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"I guess your right and tbf that’s the thing I don’t know what to put never passed any GCSE’s " You've described yourself, put a bit about the type of person you'd like to meet. It's a common complaint from lots of people that it's hard to get a conversation going let alone meet. Have you tried the chat rooms? | |||
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"i think my problem is ive spent my whole adult life not getting the sex i wanted while all my friends were doing all sorts I allowed my wifes fear of me going with someone else restric my life and now its like ive been let loose in a sweet shop dont really know what do with all the sweets" Perhaps think of them as people who need to stimulated in some way (often mentally before you're even in with a chance of meeting socially, let alone seeing anything else), instead of confectionery? Just a thought. 😂 Analogy or not, the reason most men are struggling is because of their attitudes, not their appearance. Chill out, have a wank, clear your mind and get rid of that unsightly "I want to fuck" attitude. We all want to fuck. It's kinda why we're here. You don't need to say it all day, every day, to every woman you attempt to talk to. Conversation. It's as simple as that. Speak like a normal person, not some sex-crazed maniac only interested in getting their dick wet. It actually pains me that this has to be pointed out. 😂 You know when the ladies post a status update and they're complaining or laughing at the ridiculous messages they receive? That's you. They're laughing at you, guys. Maybe change your tactics and actually make some effort? /micdrop | |||
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"yeah i appreciate the advice but the tone sucks mate" Yes, I was blunt. I don't apologise for that whatsoever. But honestly, re-read all of the threads ever made about how "things are bad here" and "nobody is talking to me" then you'll realise why I was blunt. It's the same tired old things, over and over. You kinda have to be blunt these days, as many just don't take the hint, even if told clearly and concisely. This is just how things are. Whether anyone wants to hear it in that particular fashion or not, is moot. Ask the women and couples, who have to put up with this every day. We (men) have it so easy here, in comparison. Oh, no men aren't getting swamped with messages. The horror! Imagine having to sort out 100+ most days, the majority of which are vulgar and abusive. Compared to that, this was tame. A light smack on the backside, if anything. I comment because I've seen it all before, elsewhere. The act never changes, only the venue. It's like Groundhog Day. Tomorrow there will be the same things being said, then the next, the next and the next day after that. And so it goes on, the cycle repeats indefinitely. Making people aware of how ridiculous they are acting is the only way to make any real changes. Knowledge is power, as they say. If what I've said helps one person realise their mistakes, then it's for the greater good. I'm not claiming to be a White Knight or flying the banner of #NotAllMen, but I will comment on what I've seen, experienced and learned over the years. In the time I've done this, the one constant of the casual world is the ridiculous attitudes of men towards women. They often expect sex without effort, to be replied to without delay, to be given attention when they have provided nothing. Then wonder why they don't get replies, ignored or blocked. Which typically results in toys being thrown out and shitty posts about how bad things are. 😂 I'm merely an observer, nothing more. | |||
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"women used to run things back in pre history and there were no organised wars. " There were wars in both Cleopatra and Boudicca's times | |||
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"all that to say keep doing what your doing and nudging the ignorant newcomers like me to a better place" You're thinking/assuming I'm aiming everything I've said only at you. 🤔 I wasn't. Most of it was just speaking in general, but it was a good example of how people need to be told things, I suppose. 😂 | |||
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 . Only a tiny fraction of people are mutually compatible. All of the others won't be and won't typically communicate with you. The Fab standard is no reply = no thanks. It's a bit different from most places. When your profile, including pics, are near perfect and your messages are good, you're doing your best to have them select you, when you're all compatible. | |||
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