FabSwingers.com forum: hmmm..any suggestions?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Guys/ Gals,

So I've messaged 1 or 2 ladies on here as I liked their profiles.

1 in particular I really liked, she hasn't deleted my message but she hasn't replied either.

I said in my message that if your not interested to delete my message so that I know where I stand.

She just read it, but never deleted it.

This was about 2 or 3 days ago...

...Should I message her again?.. I've only messaged her once, but my logic is, that if she hasn't responded then she ain't interested and I don't want to be a pest or anything like that :/, because I'd hate to be pestered myself, so wouldn't do it to anyone else right?.

What do you do, when someone reads your message but doesn't delete it, even though you told them to if they are not interested?..she didn't.

But she didn't respond either, so now I'm like "Ok, F*** now what?" haha!

Cheers

Ben

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

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Generally I'd say she's not interested - but she might be like me - I read stuff and think 'I'll reply to that later' and then it sometimes gets lost in the inbox and I find it sometime after. I've been known to reply to messages after several weeks when I eventually get around to having an inbox tidy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't always reply straight away...single females get A LOT of messages, and don't always have time to write back...give it a while longer and either accept that she may just not be interested or message her again to be sure...just don't keep on over and over, that's when it gets annoying.

Remember....there's plenty more fish in the sea, you say you like this woman, but if she's not replied, how do you know? She could be a right bitch!

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally I'd say she's not interested - but she might be like me - I read stuff and think 'I'll reply to that later' and then it sometimes gets lost in the inbox and I find it sometime after. I've been known to reply to messages after several weeks when I eventually get around to having an inbox tidy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She could be a right bitch!

good luck

Hi,

No, I don't think she is. I can tell a Bitch from a Mile off.

They use loads of block Caps in their profile and swear in every other word.

Bitchy is ok though, as long as it's "confident bitchy".

Confidence in a Lady is hot imo.

Back to work.

Back soon.

Cheers

Ben

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only reply if I am interested. If I delete I am not interested if I don't reply it means 90% of the time I forgot to delete but if you re-message and again I block. Give it a week then message again but no sooner would be my suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single ladies on here can easily get 50 messages every day if not more so thats hundreds a week to deal with. If she hasn't replied then she may be interested but hasn't had chance to reply or she might not be interested and hasn't had chance to reply or delete. Some people prefer to block delete. I certainly would advise against messaging again for now as thats really annoying and comes across as pushy. Hope you get a positive reply soon. Ms

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