FabSwingers.com forum: Is my Mrs playing away ????

By *he Cockfather OP Man
32 weeks ago

Warrington

1. She doesnt want sex intercourse

2. She doesnt want oral

3. Her profile was found on a dating site , when called out she said she did not set it up , her friend did for a laugh.

4. Found some sexy under wear, that ive never seen her wear.

5. Suppose thats why I am on here haha

6. Finally, any decent dating sites haha

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By *emonochromeMan
32 weeks ago

Watford

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
32 weeks ago

Hatfield

Sorry you are doomed mate

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By *mmaleiaWoman
32 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Perfect couple deceiving eachother

Just talk

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By *entlemanrogueMan
32 weeks ago

Motherwell

Talk to her, and create a couples Fab profile.

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By *ellhungvweMan
32 weeks ago

Cheltenham

You have been on here for over a year so unless all her stuff happened before that then I guess 5 should read:

5. Suppose thats why she is on there haha

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By *idlandiaMan
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

Kind of sounds like projection on her to justify you cheating..

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Maybe she found out you've been going behind her back. Just a thought

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
32 weeks ago

warrington

Simple, go on the dating site, set yourself up a fake profile, and message her to see if she’s available.

Take a bottle of Pena Colada.

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By *anny lad121Man
32 weeks ago

preston

Your on here what's the problem your both cheating

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By *moothdickMan
32 weeks ago

stoke

Think u already know the answer, dude

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
32 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I really don’t understand sexless relationships. Sex is a normal part of a relationship, so if one partner doesn’t want sex anymore, the other partner really should be finding out why that is.

Is it something that can be fixed? If so, fix it. If not, agree what’s gonna happen moving forward. Do they just not want sex with you or not want sex at all. Discuss opening the relationship perhaps. In my experience, if one side isn’t giving the other any, sooner or later they will look elsewhere.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
32 weeks ago

London

Yes, she is. Are you, OP?

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By *b03Man
32 weeks ago

Exeter

Oh the irony

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
32 weeks ago

Hatfield

Perhaps she is looking for a bigger cock to satisfy her .. maybe some one with a 2 foot cock cos your monster is naturally not floating her boat .. anymore

Ever think she or a friend saw you on fab and worked the oracle?

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By *he Cockfather OP Man
32 weeks ago

Warrington

Totally agree, often get mixed messages from each other. We have chatted, MANY TIMES menopause factors etc. She doesnt want it or doesnt want to get me aroused. Previously it was fab. Stumped atm. She never pressures me to establsh what my needs are , nor doesnt care. I have given her time space & tried. But finding here on dating site was a shocker. Rather be honest & end it. Its more about can you have a sex less relationship. Its never been an issue for me previously. Was hoping for some help on here. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

All sounds like it to me but a couple of questions.

1) Does the prospect of another man fucking her give you wood?

2) you're asking this question on a sex site so you must be playing away too? (Or at least planning to)

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By *igkissMan
32 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Mine is on a hen weekend in Blackpool???????

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By *r TriomanMan
32 weeks ago

Malmesbury

"Simple, go on the dating site, set yourself up a fake profile, and message her to see if she’s available.

Take a bottle of Pena Colada."

And if you arrange to meet outside, there's a very real chance that you'll get caught in the rain so bonus

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By *weetiepie99Woman
32 weeks ago

cardiff

"Totally agree, often get mixed messages from each other. We have chatted, MANY TIMES menopause factors etc. She doesnt want it or doesnt want to get me aroused. Previously it was fab. Stumped atm. She never pressures me to establsh what my needs are , nor doesnt care. I have given her time space & tried. But finding here on dating site was a shocker. Rather be honest & end it. Its more about can you have a sex less relationship. Its never been an issue for me previously. Was hoping for some help on here. Thank you

But you are on here cheating yourself, for over a year!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Just end the relationship.

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By *djt1Man
32 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It sounds like you're ideal for each other. Her on a dating site and you on here.

