FabSwingers.com forum: Finding a bi couple

By *ingfisher740 OP Man
10 weeks ago

birmingham

Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond?

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By *ingfisher740 OP Man
9 weeks ago

birmingham

Any couples would love to both your sexual desires

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Your profile is hidden and that is going to massively hurt your chances.

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By *antstayaway9Man
9 weeks ago

Any bi couples in the north east willing to let me explore my bi urge?

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By *elshie_69Man
9 weeks ago

Mean streets of Hounslow

Still a hidden profile, little to no chance of getting a meet is my humble opinion

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By *ingfisher740 OP Man
9 weeks ago

birmingham

Sorry folks I hide my profile when not on line only for privacy reasons that's all as I've seen my boss and his wife on here and don't want them to know what I'm up to would be abot difficult at work

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
9 weeks ago

Ammanford

Always welcome a cheeky bicouple and always trying to keep an eye out for them

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By *igjim69newMan
9 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm always on the lookout for bi couples what's not to like xxx

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By *alerMan
9 weeks ago

London

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond? "

Difficult to find bi couples

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By *oSocksInBedMan
9 weeks ago

Grays

They will need to find you somehow

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By *herryEatersCouple
9 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond? "

Good things come to those who wait

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By *londebiguyMan
9 weeks ago

Southport

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond?

Good things come to those who wait

This is Very true.

At least I've found it to be so.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
9 weeks ago

Northampton

I've found a great couple but lining up our diaries because of work commitments and chid care is what's holding us all back but I know we will get there

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London

"Sorry folks I hide my profile when not on line only for privacy reasons that's all as I've seen my boss and his wife on here and don't want them to know what I'm up to would be abot difficult at work "

Block them - they won't be able to see your profile then...

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By *elena66TV/TS
9 weeks ago

TUNBRIDGEWELLS

Yes.i have the same problem it always turns out to be a guy and the wife girlfriend etc can't make it really disappointing

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By *ickD80Man
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Why would it be difficult at work if they knew? You’re not doing anything illegal, you’re not hurting anyone, you’re not doing anything that will affect your ability to do your job. If they’re on here as well then why do you think they’re going to judge you for being on here? The fact that your boss is on here means that you absolutely don’t have to worry about him finding out you’re on here. The only people who are going to judge you and have a problem with you being on here are people who’ve never been on here and will assume it’s something that it isn’t.

Do you know that you don’t have to reveal your identity on your profile? You can write your profile and post pictures that maintain your anonymity so that even if they did look at your profile they wouldn’t know it was yours. Or, like others have said, you could just block them.

Hiding your profile is a serious red flag so you’d be a lot better off doing one of those 2 things and if you’re un-hiding your profile when you’re online then your boss can see your profile then anyway. Out of all the options available to you for hiding from your boss you’ve chosen the absolute worst one, which isn’t even an option that should ne considered anyway because it’s not preventing your boss from seeing your profile at all times.

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By *imber373Man
9 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Looking to connect with bi couples, love uninhibited fun when everyone is comfortable with each other

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By *i-Guy-75Man
8 weeks ago

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond? "

I would recommend going to bi nights at clubs or saunas, we have a joint profile but never meet people Just off fab, we prefer meet people face to face at clubs sauna etc. profiles on here don’t always reflect the person, some are better than profiles some not so

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By *lagger39Man
7 weeks ago

bolton

Love to arrange a meet with a bi couple in the northwest

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

OP - have you assessed how many you may have missed, because your profile is hidden? It obviously is going to be next to impossible for most single men to meet anyone of the opposite gender here, when you hide your profile.

People need great certainty, before they feel certain enough that a man could be right for 2 or more other people. They need to assess physical attraction, by seeing you, learn about your personality and sexual tastes, as you've got to satisfy all of the other people. It's not done by playing cat and mouse or them having to choose doubt instead of positive likelihood of the competitive men who have easier access.

If in doubt or if it's made to be hard work for them, then they have already left you behind.

If your behaviour screams that you're not that committed, they will scream fuck off to you. Do the opposite and be welcoming and obliging.

And get to bi events too. Increase your bi social circle. Are you coming to the bi social in early 2025?

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By *urplebadger69Couple
7 weeks ago

Colchester

We have the opposite problem.

Finding a bi male that will actually turn up is a nightmare.

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By *omis.69Man
7 weeks ago

Birmingham

Like flatting fog, herding kittens..

I have met a few genuine couples and loved it each time but there’s always hope lol

Next weeks lottery numbers are 1,3,35,21,16 and 42

If anyone’s interested lol

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By *impcuckMan
7 weeks ago

edge of taunton

it used to be easy but strangely seems to get harder now there are so many bi guys.

maybe thats the problem same as normal swinging as in more choice

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By *acky RacersCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincoln

"We have the opposite problem.

Finding a bi male that will actually turn up is a nightmare."

We could not agree more. In the last few months we have had physical face to face social meets with 3 guys....they were all keen, then on the day they "could not make it". We operate a one strike chance policy, so we are concentrating on parties and clubs now. In fact, off to a party tonight!

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By *illie AmshakinmyspearMan
5 weeks ago

hull-visiting

"We have the opposite problem.

