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By *bdangles10 OP   Man
6 hours ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

Always thought I was a good average but recently been considering that might not be the case haha. Would love to hear a second perspective? Photos on my profile

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
6 hours ago

Around the Midlands

Why do you think so? Has something happened to change your perception? Hopefully it's not due to lack of meets on this 🫣

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By *bdangles10 OP   Man
6 hours ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

Before my relationship I didnt used to have too much trouble speaking to women and getting interest wether it's a number or social etc. Where as now I seem to really struggle, I still make women laugh but then I either get turned down or I get a number and they barely reply. I guess it's just felt more difficult since my break so I'm left unsure if this is just the way dating is now or wether I've just not aged well haha x

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 hours ago

Midlands

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is a well known phrase. Some Women will find you attractive some wont, it's the same for all of us.

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By *WB85Man
6 hours ago

Staffordshire

Fab makes every man doubt whether or not they're attractive.

Don't over think the process is my only advice.

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By *bdangles10 OP   Man
5 hours ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

Simple but affective! Good advice my guy

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By *bdangles10 OP   Man
5 hours ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

I guess I'm just waiting on the "some will" haha

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By *aarv80Man
5 hours ago

Crumlin

You are in a similar position to me a few months ago it seems..

Fab can be a killer for the confidence of a single man until you learn to not take rejection personally.

Add that on top of the feelings you are undoubtedly getting from dealing with the breakup and it's a recipe for feeling unattractive for sure.

Just relax into things and take time to process your thoughts and feelings. In the real world you have a fighters chance, but on fab a single man is a throwaway commodity....

Just be yourself a d you will find your people

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By *layfullsamMan
1 hour ago

Solihull


"Always thought I was a good average but recently been considering that might not be the case haha. Would love to hear a second perspective? Photos on my profile "

Forget pulling on fab for awhile and just use it for the forum or get yourself to a club.

Get yourself out to pubs and just chat and mingle with the ladies without worrying if you pull or not.

If you do great, if you don’t you’ve still had a good night with friends.

Fab will eat away at you if you let it

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By *itygamesMan
1 hour ago

UK

Women are attractive...

Its handsome for men

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 hour ago

Central

You're reasonably attractive.

But most people are not and will never be mutually compatible with most other people. Don't rate your attraction by the number of replies or meetings you get. Assume it will be about 2% or others who may be mutually compatible but it could be far fewer.

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