FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By *inkystar1 OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Heathfield

Why do guys message from miles away...then get annoyed when I say No thank you.

Female frogs imitate death to ward off unwanted attention...maybe that's a good strategy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
4 weeks ago

all loved up

"Why do guys message from miles away...then get annoyed when I say No thank you.

Female frogs imitate death to ward off unwanted attention...maybe that's a good strategy "
I can't tell you why... but omg i can just imagine a stream of ladies playing dead in clubs now.. hahaha

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
4 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'm not sure that imitating death would be enough to stop some guys!

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I'm not sure that imitating death would be enough to stop some guys!"

Truth

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I'm not sure that imitating death would be enough to stop some guys!"

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By *anonfire96Man
4 weeks ago

Mansfield

Definitely not some guys especially if you're still warm.

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Because they are casting a very wide net, they "don't mind travelling", they are "in the area" for 5 minutes etc etc. and we are on a "sex site", how come we're not going to open our legs for them???

I get men upset by pointing them back to my profile that very clearly states I am not currently looking for anything. The most upset are those who, supposedly (at least according to their message), read my profile.

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By *inkystar1 OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Heathfield

"Because they are casting a very wide net, they "don't mind travelling", they are "in the area" for 5 minutes etc etc. and we are on a "sex site", how come we're not going to open our legs for them???

Yes and then they just fet rude. Usual one....well I didn't fancy you anyway

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By *izandpaulCouple
4 weeks ago

merseyside

"Why do guys message from miles away...then get annoyed when I say No thank you.

Female frogs imitate death to ward off unwanted attention...maybe that's a good strategy "

We always meet for a social initially.

If the guy, or couples, are miles away and are happy to travel for a drink in the pub, we are generally happy to meet.

We've found with most dreamers and fantasists its best to say yes, happy to meet up.

They tend to run a mile.

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By *ornucopiaMan
4 weeks ago

Bexley

"I'm not sure that imitating death would be enough to stop some guys!"

Especially as they are noted for wanking whilst appearing dead themselves!

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By *uliette500Woman
4 weeks ago

Hull

Clearly states on my profile that I only meet people who live fairly locally. If anyone messages who is over 60-70 miles away I just don't reply.

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By *he return of meMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

There's also the possibility that they're already planning to be in the area and want to meet someone while they're there. I met someone on here who was in Dublin, I asked her to meet a few weeks before I went. Went for a social

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

The answer would only lie with those who get annoyed

I've chatted with people miles away and continued with, it's not been one sided.

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By *uliette500Woman
4 weeks ago

Hull

"There's also the possibility that they're already planning to be in the area and want to meet someone while they're there. I met someone on here who was in Dublin, I asked her to meet a few weeks before I went. Went for a social"

My profile also says I don't want anyone passing through or here just for work so again I don't reply.

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By *inkystar1 OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Heathfield

I completely understand that but doesn't excuse being rude when I say no thank you

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By *he return of meMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I completely understand that but doesn't excuse being rude when I say no thank you "

Oh yeah forgot that bit. No excuse for rudeness

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By *uliette500Woman
3 weeks ago

Hull

I completely understand that but doesn't excuse being rude when I say no thank you "

And it is that rudeness that caused me to stop replying.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I also don't get this op

I recently had a man message me from Exeter, I'm in Yorkshire.

When i pointed out we were over 300 miles away and asked if he traveled up here, he said no...

I get some people travel, if they're gonna be nearby I'd expect them to message well in advance and tell me they'll be visiting.

Otherwise I'd delete too

When I am meeting, I'd never travel too far for a first meet, or want someone else to. I think they'd want more than a social & that's all I offer first meet anyway.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I'm guessing that the only thing some people look at is the profile pic.

If they like it, they message.

The first line of our bio is so clear saying what we want. It's so clear when it's not been read.

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By *ony MannMan
3 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Sometimes I'm hundreds of miles from home, or planning to be. Perhaps others are like that and want to strike up a conversation before asking for a meet.........perhaps swinging is only a fantasy for them, so Mike's do not matter

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

The frogs have it right.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

80% of my winks are from over 200 miles away.

WTAF?

I know my profile says I can travel, but no.

And certainly not for 5" next to a Lynx can.

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By *pslad99Man
3 weeks ago

colchester

Cost there desperate

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