Not a couple but a single guy who has experienced the different ’flavours’ of being involved in couple relationships. Communication is key, and start out slow (ish)… don’t dive in, progress over three or four meets to understand what’s fun, explore limits and scenarios and avoid any relationship damage.
First don’t call it cuckolding if the husband just likes to watch or allow the wife to meet other men - this is just the Stag / Vixen or Hotwife female led relationship (FLR) arrangement. If you call it cuckolding the other guy will expect a different vibe and behave accordingly. Make it clear before the meets.
Choose an experienced and socially skilled second man, someone who recognises and understands the role he is being asked to play.
Cuckolding is a FLR in which there are various degrees of humiliation for the male - this could be just the wife having meets without the husbands express permission - doing what she wants without caring for husbands feelings on the matter, maybe even having meets where she is ‘discovered’ by her husband, coming home after work for example and finding her in bed with another man. Then there are cuckold scenarios where the husband is denied sex, and the wife meets other men, having sex in front of her husband whilst lauding the skills and endowment of her lover and deprecating the husband’s size and abilities to satisfy her. Humiliation in the form of cock cages, making him wear her panties, subservient acts such as picking out her lingerie, getting her dressed, listening outside the room, clean-up or sucking of the bulls cock (I personally hate the term Bull).
I have had meets where the husband has driven us to a restaurant and sat outside waiting, then paid and took us home again to their bed where he has then been excluded - done chores or slept in the spare room whilst his wife fucked her lover..
I think the most extreme was a wife who answered the door, on full view to the neighbours, with her naked husband beside her on his hands and knees, dog collar and lead. He was led upstairs and put in a crate beside the bed while we fucked. Not a word exchanged between husband and wife the entire time… He was allowed out afterwards and lapped between her spread legs, cleaning her up whilst I watched as I got dressed to leave… Cuckolding is a very diverse arrangement, a huge variation of themes, scenarios and behaviours. It can take a bit of time to figure it out and of course there may be constant progression and evolution of the cuckold relationship.
Good luck and have fun! |
