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By *erigold300 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

We loved our first club trip. We only played with each other, but it was nevertheless one of the most erotic nights of our life.

We had our second club trip recently, we hooked up twice in one night ( self scandalised). It was awesome.

However, it’s now well into the week after and I’m struggling to function in decent society. I’m harassing my husband at work and depleting our stores of batteries. I don’t want to feel like this going into Christmas.

Please someone, tell me this is normal.

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By *wirlandtwistCouple
5 weeks ago

Barnsley

Totally normal! We're exactly the same haha like we're sex crazed teen-agers again

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Northampton

Sounds like you’re suffering from a hornover

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By *impressiveMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester south

hornover! Brilliant

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

Aww I miss this!

I think we go out enough that it's really just a standard part of our life now so although the buzz is there for the weekend, by Monday, it's back to muggle life as normal

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By *aramel.desiresMan
5 weeks ago

London

It's probably equal to sub-drop. It's coming down from cloud 9. It's important to look after each other during this time n

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By *ollie and hughCouple
5 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

Totally normal, we started in August and still get a "bangover" every time we go!

Sex drive has gone through the roof! Just go with the flow

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
5 weeks ago

Cardiff

I'll let you know if it ever ends

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 weeks ago

Midlands

We're always horny the night after a club night (though sometimes a bit sore!). We’re always horny the night after that too...

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
5 weeks ago

Coventry

I remember we were complete fiends for clubs after our first visit. It didn't (or did depending who you veiw it) help that we were in waking distance from a club. So we spent a lot of time in clubs and Mrs Misfit even had her birthday party in our local club (which a couple of close vanilla freinds also came to). So yes we know what it's like to get smitten with the club bug.

Over the years we have tried many different Clubs around the country, been to a swinger festival and had a holiday to a nude swingers resort in Gran Canaria. We are very much club swingers and I would say nearly all of our encounters have come from clubs/parties (the rest mainly from vanilla nights out, very little from fab).

We still have or favourite clubs. But when you go to the same club over and over you can still love the club but it can start feeling a bit samey and the same faces. You can get too comfortable there (if that makes sense). So it's really good to travel around. To have the butterflies again walking into a unknown space and seeing a new set of faces. I think for us trying a new club just sparks a little of that excitement and nerves like the early days.

As time has gone on we've chilled a bit. We still love clubs but we don't go so much because we also chose to do more other things with our limited free time.

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By *erigold300 OP   Couple
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

Some good advice in there!

Is there any club in the UK worth making an effort to get to?

As someone else mentioned, we’ve gone a bit fiendish.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
5 weeks ago

Coventry

Clubs are a bit subjective as many have slightly different vibes/styles/formats.

I think our personal favourites are:

Chameleons (near Walsall)

Pandoras (Leeds)

Club Play (Blackpool)

Although we'll be visiting The Attic (Derby) again soon. And if this time is anything like the last time we visited (the new venue) it could well be heading to the top three. We really like what they've done with the new club and the vibe.

However there's lots of other good clubs we've tried (and some not so good). Like we say it's subjective so best thing is if you like the look of a club just go and try it, make your own opinion.

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