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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I struggle to get replies. Any advice to enhance my profile without public face pics

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By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Best of luck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Replies are very seldom to do with displaying face pics. There are a multitude of profiles without face pics

It’s about a profile as a whole plus how the first message is composed, that does not guarantee you a reply either

Good luck

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

As you are a site supporter, maybe add more photos, smartly dressed and maybe attend one of the social events when the clubs hold them

There's more to the site than just relying on messages

Chat rooms, and the forums and the meet section

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

They want to see your cock, not your phone!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Your blurb doesn't show any personality, OP. Write something that brings that out and shows why you'd be someone fun and worthwhile spending time with.

Also, just 2 pics, both more or less the same don't really sell you. Add some variety

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"They want to see your cock, not your phone!"

Not true actually, I find cock pics a complete turnoff

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

Perhaps only 1% of people are mutually compatible with each other, so the majority of people will not match you nor reply to you, as no reply = no thanks. Assuming that you get your message right, they'll take a good decision on whether you are right for them. Only you can know if you are doing this well.

Probably fewer people want a FB, nor is it as easy to get, as a nonFB type partner. Your wanting this could influence your results, so take decisions wisely.

A common complaint about men's profiles is that they are mainly about what they want and less so, about what they are bringing to an arrangement. The other side can only know if someone is right, if they truly know what the person would have brought to the engagement. They can't know or compare what you offer, with what they need. You've got to give them pics, so they can truly assess whether they'd want physical contact with your physical self. Likewise, your personality. Those are amongst the challenges you have. Take small steps and improve things, as you learn and progress.

It's fine to experiment with ideas, to compare your results

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"They want to see your cock, not your phone!

Not true actually, I find cock pics a complete turnoff"

Believe it or not that was my attempt at humour. Why have two shots of a phone? One one is bad enough!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all

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