FabSwingers.com forum: How long is too long?

By *ammyJamesandJane OP Couple
5 days ago

Yumbo PDI

James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.

I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!

We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.

For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?

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By *nalleesaMan
5 days ago

Bangor

3 to 4 hours is about right xx

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By *Xtriple7Couple
5 days ago

N Peterborough.

Prefer at least 2 hours. Too rushed otherwise.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
5 days ago

Flagrante

We spend around 12 hours at the club so maybe that environment would suit you better.

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5 days ago

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5 days ago

"James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.

I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!

We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.

For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?"

Do you stop for a tea break?

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By *ammyJamesandJane OP Couple
5 days ago

Yumbo PDI

"James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.

I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!

We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.

For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?

Do you stop for a tea break?"

That is a brilliant idea! And a custard cream.

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By *ammyJamesandJane OP Couple
5 days ago

Yumbo PDI

"We spend around 12 hours at the club so maybe that environment would suit you better."

Ooh which club?

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By *layfulguy123Man
5 days ago

strat

How do you train to last longer?

Won’t lie

If Foreplsy involved I could prob just last to an hour but direct fucking no where near that long

What’s the trick

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 days ago

Bedford

OP, if you're a "one-shot wonder", and the play is over for you once you've cum, I could understand you wanting to last as long as possible. However, from the point of view of a woman, I don't want to be fucked for hours. My hips would give up first before my pussy, most likely, even with changing positions. Could you not mix fucking with foreplay? Some fingering, some licking etc?

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By *WB85Man
5 days ago

Staffordshire

A good few hours,but with no time limit really.

Lots of stops and chilling / chatting in-between activities

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By *ellhungvweMan
5 days ago

Cheltenham

"How do you train to last longer?

Won’t lie

If Foreplsy involved I could prob just last to an hour but direct fucking no where near that long

What’s the trick "

For me, if I want to prolong, the secret is to just pause slightly when I first feel myself about to cum - it is probably only a second or two but if I can stop that initial urge then I am good to go for ages.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere

I like to stop/start. I'd probably fall asleep if someone shagged me for an hour solid

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By *oxy jWoman
5 days ago

somerset

very very rare any of my meets are under 2 hrs and alot of them are even longer but then when exchanging message i do tend to make sure that i get rid of those who just want a quick pump minimum is 2 hours unless im looking for a quicky and thats not often

and its not about how quick a guy comes as long as he can go again and even better if again and again ..

its just about finding the right people everytime

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
4 days ago

Bristol

"and its not about how quick a guy comes as long as he can go again and even better if again and again .."

Totally this.

I like a guy to cum and I don't like being fucked for an age as... yeah hips, knees etc.

But the ability to not run away after he's cum, to stick around and then go again?

Fucking golden.

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By *raverageMrsmilfCouple
4 days ago

Surrey

Mr here, I also stay hard even after finishing but I can continue for ages after

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 days ago

South Down

"James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.

I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!

We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.

For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?"

2+ hours of actual PIV? No thanks

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By *ewnmaturesCouple
4 days ago

fife

"A good few hours,but with no time limit really.

Lots of stops and chilling / chatting in-between activities

- this for us too, its all part of the sharing experience-

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By *layfulguy123Man
4 days ago

strat

"A good few hours,but with no time limit really.

Lots of stops and chilling / chatting in-between activities

- this for us too, its all part of the sharing experience-"

See 2 hour session of this is perfect

If it’s 2 hours of pumping then defo not haha

I’d gladly edge chat and edge etc

No issues with that

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
4 days ago

Durham

Meets should last several hours to facilitate deep connection, relaxation, and meaningful exploration, allowing all to fully immerse themselves in the experience. Much better than a quick fuck next to the bins however everything has its place.

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By *end1Man
4 days ago

southend on sea

A good 24 hours so the host can make breakfast dinner n tea😂😂

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By *ixel_TuttyCouple
4 days ago

Halesowen

My meets only last 10/15 mins lol

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By *ecoming_InvisibleMan
4 days ago

Bury

Such problems!

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By *oney HoneyWoman
4 days ago

York

I like to have 2-3 hours set aside for a meet. But maybe only half of the time will be spent actively playing.

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By *ot.a.murdererWoman
4 days ago

Banbury

I dunno, six minutes and I'm all good XD

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By *eronikapaulCouple
3 days ago

Reading

You wouldn't want sex to last as long as a round of golf. Three holes would be enough?

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By *an1978Woman
3 days ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

An hour is just right?

Including hellos, a shower, the deed, and a coffee and debrief chat?

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By *oxy jWoman
3 days ago

somerset

the worse meets are those mainly penetration then dress and off they go thinking they've pleased you lol they dont get a second chance ..

ive had meets that as a meet has lasted all weekend had some longer and the sex is constant even when stopping for breaks meals and even a rest sex it for me about the whole package yes plenty of good fucking but lots of fingers mouth toys i love to please guys so thats taking them to those highs more than once and they return the favor

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
2 days ago

Stoke

I'm exactly the same OP, I can unfortunately go for hours, it's a curse sometimes. When we play we like long sessions as the Mrs doesn't mind it, but sometimes meets are cut short after the other guy has finished, and I'm like...... I'm still good to go!

Mr F.

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Fife

Meets.. 30 min to an hour ..

Meets isn't sex

Sex fucking foreplay..15min to 24 hours continuous enjoyment stopping getting chatty restarting and actually liking who you fuck priceless timeless..

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 days ago

Leeds

Half hour and I'm bored.

😂

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
2 days ago

wonderland.

This thread reminds me why I'm reluctant to do private meets. In a club probably play lasts between 15mins to 35 at tops.. and after no awkward bit about how long you wait before you leave.

Perhaps a little different if you do private club play but majority of ours are public group play..

Also I've found in private meets cuddles are often a thing afterwards.. thankfully at clubs this doesn't really happen..

Cali x

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
2 days ago

coleraine

We can see why some people might want a quick chat, sex then goodbye.

For us the majority of our meetings have been plenty of chat, drinks, sex, more chat, possibly meal or bar, more sex. Many of our meetings have been 3-6 hours.

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By *lueDressWoman
2 days ago

Bath

For Myself anything with a non romantic partner would only be for an hour or so..

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