FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men pretend

By *innocio OP Man
7 weeks ago

barnard Castle

As the title suggests i want to know what a bloke gets out of pretending to be a woman on here I'm here to get laid so it's never going to be if it's a bloke talking bollocks

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Cannock

We've had a few blokes message pretending to be a couple, usually saying just the male half meeting at the moment, so we can see the motive.

As regards pretending to be a single female, not sure why someone would do that

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By *carlettxWoman
7 weeks ago

Essex

"As the title suggests i want to know what a bloke gets out of pretending to be a woman on here I'm here to get laid so it's never going to be if it's a bloke talking bollocks"

I’ve been on here 12 years and to this day I still don’t get it

Reasons I think they might ….

Gay / bi men wanting cock pics from men

Guys messaging women as a woman hoping to get a foot in the door

It’s all a bit desperate tho

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Not sure why some men pretend to be couples and women, seems desperate and sad

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By *un guy300Man
7 weeks ago

Carmarthen

It must turn them on

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By *ernow1982Man
7 weeks ago

Plymouth

They must gain something from it, otherwise they wouldn't bother. Why do people do half the weird things they do? Typically pleasure of some sort.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
7 weeks ago

Wolvo

Just another way to get attention, photos and dirty convo

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Cannock

"Just another way to get attention, photos and dirty convo"

True, sometimes we're a few messages in before we realise it's a fraudster lol

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By *ilkey69Man
7 weeks ago

Barnsley

Spoils it for the genuine ones

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By *end1Man
7 weeks ago

southend on sea

I've had a few I also suspect theirs one guy doing it alot in my local area. Its pretty sad really if that's the only way to get their kicks.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

Who can guess!

. It probably gives some sense of power or sexual kicks, I'm assuming. Inadequate and irrelevant, the operators must be

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"Who can guess!

. It probably gives some sense of power or sexual kicks, I'm assuming. Inadequate and irrelevant, the operators must be "

I think it's nothing to do with sexual kicks. I think it's more to do with feeling that you exist. That a yellow inbox is something to look forward to. Loneliness drives people to do unrational things.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

People that genuinely want to meet for sex will offer to meet in person, even for a social in a public place. If that is not forthcoming promptly just dismiss them out of hand.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
6 weeks ago

midlands

Just sados

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
6 weeks ago

Hounslow

We don't get it either. It's not as if they're not going to get found out. We usually get an Idea beforehand that the profile isn't genuine.

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By *oiluvfunMan
6 weeks ago

Penrith

"Spoils it for the genuine ones"

I find it makes it easier to ‘shine’……

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Usually wank fodder. Ie more pics or sex chat to get themselves off to.

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
6 weeks ago

warrington

Well I suppose that’s what I do, although I’d like to think that I make a reasonably good job of it.

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 weeks ago

Fife

Because they can..it's a random fantasy filled site of being able to pretend to be whatever you want with zero accountability or prevention. Reporting it dies zero

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By *fnmdudeMan
6 weeks ago

St.Helier

How do they get around verifying they're a woman. Thought you had to take photo with face and name written on a pice of paper. Are they all good at photoshop.

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By *reenman19Man
6 weeks ago

.....no......

I'd say there's a few reasons but mostly I'd say it's for attention. As a single guy you have to be happy that you are bottom of the heap.

I think there is a good discussion in what a site like this does to the single lad's head. I feel it sometimes myself and I'm pretty successful as far as single men go.

Confidence, good looks, good in the sack, eloquent. You can be all these things and still not get even a reply back. The consistent knocks to your confidence build up and this can make people play up. Some will just shrug it off, some will make a saucy profile to feel valid again.

In myself, I take the knocks by putting those I like on a hotlist and in a lot of cases I never do build the confidence to go for what I want because the likelihood is that it will be ignored or lost in the sea of messages.

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By *ear in the chairMan
6 weeks ago

yeah there

Cynical thought, maybe because they're not serious, have no intent on meeting and just want the higher attention a woman gets over most single men?

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By *oxy jWoman
6 weeks ago

taunton somerset

pretty easy to spot if im honest just a few messages expose them ...

and if you think its just men then think again there are women and couples too and im not talking fake male run profiles nether

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Chatham

Anoys me when they put straight in there profile, and they are clearly not. And they say are but it's a secret.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Absolute fab standard I get.

Either a man pretending to be a couple or men who are 'straight' who have to keep their liking for AMAB people in lingerie a secret...

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
6 weeks ago

Stoke

They turn up for meets on their own and state the female can't make it... Like, do one mate!!

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By *riel13Woman
6 weeks ago

Northampton

They're after wank chat because they don't have time to find a shag

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By *ucka39Man
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

Simple kicks as they get extremely excited but don't understand the full impact

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
6 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Some try and get access to private galleries!

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
6 weeks ago

Hyde

Insecurities and just being plain old pathetic.

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By *itygamesMan
6 weeks ago

i feel its because they want to see mens private parts and talk dirty

problem is youve no idea who you are typing with , could be a couple of 18 year old school lads, to an elderley man.

Same applies in the chat rooms , just because theres a female name in the room, every blokes on it , convinced its a woman watching them wank, 9 times out of 10 its a bloke

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