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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i wud love to meet up with some of the hot guys who have contacted me on this site but What's the safest way for me to rendevous with someone I've never met b4 if I don't have a gud friend to accompany me. ...... safety!!!???

BTW this is new territory for me. .... not taken plunge b4 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public place,,,, cafe or pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitly somewhere public so there is no pressure on either side you will also get the chance to see if they actually look like the pics they have on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As stated, a public place, be it a cafe or bar. If you have friends you can tell where you're going, make sure you tell them, just say it's a date if you want to keep it secret...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do have a verification though from a single guy???

That aside, def meet them in a public place, maybe during the day time, it's not always expected for anyone to play on a first meet so there's no pressure for either party, make sure you bet them well and (sorry guys) look out for those with a few verifications and do your homework, just to be safe.

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do have a verification though from a single guy???

That aside, def meet them in a public place, maybe during the day time, it's not always expected for anyone to play on a first meet so there's no pressure for either party, make sure you bet them well and (sorry guys) look out for those with a few verifications and do your homework, just to be safe.

Good luck xx"

Bet them???? Lol Vet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely you have also verified the same guy saying you have met him the next day.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that is genuine verification but someone I spent time chatting to & getting to know over period of time...... what If I wanna dive in! Thx for your feedback guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah that is genuine verification but someone I spent time chatting to & getting to know over period of time...... what If I wanna dive in! Thx for your feedback guys x"

go to a swingers club, it has to be the safest place to meet up....and if he is not as described lol you can find a hunky man in the club of your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i wud love to meet up with some of the hot guys who have contacted me on this site but What's the safest way for me to rendevous with someone I've never met b4 if I don't have a gud friend to accompany me. ...... safety!!!???

BTW this is new territory for me. .... not taken plunge b4 x"
My first meet he picked me up in a public place and my friend took me there in her car and waited till he arrived. I made sure she knew what he looked like beforehand and she also had his car details and where we were going to be, and I text her when we got there and when I got home. Did the texting thing for a few more times after that, and only do that now when Im meeting someone new. Hope that helps and have fun

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Yeah that is genuine verification but someone I spent time chatting to & getting to know over period of time...... what If I wanna dive in! Thx for your feedback guys x"

Do that all thew time. Get to know them online first. Then when/if you feel comfortable and decide to meet them always meet in a public place. Tell them the first meet will be a social meet only. Maybe confide in a friend you swing or make a friend on Fab. Every time you go out to meet somebody make sure somebody knows where you are going, who you are going to meet etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i wud love to meet up with some of the hot guys who have contacted me on this site but What's the safest way for me to rendevous with someone I've never met b4 if I don't have a gud friend to accompany me. ...... safety!!!???

BTW this is new territory for me. .... not taken plunge b4 x"

My first meet, my mate took me there in her car and waited till he turned up. She helped stem my nerves a little, even though my hands didnt stop shaking with nerves. But yes public place - its what I did, we went for a coffee and a chat. Enjoy yourself and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my friends know where i am going or what i am doing when i have meets.

Public place as others have suggested to start and then take it from there if you feel comfy...also why don't you speak to females here also make friends who have the same interests then you can be each others safety call.

Have fun

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