FabSwingers.com forum: Still no luck 😔

By *uphoria_Hub OP Man
5 days ago

London

Hello,I am having no luck so far. My introductions aren't abrasive or harsh, I never seem to get any reply. Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?

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By *revaunanceCouple
5 days ago

Exeter

"What am I doing wrong?"

Probably nothing, you just haven't found someone for whom there is a mutual attraction.

Don't let it get in your head, it's not worth that.

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By *oxy jWoman
5 days ago

somerset

luck wont get you a meet ...you must by now realise how many men there are compared to women / couples ...

alot of joins join and never get anywhere

some will gets bits here n there

and some will just have the gift and knack to do very well

their has to be attraction first but deffo not all thats needed

its not a sex on a plate site its a swinging site that involves sex with the right people

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 days ago

barnstaple

Not a great photo, sorry

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By *ollercoasterr6Man
5 days ago

Glasgow

Same as me, doesn’t matter how nice you are they just ignore you there’s an ego problem on here too many folk thinking they are better than others, even if someone isn’t my type I still answer to let them know because I’m not a horrible person;)

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By *rezzy876Man
4 days ago

St. Helens / Merseyside

It's not that easy a lot of persons on here a fake just trying to get their kicks off it, some just want to chat, your best option is GB or a club and that's still not guarantee just network and meet the right people. Its not all about sex on here at the end of the day.

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
4 days ago

Maidstone

Why on earth would anyone chat to someone who just has a smiley face as their bio ?

I would simply ignore your message after I had looked at your profile. If you can’t be arsed to sell yourself why would I bother ..

it’s not hard actually guys !

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
4 days ago

Maidstone

Not replying to the hundreds of messages women get does not make us horrible!

Men straight back when you say no thank

Why oh why , but I’ll be amazing , give me a chance ! You had your chance with your account lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 days ago

Leeds

What am I doing wrong?"

I think your profile text is fine but you need more photos

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By *aciamiCouple
4 days ago

Hertfordshire

See this thread. It'll tell you all you need to know...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1650597

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By *insdaleMan
4 days ago

By far away.

Hi, take it for what it is, enjoy the many fabulous pics, enjoy the chats, and the threads, it's all good fun.

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By *r John WickMan
4 days ago

The Continental

3 threads on the same topic won’t do you any favours, the advice will be the same no matter how many times you ask. It also makes you look a little desperate. Not a cool look.

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By *harAndBryCouple
4 days ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Same as me, doesn’t matter how nice you are they just ignore you there’s an ego problem on here too many folk thinking they are better than others, even if someone isn’t my type I still answer to let them know because I’m not a horrible person;)"

Probably takes you three minutes to reply to all the messages you get in a week. Put yourselves in the shoes of a single woman who might easily get 200 messages in a day.....

(Bry)

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By *cnugatugMan
4 days ago

Chatham

Posting the same thread 3 times in a row also can't be helping

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
4 days ago

surrey

Make an effort go to socials, look into clubs and get urself out there! We don’t usually have meets from here, most ours are done in clubs or socials it saves a lot of time esp when it comes to the time wasters on this site!

Meets take preparation which some guys don’t understand so then a no show is very frustrating!

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By *eedsmale36Man
4 days ago

Leeds

"Hello,I am having no luck so far. My introductions aren't abrasive or harsh, I never seem to get any reply. Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?"

I look like the bastard love child of Fred West and Herman Munster, but I’m beating all the hot wife couples away with a shitty stick

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By *layfullsamMan
4 days ago

Solihull

Terms and conditions say clearly that no reply is a reply.

Ladies and couples can get literally hundreds of messages and there are horror stories where they tried to reply thanks but no thanks and were greeted with abuse.

Do you respond to unsolicited post pushed through your door ?

None of my business but you’ve said a lot about your attitude in this post that potential meets won’t like

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
4 days ago

My Own Little World

Closing this as you have identical threads running

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1655484

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