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By *lascple24 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Just curious about some people’s preferences which we always respect.

We’re a straight couple so come across bi fem couple profiles who will say they only do girl/girl on a meet so not for us. However they also met single guys so the bi fem definitely has sex with guys from their verifications.

To us it’s an interesting dynamic. Is it about the bi fem enduring only she has sex with others and her partner doesn’t? Or is there another driver for this that we’re unaware of ?

Asking for a friend oh and not judging just curious.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 weeks ago

wonderland.

Can't help you there. We would however prefer a couple where we could both play with the lady etc...

So perhaps that's why... single guys would be joining them for a 3sum or more sum.

Also sometimes it just doesn't flow right when someone is worried about forgetting themselves. For instance we had a couple refuse to meet us as Mr is straight and the gent didn't want to get carried away and touch Mr

Perhaps it's similar

Cali

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't seek single men.

But when I want one, there's always one on hand.

So it may be not that they don't enjoy meeting single men, just that's freely available and advertising for it results in the flood.

Just because their ideal scenario is them and a bi female doesn't mean they don't enjoy other scenarios 💜

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

There is loads of possible dynamics. The guy from the couple could be a cuckold or he could just enjoy watching his lady playing with another man. Or she loves being spoiled by two men? The dynamic gets much more complicated when there are two MF couples, regardless of whether both ladies are bi or not. There is the question of 4-way attraction, rules and boundaries, synchronising the diaries etc. If the couple wants a man, it's way easier to get one who is single, not in a couple. Also, by saying they would only meet bi females, for girl on girl play, they may be trying to filter all the fantasists, wannabe couples where there is the guy only or where she is as bi as I am the king of China.

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By *andPextraCouple
4 weeks ago

North West

I only ever involve other men on a few occasions a year, generally when I meet in clubs.

On here with couples I play with ladies but not gents; hence the male half is welcome to either watch (lots don’t turn that down…) or its a voyeuristic experience for all, where they can watch me and hubby and we watch them as a couple. Again, dont get many problems getting people to agree to it.

If i had to explain why i do it, its probably as I’m far more likely to find the female attractive than the fella.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

People sometimes alter their preferences to suit a specific occasion.

We always say that we prefer to meet couples....it's a really nice dynamic, we just never seem to find any.

We therefore occasionally look for solo meets.

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By *lascple24 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Glasgow


"People sometimes alter their preferences to suit a specific occasion.

We always say that we prefer to meet couples....it's a really nice dynamic, we just never seem to find any.

We therefore occasionally look for solo meets. "

Yes we prefer couple meets but being a straight couple it seems almost impossible. We’ve met one couple in the last three years. It seems the site is pretty much single guys or bi fem couples.

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By *carlettxWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex


"I only ever involve other men on a few occasions a year, generally when I meet in clubs.

On here with couples I play with ladies but not gents; hence the male half is welcome to either watch (lots don’t turn that down…) or its a voyeuristic experience for all, where they can watch me and hubby and we watch them as a couple. Again, dont get many problems getting people to agree to it.

If i had to explain why i do it, its probably as I’m far more likely to find the female attractive than the fella. "

This is me

Generally I prefer female play with a couple as rarely the guy is my type and meeting single guys I can cherry pick to my preference

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