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By *heIndianladynEnglishguy OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

After months of talking and waiting and after out baby girl arrived. Mrs I is excited about getting out to a club.

Chams is our preference so looking for some advise on which days are best.

We know Saturdays is couples night, so that’s the obvious night for us. But was wondering are there are couples (bi fem) nights in the week or when it will be less busy.

Thank you for reading and please let us know your thoughts.

Oh and we are looking at December.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
9 weeks ago

Bangor

Monday night best night of the week as it’s a bi night.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguy OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Monday night best night of the week as it’s a bi night. "

Is that bi for both?

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By *ickedwillyCouple
9 weeks ago

Bangor

Yes

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
9 weeks ago

Coventry

Basically you don't need a bi fem night because on the scene women are genrally assumed bi until proven otherwise (which is a huge annoyance of many straight women on the scene).

As to Bi Monday's the title can be misleading to the vibe of the night. See it more a Bi guy Monday. Because the focus of the night is more a night where Bi guys (single and in couples) and more openly engage in male on male activity in safety and without fear of judgment. The night is open to all couples providing at least one is bi and the other is bi freindly. So yes you'll get bi fem couples. But most are bi fem, bi male couples looking for 4 way bi action for its the only night of the week specifically aimed at bi male action. And of course in the open and group play areas you'll see a lot of male on male on male action.

So definitely something to consider if going on a Monday. As for any other night of the week it's always bi fem night. As to Saturday a logical choice for bi fems and bi fem couples. However it's worth pointing out that some single ladies and couples who are also bi deliberately avoid Saturdays due to the reduced variety and different vibe.

Either/or Chameleons is our favourite Club and great choice. Obviously weekends are best for numbers.

Mr

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By *lik and PaulCouple
9 weeks ago

cahoots

Saturday would be best for you OP as sadly that's the only couples only evening. We tend to go earlier in the day as it gets very busy later on...in saying that we usually stay for the duration. Have a great time.

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By *DI_PalsCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

I guess it will come down to how important it is that it’s couples only night. As the last poster said, if that’s what you’re looking for then it has to be Saturday after 7pm.

We find Mondays are great. There’s a really good vibe and, in our experience, no issue with the ‘single’ guys. Guys there by themselves must be bi. The staff are very keen to keep it that way and are really approachable if you have any questions/concerns.

To be honest, all the nights are fun but I’d probably avoid Fridays for your first trip as they are typically the busiest for straight single guys.

Basically no two nights are the same and it’s all about who you meet but you’ll definitely have a great time!

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguy OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Basically you don't need a bi fem night because on the scene women are genrally assumed bi until proven otherwise (which is a huge annoyance of many straight women on the scene).

As to Bi Monday's the title can be misleading to the vibe of the night. See it more a Bi guy Monday. Because the focus of the night is more a night where Bi guys (single and in couples) and more openly engage in male on male activity in safety and without fear of judgment. The night is open to all couples providing at least one is bi and the other is bi freindly. So yes you'll get bi fem couples. But most are bi fem, bi male couples looking for 4 way bi action for its the only night of the week specifically aimed at bi male action. And of course in the open and group play areas you'll see a lot of male on male on male action.

So definitely something to consider if going on a Monday. As for any other night of the week it's always bi fem night. As to Saturday a logical choice for bi fems and bi fem couples. However it's worth pointing out that some single ladies and couples who are also bi deliberately avoid Saturdays due to the reduced variety and different vibe.

Either/or Chameleons is our favourite Club and great choice. Obviously weekends are best for numbers.

Mr"

Thank you ever so much for taking the time to reply. Yeah kinda got the impression about Mondays which isn’t really what we are looking for for our first trip.

Do think Saturdays will be our best bet as I have had experiences of chams on a Saturday evening.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguy OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Saturday would be best for you OP as sadly that's the only couples only evening. We tend to go earlier in the day as it gets very busy later on...in saying that we usually stay for the duration. Have a great time."

Thank you for taking the time to reply. Yeah from my own limited experiences and the opinion of others. Saturday does seem to be our best option.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguy OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I guess it will come down to how important it is that it’s couples only night. As the last poster said, if that’s what you’re looking for then it has to be Saturday after 7pm.

We find Mondays are great. There’s a really good vibe and, in our experience, no issue with the ‘single’ guys. Guys there by themselves must be bi. The staff are very keen to keep it that way and are really approachable if you have any questions/concerns.

To be honest, all the nights are fun but I’d probably avoid Fridays for your first trip as they are typically the busiest for straight single guys.

Basically no two nights are the same and it’s all about who you meet but you’ll definitely have a great time! "

Thank you for the reply. I have been on a Friday and did feel a little uncomfortable in all honesty with the vibe compared to that of a Saturday.

Hopefully we meet some great people there.

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