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By *s-two-75Couple
32 weeks ago

clubs only

She’s currently posting on another site….

I think my haobands cheating..

1. Found his profile on a swing site….

2…

Talk to her, her view of it might be different….if you don’t it’s doomed anyway both on sites looking for others….so nothing to lose

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
32 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably knows your at it and thought why the fuck don't I get mine too.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't know if she knows you're on here but be honest with her about that and tell her exactly how you want to move forward explaining that if you can't come to a mutual agreement you're going to end your marriage. She can then tell you her conditions for moving forward and you can agree to carry on together or apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Awww, true love ❤️

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"1. She doesnt want sex intercourse

2. She doesnt want oral

3. Her profile was found on a dating site , when called out she said she did not set it up , her friend did for a laugh.

4. Found some sexy under wear, that ive never seen her wear.

5. Suppose thats why I am on here haha

6. Finally, any decent dating sites haha

1.Great cock

2.Yes she is

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Central

You joined Fab because of your relationship over a year ago. You both need to communicate and work out your futures.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
32 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"1. She doesnt want sex intercourse

WITH YOU

2. She doesnt want oral

PROVES NOTHING

3. Her profile was found on a dating site , when called out she said she did not set it up , her friend did for a laugh.

WITH FRIENDS LIKE THOSE...... ( are you all six ? )

4. Found some sexy under wear, that ive never seen her wear.

WOW.... IS SHE THAT CONTROLLED ?

5. Suppose thats why I am on here haha

NAH ..... YOU ARE HERE AS YOU WANT TO BE AND USING HER SUSPECTED BEHAVIOUR TO JUSTIFY YOUR OWN BAD BEHAVIOUR ( if any of this is bad rather than sad that is )

6. Finally, any decent dating sites haha

LOADS.......... FOR SINGLE MEN.

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By *a LunaWoman
32 weeks ago

o o OO o o

If you reverse image search a face pic of hers you’re likely to get the answer you’re looking for.

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By *ad NannaWoman
32 weeks ago

East London

Possibly. Probably.

There were signs my ex was cheating, before he made it obvious.

Wouldn't have sex with me.

Didn't kiss me.

No oral.

Being particular with his underwear and trimmed his pubic hair.

I found a photo on my laptop he had accidentally taken while on Chaturbate.

Someone thinks that was me controlling him. I don't get it.

I didn't immediately go out and find someone to get my own back.

Years after I first suspected him of having an affair with a family friend, and eventually him admitting it, I found a much younger lover to have the intimacy he was withholding from me.

It filled that gap in my life, but it didn't make me feel better.

I'm still not over how he treated me.

I'd confront her and get it all dealt with ASAP, before you waste years of your life not knowing, and being accused of cheating yourself.

All the best.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
32 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I'm not having a go op

But your obviously cheating on your wife with being on here

So I'd call it Karma if she is cheating

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
32 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Are you only thinking about ending it now you think she's doing what you've been trying to do for at least a year?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
32 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Possibly. Probably.

There were signs my ex was cheating, before he made it obvious.

Wouldn't have sex with me.

Didn't kiss me.

No oral.

Being particular with his underwear and trimmed his pubic hair.

I found a photo on my laptop he had accidentally taken while on Chaturbate.

Someone thinks that was me controlling him. I don't get it.

I didn't immediately go out and find someone to get my own back.

Years after I first suspected him of having an affair with a family friend, and eventually him admitting it, I found a much younger lover to have the intimacy he was withholding from me.

It filled that gap in my life, but it didn't make me feel better.

I'm still not over how he treated me.

I'd confront her and get it all dealt with ASAP, before you waste years of your life not knowing, and being accused of cheating yourself.

All the best."

He didn’t do it to hurt you, although he knew it would if he got caught. Men and women think about sex and relationships and cheating in completely different ways. I’m not justifying his actions, just trying to get you to think about it differently. Don’t think “he did this to me”, think about it as “he couldn’t control himself and in better off without him”

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By *electableicecreamMan
32 weeks ago

The West

"Possibly. Probably.

