevenoaks


"Personally, I think your profile pic is not especially appealing to everyone. A bit niche ?

Your repeated request for privacy and discretion would stop me from messaging you. "

Ok thanks i can make them changes i didnt know i set that as my profile pic lol x

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By *untime40 OP   Man
5 days ago

Currently in Sevenoaks


"It goes on a little bit, and you'd be amazed just how many people are put off by poor spelling and grammar. "

Hi thanks i was just going off what i was told last time to be more in depth but i know what you mean

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By *untime40 OP   Man
5 days ago

Currently in Sevenoaks


"What is “straight acting”?

Im bi and love to be a sub to couples so some like you to be fem and some like you to be manly

I can play either role

"

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By *WANDTGCouple
5 days ago

Borough of Greenwich


"What is “straight acting”?

Im bi and love to be a sub to couples so some like you to be fem and some like you to be manly

I can play either role

"

That might read versatile , can top or bottom or switch being Sub or Dom depending on the playdate.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 days ago

Central

A wide range of current photos would let people know what you look like today and decide if they may find you attractive.

If your text focuses on what you can give, they will know if you'd be a potential match. Nobody is for most people, it will only be a very tiny minority.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
5 days ago

Durham

I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look

Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything

But that's just my opinion.

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By *untime40 OP   Man
5 days ago

Currently in Sevenoaks

Hi i start the sentences with i as im talking about myself as in trying to give a picture of what im like

I agree the toilet pic is not the most appealing i may get one of the ladies at the spa to take a better pic of me


"I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look

Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything

But that's just my opinion. "

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By *untime40 OP   Man
5 days ago

Currently in Sevenoaks

[sorry missed out the age and looks bit i mean its about the person im meeting i need to click with them


"Hi i start the sentences with i as im talking about myself as in trying to give a picture of what im like

I agree the toilet pic is not the most appealing i may get one of the ladies at the spa to take a better pic of me

I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look

Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything

But that's just my opinion. "

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By *iceGuy305Man
15 hours ago

lancashire

I’m the same. I don’t know what to do with my profile I’m really struggling

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By *iss KinkWoman
15 hours ago

North West


"I’m the same. I don’t know what to do with my profile I’m really struggling "

Your first pic change it. You haven’t been on long and your competing with thousands of men so you really have to stand out. It’s not easy I would suggest going to a club

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By *allySlinkyWoman
15 hours ago

Leeds


"I’m the same. I don’t know what to do with my profile I’m really struggling "

"We do not use any other social media platforms". Who is "we"?

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By *andb69Couple
14 hours ago

leeds

The first rule in writing a profile is to write exactly what YOU want to write, not what others suggest you should write. Similarly, show the pictures that you, not others, want to post - even if it's 50 dick pics. That way the profile is real and honest. It shows exactly what you like and what you're like.

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By *midnight-Woman
14 hours ago

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"I'd probably not engage with you on the strength of your profile. Firstly the photos. Stood with your pants pulled down in a public toilet, isn't a great look

Your bio reads quite selfishly. Too many or your sentences start with 'I'. Also sex, age, looks unimportant isn't a particular great line. I read it that you'd be happy to go with anyone or anything

But that's just my opinion. "

Yeah I read 'any hole is a goal' too

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By *midnight-Woman
14 hours ago

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Your photos are over a year old and not particularly flattering and I have to be honest, I kinda cringed a little at the opening line.

I would recommend you think of it as your shop window - you want to make it enticing, to encourage people to reach out, to know more

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