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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
6 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Hi All,

Jyst a quick one, I send a message it gets seen, then they look on my profile and that's it 9 times out of 10.

So i would welcome anyone to look at it and give honest advice.

Thank you in advance.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

It is frequently mentioned on here, and confirmed by friends, that women will often look at a sender's profile before opening the message, let alone reply to it. If they are not replying then take that as a "no thank you".

If you feel that there is a greater number of them simply looking at your profile to no avail then perhaps remove some/all of your cock photos.☮️

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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
6 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Thank you for the reply

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

You have 2 recent meet verifications so what is the problem exactly?

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
6 weeks ago

Chester

Have a rethink of your profile heading - because 9 times out of ten that is exactly what it means, and having that as your title starts things off on a negative. You could hint at why you can’t accommodate in your profile text.

As has been already said, rethink your photos, and spell check your text. I’m the kind of person that will be put off by a typo on your third word in…

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By *erdyNymph89Woman
6 weeks ago

ELLESMERE PORT


"Hi All,

Jyst a quick one, I send a message it gets seen, then they look on my profile and that's it 9 times out of 10.

So i would welcome anyone to look at it and give honest advice.

Thank you in advance. "

You've been here a matter of months with a verified couple of meets, profile is fleshed out enough and all you can do is mix up your pictures but seems like you're doing ok.

Very much a numbers game on here with such a huge variety of preferences and such

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By *hyguyvanilla1978Man
6 weeks ago

Northampton

Your profile heading I would class as not good enough put it more about you not what you think

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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
6 weeks ago

East Yorkshire


"Have a rethink of your profile heading - because 9 times out of ten that is exactly what it means, and having that as your title starts things off on a negative. You could hint at why you can’t accommodate in your profile text.

As has been already said, rethink your photos, and spell check your text. I’m the kind of person that will be put off by a typo on your third word in…"

Thank you, i am dyslexic and make an extra effort not to fall foul to this, and I have taken on what you mentioned about the title.

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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
6 weeks ago

East Yorkshire


"Your profile heading I would class as not good enough put it more about you not what you think"

Title has been altered, thank you.

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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
6 weeks ago

East Yorkshire


"Hi All,

Jyst a quick one, I send a message it gets seen, then they look on my profile and that's it 9 times out of 10.

So i would welcome anyone to look at it and give honest advice.

Thank you in advance.

You've been here a matter of months with a verified couple of meets, profile is fleshed out enough and all you can do is mix up your pictures but seems like you're doing ok.

Very much a numbers game on here with such a huge variety of preferences and such "

Thank you for the reply, appreciate the comment

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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
6 weeks ago

East Yorkshire


"You have 2 recent meet verifications so what is the problem exactly? "

Not quite sure how to reply to this one.... I like fun 😁

I do appreciate what you are saying tho.. I should be happy

Thank you for the reply

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By *hyguyvanilla1978Man
6 weeks ago

Northampton

Any advice or comments on mine are greatly appreciated

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Any advice or comments on mine are greatly appreciated "

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The protocol is to create your own thread and ask there. ☮️

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By *midnight-Woman
6 weeks ago

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I mean two meets on a 3 month old profile is pretty good.. But if people are consistently opening the message (which in itself is a miracle) and then not replying, it means your opening gambit isn't capturing their attention

Profile text is ok - bit disjointed and the odd typo.

The cartoon face pic would put me off, but I'm sure others will like it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Central

It's standard for receivers to view a profile, usually first. They won't reply if you don't likely seem mutually compatible. To get above 1% attraction is pretty positive.

Your profile is generally good. A bigger range of photos would allow people a better chance to know how much they may like you.

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