There were signs my ex was cheating, before he made it obvious.

Wouldn't have sex with me.

Didn't kiss me.

No oral.

Being particular with his underwear and trimmed his pubic hair.

I found a photo on my laptop he had accidentally taken while on Chaturbate.

Someone thinks that was me controlling him. I don't get it.

I didn't immediately go out and find someone to get my own back.

Years after I first suspected him of having an affair with a family friend, and eventually him admitting it, I found a much younger lover to have the intimacy he was withholding from me.

It filled that gap in my life, but it didn't make me feel better.

I'm still not over how he treated me.

I'd confront her and get it all dealt with ASAP, before you waste years of your life not knowing, and being accused of cheating yourself.

All the best.

Couldn't control himself? We're talking about a grown ass man here not a d*unk adolescent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Possibly. Probably.

There were signs my ex was cheating, before he made it obvious.

Wouldn't have sex with me.

Didn't kiss me.

No oral.

Being particular with his underwear and trimmed his pubic hair.

I found a photo on my laptop he had accidentally taken while on Chaturbate.

Someone thinks that was me controlling him. I don't get it.

I didn't immediately go out and find someone to get my own back.

Years after I first suspected him of having an affair with a family friend, and eventually him admitting it, I found a much younger lover to have the intimacy he was withholding from me.

It filled that gap in my life, but it didn't make me feel better.

I'm still not over how he treated me.

I'd confront her and get it all dealt with ASAP, before you waste years of your life not knowing, and being accused of cheating yourself.

All the best.

Excusing mens actions as not being able to control themselves is naive and dangerous. Adults can control their actions and are very well aware of the consequences

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By *issmorganWoman
32 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Kind of sounds like projection on her to justify you cheating.."

This

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
32 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I think you've run your course. If you don't do it for her anymore then you shouldn't be together making each other miserable

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By *pthillMan
32 weeks ago

st shithole

"1. She doesnt want sex intercourse

2. She doesnt want oral

3. Her profile was found on a dating site , when called out she said she did not set it up , her friend did for a laugh.

4. Found some sexy under wear, that ive never seen her wear.

5. Suppose thats why I am on here haha

6. Finally, any decent dating sites haha

Yes, she’s getting bummed raw

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By *urvy ClarissaWoman
32 weeks ago

wigan

If she’s not interested in sex with you I’d say you’ve lost her respect and you’re not fulfilling her needs elsewhere. That’s where you need to look and if that can’t be rectified I doubt the sexual connection will ever return - just write it off and move on.

You can be a sexual person but if you’re pissed off with the relationship in general sex is no longer on the cards. Thats my humble opinion anyway! 😂

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By *azmar62Couple
32 weeks ago

Hinckley

My wife would never play away. She can have as much cock and pussy as she wants, that’s a fair bit aswell. I’m lucky to have found my life partner and she thinks the same. Don’t forget folks. The grass always looks greener? You have found that special girl to begin with.

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By *ildTimes.Man
32 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

🍿🍿🍿😁

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By *ansoffateMan
32 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Don't let it become toxic. With all the games and fuckery and tit for tat.

If it's hard to communicate, maybe couples counselling may help? That's kind of what it's best for.

If your needs aren't getting met and it's making you miserable then something needs to change. I am fairly certain sneaking around fucking other people isn't a positive solution though.

You're going to get mud slung at you here it's just how this place is.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
32 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If her brain works the same ways yours did at finding her on a dating site maybe she just found out you'd been on here over a year.

If your relationship isn't working at least talk it out with her and see if there's a resolution. If not, give both of yourselves the freedom to do what you want without having to lie to or hurt each other 💜

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Sounds like she's having more fun than you 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *end1Man
31 weeks ago

southend on sea

Wait am I reading this right the op is obviously cheating yet seems to be annoyed by the thought his wife maybe getting her own fun away from the material bed!.... I do hope so.

