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"It depends how far you want to take it. We don't use protection for oral. If people are that worried about their safety they wouldn't kiss or anything. " Very true about kissing, good point! | |||
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"Chlamydia, syphilis and gonnorhea asking with genital warts and herpes can be transmitted via oral sex according to the NHS web site. " I know, but can’t imagine oral with a condom or dam is very pleasurable. Leads me back to my original thought, if using condoms for sex but then doing oral without protection is pointless 🤔 | |||
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"I've known 2 people now with throat cancer caused by the HPV virus. It can lay dormant for years! " Thank goodness that an ever increasing proportion of the population is HPV vaccinated now  | |||
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"….is this pointless? Does it only make sense to use protection for both, or neither? With regards to STIs, not contraception. " Oral sex is the least risky for transmission of all STDs, followed by vaginal then anal, so many go without protection for it. Also, the incurable STD, HIV/AIDS, is not transmitted via oral sex. However, there is still an appreciable risk of getting gonorrhoea, chlamydia, and syphilis via oral sex, which is heighteined if you receive cum in your mouth like many people do. So protection is definitely not pointless for oral. I occassionally use it for oral and always for PIV, regardless of whether I have recent test data for my partner. STD testing can be innaccurate due to false negatives and having sex just once after having a test invalidates the results entirely. You have to also be cautious about trusting people's word. | |||
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"The ph environment of the mouth is different to the vagina (7 Vs around 4), which is going to affect how STDs (among other infections) thrive. You are more likely to get affected through vaginal sex than oral. Obviously oral sex is not risk-free, but a lot of people don't like the taste of condoms (even the flavoured ones) and, despite the risks, they choose to engage in unprotected oral. The risk of getting STD via unprotected vaginal or anal sex is higher, and therefore more people choose to have protection when having full penetration. " Is this correct ? I thought that a neutral pH would better support infection than an acidic environment ? I’ve just done a little research which suggests this to be true? | |||
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"The ph environment of the mouth is different to the vagina (7 Vs around 4), which is going to affect how STDs (among other infections) thrive. You are more likely to get affected through vaginal sex than oral. Obviously oral sex is not risk-free, but a lot of people don't like the taste of condoms (even the flavoured ones) and, despite the risks, they choose to engage in unprotected oral. The risk of getting STD via unprotected vaginal or anal sex is higher, and therefore more people choose to have protection when having full penetration. Is this correct ? I thought that a neutral pH would better support infection than an acidic environment ? I’ve just done a little research which suggests this to be true? " It seems to be true about sexually transmitted infections. They probably need different conditions to a common cold, for example. I am no expert, just going by the data available to anyone. Also, even forgetting about STDs, I don't want to get pregnant and the chances of that are near zero when using condoms. | |||
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"The ph environment of the mouth is different to the vagina (7 Vs around 4), which is going to affect how STDs (among other infections) thrive. You are more likely to get affected through vaginal sex than oral. Obviously oral sex is not risk-free, but a lot of people don't like the taste of condoms (even the flavoured ones) and, despite the risks, they choose to engage in unprotected oral. The risk of getting STD via unprotected vaginal or anal sex is higher, and therefore more people choose to have protection when having full penetration. Is this correct ? I thought that a neutral pH would better support infection than an acidic environment ? I’ve just done a little research which suggests this to be true? It seems to be true about sexually transmitted infections. They probably need different conditions to a common cold, for example. I am no expert, just going by the data available to anyone. Also, even forgetting about STDs, I don't want to get pregnant and the chances of that are near zero when using condoms. " Yes no expert either, it just seemed counterintuitive that vaginal pH being acidic would be a more conducive environment than a fairly neutral pH mouth. As far as data, in a quick search around, I found that the opposite to what you suggested to be true. I didn’t look at too much data! | |||
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"I caught gonarhea purely from receiving oral. She had no idea and had no symptoms. I told her to get checked out, and until it was confirmed was in denial. Oral definitely is not risk free, and I’m still very wary receiving oral that is unprotected. Be careful, stay safe guys. " The risk is actually higher for the insertive partner in oral sex. There is a 40% chance you'll catch it if the other person is infected. Were there any signs she may have had the STD e.g. high number of meets, frequent engager in unprotected sex? | |||
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"I caught gonarhea purely from receiving oral. She had no idea and had no symptoms. I told her to get checked out, and until it was confirmed was in denial. Oral definitely is not risk free, and I’m still very wary receiving oral that is unprotected. Be careful, stay safe guys. The risk is actually higher for the insertive partner in oral sex. There is a 40% chance you'll catch it if the other person is infected. Were there any signs she may have had the STD e.g. high number of meets, frequent engager in unprotected sex?" why would high numbers of meets mean she had signs she may have a std? I wonder as I've been doing gangbangs for decades and keep my sexual health in a very good state. Probably get checked way more than many people..ni use condoms for sex but not for oral x | |||
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"Well if you've met with 10 people the past month, your chances of having an active case of gonorrhoea, chlamydia, etc are higher than if you've met with only 1 person the past month, assuming random sampling. Also have to factor in that some of these STDs are asymptomatic for some people but trigger reactions in others. If you don't test and have had a long swinging career, you might be incubating an STD. I'd be suspicious of someone with dozens of meets who doesn't express an interest in sexual health, especially if they play bare." i tend to meet more than 10 in one go... I also am very proactive on my testing and sexual health. I am at more risk of catching something than a guy is from me... we were told that at our last clinic appointment. We were having an extra set of tests to our normal ones as someone we had met had contacted us as they had tested positive. We were told Mr was very unlikely to have caught anything from her giving him oral... We both tested negative but went through 3 rounds of testing before playing with others again To be fair I'm probably well into the thousands with sexual partners over my 30 years of swinging... but have never caught anything... but i don't do bare... I always get tested regularly and I don't take many guys cum in my mouth and only my own partner cums inside me | |||
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"….is this pointless? Does it only make sense to use protection for both, or neither? With regards to STIs, not contraception. " Pointless? Like, sometimes I'm a little tired when I drive to work and my reactions aren't as quick as normal. I guess if I'm already taking that risk I may as well get smashed off my tits and drive blindfolded without a seatbelt. People choose the level of risk they're happy with. All or nothing is rarely a sensible approach to safety 💜 | |||
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"Oral is much lower risk as most STIs cannot survive in the mouth, and there’s never been a recorded case of transmission of HIV from oral sex." There’s never been a PROVEN RECORDED case of HIV from oral sex. We simply don’t know. In my experience less than 1 in 20ish people use condoms for oral. A lot of us suck cock because we like having someone cum in our mouth. | |||
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