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"So I’m recently back here but as a single male now instead of part of a couple and it’s obviously a completely different experience! Any advice from you guys how to approach making new connections without looking like your typical male after only one thing would be greatly appreciated! Obviously looking to potentially work out a meet but equally keen to just get to know like minded people and chat to people who don’t look at me funnily being open about sex and exploring fantasies and desires (which is pretty much everyone I know in person haha) " How can you avoid being a typical male? You have to just be friendly and approach most women as though they are just that a woman ,no sex at first until you've established friendship, no in your face pics and if you have what they want you'll get a meet . | |||
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"Ahh I know there’s an army of us guys most of whom just interested in the act and only that! Of course I have a similar interest but just as keen to converse and connect with like minded people as it’s not something possible with the real life people I have! Also having been here as a couple only before now has somewhat distorted my experience here as it was obviously easier to connect with others with a hot lady being a part of it. Thanks for the tips, done some of what you said already, guess just need to carry on with it and go from there" i can relate to your experience as when my wife was swinging we had our couples profile, and we did get lots of messages, mainly because of the mrs, all the messages were directed to her, from couples and singles, which is how it is here unfortunately, we both had our single profile too for when we arranged to meet on our own, obviously the wife was way more successful with her profile than I have been with mine, but i’ve not really changed anything about what I do to get meets, I try and keep an eye out for socials I can attend, and i’ve attended a few now, then hopefully arrange something after that, which has been for me, what works best. | |||
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"Ta - showing my inexperience as didn’t even browse here when here before" you’ve commented on a lot of threads pal, you can’t be a slow learner surely? | |||
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"Commented yes but mostly not in response directly to others Press the 'reply +quote' button on the post you want to reply to" lol appreciate the guidance, bit of a div to need it considering it’s right there hahah | |||
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"To be honest depending on the mood that was sometimes a positive. To be honest as you said it I could see it for how it looks to others which is sorta why I’m here asking now as it’s completely new to me exploring here alone. Also never been one for dating apps or presenting myself to the world as just myself so whilst not a novice to this world in experiences but a complete one in terms of the admin and communication I guess" See thats why I asked, because to us and alot of some couples we know that status is an instant turn off. It goes without saying that this is only our experience and the people we are friends with. Many couples likely enjoy the dirty chat, but how often would it translate into meeting? | |||
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"So I’m recently back here but as a single male now instead of part of a couple and it’s obviously a completely different experience! Any advice from you guys how to approach making new connections without looking like your typical male after only one thing would be greatly appreciated! Obviously looking to potentially work out a meet but equally keen to just get to know like minded people and chat to people who don’t look at me funnily being open about sex and exploring fantasies and desires (which is pretty much everyone I know in person haha) " Popular advice I expect will be attend socials, go to a club. | |||
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"I have been been on here as a single . I have been on here as a couple. Definitely more mails/interest was harboured as a couple. I put that down to having a female by my side. But the interesting part is having actual meets that may or may not have lead to more has been far easier as a single guy. It’s just less complicated. The whole dynamic thing when more people were involved was proving to be a major sticking point in converting initial interest to actual real life meets. So all in all I actually prefer doing this as a single male despite the obvious well documented struggles so many tend to face. " Gym class raising a solid point here - threeway attraction is easier than holding out for 4 way as a couple.. | |||
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