FabSwingers.com forum: Solo meets

By *urious-couple-11 OP Couple
1 day ago

basildon

Hey, was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to find solo meets as a guy from a couple.

Do women prefer guys in couples or single guys?

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 day ago

North West

Maybe get a single profile as well?

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By *urious-couple-11 OP Couple
1 day ago

basildon

Hey, thanks. Ive got a single profile but much the same over there. I mention the couples profile in the bio so people can view veri's aswell.

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By *tticusukMan
1 day ago

Middlesbrough

"Hey, was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to find solo meets as a guy from a couple.

Do women prefer guys in couples or single guys?"

Not many people will meet a single guy from a couples profile as it comes across as disingenuous.

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 day ago

Cheltenham

The “problem” you will have as the guy from the couple on his own is that you instantly just become another male on the site. You only have to look at the forum for the issues that arise from that.

As the guy from a couple I think you do have an advantage in that you are probably already meeting couples so you could see if one of the wives you have previously met wants to meet alone. Some do enjoy that, others don’t.

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By *oiluvfunMan
1 day ago

Penrith

"Hey, was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to find solo meets as a guy from a couple.

Do women prefer guys in couples or single guys?"

Generally; women like guys who can meet when it is convenient to them, and preferably if the guy can accommodate.

A ‘coupled’ guy free to meet others, is no different to a single guy to the majority of women in this fun side of our lives

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By *issmorganWoman
1 day ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I'm half a couple & my partner has his own profile too. He's had a few meets on his own, both with couples and single fems.

Like you we reference our profiles on the couple one & I happily speak to others to confirm that my partner is free to meet on his own.

It can be tough though, some won't meet because they feel you'll discuss it with your partner. Some will assume you're trying to play away, even though you have a joint profile.

Would you consider going to a club or social event at all?.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
1 day ago

Wolvo

Some valid points on this thread.

The idea of meeting a lady from a couple whos happy to meet solo is a good one and clubs.

As a single lady, i wouldn't want to meet a guy from a couple on his own, as i feel there are more limitations. Limitations i wouldn't have with the many single guys on here.

Good luck OP

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By *iss DevilWoman
1 day ago

Bedford

"Some valid points on this thread.

The idea of meeting a lady from a couple whos happy to meet solo is a good one and clubs.

As a single lady, i wouldn't want to meet a guy from a couple on his own, as i feel there are more limitations. Limitations i wouldn't have with the many single guys on here.

Good luck OP"

Exactly this regarding men from couples.

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By *ral_Adventurea_69Man
1 day ago

Lincs

"Hey, was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to find solo meets as a guy from a couple.

Do women prefer guys in couples or single guys?"

Have pecs bigger than most women's boobs, an abdomen that resembles a draining board, a massive manhood and label yourself as "professional"...

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By *oxy jWoman
1 day ago

somerset

i avoid men from swinging couples because for many of them they come with entitlement and attitude of they are above single men ..

the worse men by far in clubs are men who are part of couples they just assume that they are ''in'' and take rejection or the no word as if it cant happen to them and the same goes for the scene as a whole ..

online and fab i dont look for couples anymore on this profile or our joint one the most hassle i get is from guys who are oart of couples i used to get '' hey can we meet and keep it quite from our other halfs'' or as with clubs the im entitled because im part of a swinging couple..

so i avoid all men from swinging couples as they have been by far the worse ..

also as others have said once you start looking on your own you will be seen a just another guy and we all know theres zillions of them

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By *oxy jWoman
1 day ago

somerset

"Hey, was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to find solo meets as a guy from a couple.

Do women prefer guys in couples or single guys?

Have pecs bigger than most women's boobs, an abdomen that resembles a draining board, a massive manhood and label yourself as "professional"...

total coswallop men of all types are successful these types of post are just the violin post where blame is put elsewhere because your getting nowhere yourself excuses excuses ... your getting nowhere simply is on you and no one being interested in you ...

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By *ral_Adventurea_69Man
1 day ago

Lincs

"Hey, was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to find solo meets as a guy from a couple.

Do women prefer guys in couples or single guys?

Have pecs bigger than most women's boobs, an abdomen that resembles a draining board, a massive manhood and label yourself as "professional"...

I speak as a person with a single male profile on here. I tend to witness these things first hand. I'm not that fussed about not getting meets to be honest, I tend to get that elsewhere. I'm just saying how it is, that's all.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
1 day ago

Staffordshire

So, we occasionally do solo meets.

Wifey is inundated with requests, me....not so much.

I have a solo account but clearly advertising on our couples account that we can play separate seems to get more responses.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
16 hours ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Some valid points on this thread.

The idea of meeting a lady from a couple whos happy to meet solo is a good one and clubs.

As a single lady, i wouldn't want to meet a guy from a couple on his own, as i feel there are more limitations. Limitations i wouldn't have with the many single guys on here.

Good luck OP"

What would the limitations be? I’ve met ladies in my own and spent nights with them without leaving limitations on what we can do. I guess it can vary person to person

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By *arysueCouple
13 hours ago

West Wales

I have met as a single many times over the yrs ,some men do like the privacy and intimacy of a one on one

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By *r BigtimeMan
13 hours ago

South Essex

It’s interesting to hear the views from women who aren’t keen on meeting the male halves through single profiles. We had expected that being up front about our relationships (and our profiles on here) would demonstrate honesty about our situation, and that our veris there would be of interest.

My experience is similar to others here. My wife and I have had a profile for several years, and have lots of amazing meets. A month or so ago, we set up our own single profiles, which are both verified by meets. She’s chatting to loads of people on that, but I get the odd message from guys and TVs (not my thing) and little else.

My wife and I are loving that her profile has been so successful, but being a single guy on here is so tough, I’m not sure it’s worth the effort. I’ll likely keep this one running, but I’ll use it to keep in touch with people I meet in clubs etc, rather than for proactively arranging meets.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
11 hours ago

Wolvo

"Some valid points on this thread.

The idea of meeting a lady from a couple whos happy to meet solo is a good one and clubs.

As a single lady, i wouldn't want to meet a guy from a couple on his own, as i feel there are more limitations. Limitations i wouldn't have with the many single guys on here.

Good luck OP

What would the limitations be? I’ve met ladies in my own and spent nights with them without leaving limitations on what we can do. I guess it can vary person to person "

Limitations being that man is already in a relationship and has obligations to his partner. He doesnt have the freedom to meet 3 times a week or at the last minute or go away for the weekend. I use those things as examples there are others. Of course it varies person to person.

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By *appy HoHolly DeeWoman
11 hours ago

Wherever

Single guys for me. Just don’t want to be the subject of discussion at their breakfast table the morning after. Luckily plenty to choose from.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
10 hours ago

In your bed

In the end someone meeting solo is in the same camp as every other man looking for sex.

Some will like the couple aspect some won't, but in the end the biggest factor is supply and demand.

Any swinging experience is crushed to insignificance when you are just another guy in a very large crowd of guys wanting sex.

What you need is 90% of men to have a loss of libido and it might then even up your chances.

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