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By *iswinger88 OP   Man
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Looking for advice… I’ve been on and off this site for a long time and not gonna lie, initially I used it because I enjoyed seeing the pictures and videos.

Recently, I’ve got into being active and I’ve had a couple of meets which are verified on my profile, but realistically my fantasy is to meet a couple.

I haven’t got a public face pic because I have come across people I know and I’m nervous about my private pictures getting out there but I always send face pics when messaging couples.

I haven’t had much luck at achieving my fantasy… what am I doing wrong?

If anyone has any genuine advice on how to improve my profile it would be v. V. Much appreciated.

Thank you in advance

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
7 days ago

There and Here

I think at the very least you need a profile pic and some public photos. None of these need to be your face, or indeed identifiable in any way. Without them, you're immediately putting yourself at a disadvantage.

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By *iswinger88 OP   Man
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Thanks. I’ll try find some suitable. I am always sceptical about people that aren’t verified but I get it… more pictures is better. Is a dick pic a turn off? Or a body pic better

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By *ack FrostyMan
6 days ago

Wolverhampton

You’re profile is confusing

You say not looking to meet single males but have veris from them, now preference can change but then you have this in your profile-

“Happy to meet singles also, though have a lot of messages from single guys so make it interesting!”

So what is it, you meeting them or not?

You also say you’ve put some effort in to your profile. Have you? Look at other male profiles and see how they read, don’t copy them

No public photos or profile photo will put many off. You can show parts of you without showing anything specific to identify you

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

Op you can have pics up that won't identify you, such as dressed but with your head cropped off. Or torso, bum pics.

We all value or privacy.

Without a public pic you'll struggle to find couples, as you have 2 people who'd need to be attracted to you.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

Many women and couples will look at the profile first when they get a message, if it's unappealing they won't read the message.

Think about filling in what you're offering couples and what you're into etc, so they have something to go on.

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