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By *dnap23Man
31 weeks ago

Sheffield

Wise words 😊

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By *iss KinkWoman
31 weeks ago

Up North

But you are on here cheating yourself, for over a year!!!"

Exactly. I hope she finds a better person

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By *uga40Man
31 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

"1. She doesnt want sex intercourse

2. She doesnt want oral

3. Her profile was found on a dating site , when called out she said she did not set it up , her friend did for a laugh.

4. Found some sexy under wear, that ive never seen her wear.

5. Suppose thats why I am on here haha

6. Finally, any decent dating sites haha

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is she on here

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I hope so

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By *othario lMan
31 weeks ago

Burnley

Just talk. My other half knows about me on here and she is free to explore her sexual needs too.

Makes for a wet, squirty time when we meet as I'm always rock solid from her sexploits......

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By *idcot58Man
31 weeks ago

Chepstow

Nothing better than wife fucking u should ask her if she wants group sex

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By *ayd100Man
31 weeks ago

clitheroe

Your sexual history.

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By *mily36CWoman
31 weeks ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"... Don’t forget folks. The grass always looks greener?..."

But unless you want it to grow wild, ALL grass needs tending too...

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
31 weeks ago

doncaster

Warrington isn’t massively to far from us…. What’s your wife’s dating profile

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By *issFussyWoman
31 weeks ago

hitchin

Playing away or not she’s checked out

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By *oney HoneyWoman
31 weeks ago

York

Yep she is definitely having an affair. Think you already know that though!

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By *he fab twoCouple
31 weeks ago

brentwood

Be funny if you both turnt up for a date with each other

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By *tu.xMan
31 weeks ago

around

And finally ask her whats the best dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Ask her if you could watch her in action

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By *vcdmodeljennyTV/TS
31 weeks ago

marske

She's getting a good fuckingq

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By *vcdmodeljennyTV/TS
31 weeks ago

marske

She's getting a good fucking

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By *arriedLookingMan
31 weeks ago

Dumfries

Would be awesome to find my wife had a profile on a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

We have overcome some big hurdles together, we have hit the brink a few times... yet here we are 14 years and counting... our love, commitment and respect for each other has done nothing but grow since we learnt to be fully open with each other... and that is the key!

Talk!

At 1 point you were best friends, told each other everything and looked at each others happiness as your number 1 priorities.

Something changed. Like with every couple it does. You grow, you change. Sometimes you grow closer and at times you grow further away. We all go through it.

How do you deal with it?

You talk!

You speak out honestly about your wants and needs in life. You respect each other's views and decisions even if its not in your favor.

Reset!

Talk!

Respect each other!

One way or another it will get resolved.

Wishing you the best.

Jay

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By *Silver-Man
31 weeks ago

North Wales

I'll send her home soon

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Sounds like someone is just playing out a fantasy and wants some attention….

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
31 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

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By *hitetornadoMan
31 weeks ago

rotherham

Well what’s good for the goose is good for the gander I suppose

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By *ink vixenCouple
31 weeks ago

Medway

We all had a great time with her at a recent club visit.

She’s a hell of a goer!

You should have been there.

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By *pslad99Man
31 weeks ago

pinewood

Defo playing away

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
31 weeks ago

Southport

"Kind of sounds like projection on her to justify you cheating.."

This

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By *iguymatureMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow

"1. She doesnt want sex intercourse

2. She doesnt want oral

3. Her profile was found on a dating site , when called out she said she did not set it up , her friend did for a laugh.

4. Found some sexy under wear, that ive never seen her wear.

5. Suppose thats why I am on here haha

6. Finally, any decent dating sites haha

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going through similar things at the moment but getting a divorce as mutual agreement

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By *fhaa2018Couple
30 weeks ago

Dundee

You are lucky wish my wife do that

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By *andb69Couple
30 weeks ago

leeds

Perfectly matched couple by the sound of it.

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