Finding a bi male that will actually turn up is a nightmare.

This blows my mind. Hard enough to get a meet as a single guy so why waste the opportunity when it arises!!!

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By *iseekingbiCouple
5 days ago

N ireland and West Midlands

Bi couples can be found

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By *herryEatersCouple
5 days ago

East Cheshire

We agree with many of the replies. Incredibly difficult now finding couples and single guys. Was MUCH better when we first joined 10 years ago.... Poor profiles, no photos, ghosting, endless chat while avoiding arranging a meet, fakes, those who leave site mid chat, mismatched interests, claiming bi yet listing straight, claims of sending face pics that never arrive or hidden by sunglasses or very poor quality. A few weeks ago we drove for over and hour to a couple social, no-show. We've even had a false address. Then there's utterly misleading photos leading to a huge shock when we meet. Even in clubs there's often issues, one couple claimed bi/curious etc, we all had a little play and invited to theirs a week later where we were presented with the exact opposite to everything they'd led us to believe !!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
5 days ago

Cheshire

I have had the pleasure of meeting a few couples on this site and in clubs but they often want to hide the fact they’re bi, especially if it’s the male partner. The female never has any issues saying she’s bi, but if he is, it can put other couples off.

I have met a few couples and afterwards been asked not to verify, because they don’t want others knowing they played with a TV.

It’s lovely to get a message from a bi couple in which their profile states it, but it does appear that there’s not as many as used to, on this site.

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By *anqueray_TwoCouple
5 days ago

cumbria

There are loads of us. X

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By *orthAngusCoupleCouple
5 days ago

Angus

Hello x

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By *igjim69newMan
5 days ago

Scunthorpe

Are there any local bi couples looking meet a stocking and pantie wearer ?

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By *orkshire500Man
4 days ago

Warrington

"We have the opposite problem.

Finding a bi male that will actually turn up is a nightmare.

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I would definitely turn up

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By *illowendMan
4 days ago

Southwold

Come clean

You’re married

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By *akingtheplungeMan
4 days ago

kent

"We have the opposite problem.

Finding a bi male that will actually turn up is a nightmare."

I'm on the way

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By *akingtheplungeMan
4 days ago

kent

"There are loads of us. X"

But seems to be more in the north

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By *heCucksCouple
4 days ago

West Midlands

Plenty of bi couples. It’s harder to find a genuine, reliable bi male I think.

Mrs

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By *omingo77Man
4 days ago

blackburn

I believe there’s plenty of bi guys looking but select few guys not as bi as there claim ruining it for others

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By *armandwet50Couple
4 days ago

Far far away

"There are loads of us. X

But seems to be more in the north

The whole country is North of Kent

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM)
4 days ago

warrington

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond? "
try not hiding your profile ! That may help

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By *tormchasingCouple
4 days ago

Essex

Bi couple here. We are out here, and we definitely aren't the only ones.

We won't engage with hidden (or blank) profiles though. Not sure why anyone would

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By *acky RacersCouple
4 days ago

Lincoln

"Plenty of bi couples. It’s harder to find a genuine, reliable bi male I think.

Mrs"

We agree with that....Genuinely single reliable bi guys are the true Fab Unicorns....We know lots of single female friends, but getting a reliable single bi guy....as rare as hens teeth!

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By *exi02Man
4 days ago

london

I have also active here and unfortunately i didn’t have the chance to meet any couple yet, not sure what up ?

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By * New YorkieMan
4 days ago

Leeds

They are many Bi Cpls out there and I have been lucky enough to enjoy their attention. Some couples profiles do not list the male as curious or bi, but you can read in between the lines. Just read their profile, look at their interests and read verifications. Construct a nicely worded message to them BOTH and cross your fingers. Don't be desperate. Always lookng for classy non pushy couples here. Jay

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
4 days ago

Kent

Bi/bi curious couples exist! We’ve had more problems finding genuine single guys who fit what we’re looking for and when we do find them, they let us down for meets! We’ve had a hotel booked multiple times only to have to cancel it when they back out.

C x

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By *oobaaMan
4 days ago

South Shields

we dont meet single guys, its not what we want.

But I would imagine you would have more luck if your profile wasnt hidden as others have said

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By *unnyone32Man
4 days ago

london

Yep, bi couples a like rocking horse shit

I have been looking for 3 years

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By *ou only live onceMan
4 days ago

London

"Plenty of bi couples. It’s harder to find a genuine, reliable bi male I think.

Mrs"

We're out here too...just looking for hot couples...

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By *anonfire96Man
4 days ago

Mansfield

What you mean you wouldn't want them to know you're into exactly the same as them? They are on here afterall, I'm sure they are pretty relaxed about it.

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By *heCucksCouple
4 days ago

West Midlands

"Plenty of bi couples. It’s harder to find a genuine, reliable bi male I think.

Mrs

We're out here too...just looking for hot couples...

Why are the hot ones always so far away…

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By *akingtheplungeMan
4 days ago

kent

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By *akingtheplungeMan
4 days ago

kent

"There are loads of us. X

But seems to be more in the north

The whole country is North of Kent

Good point lol

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By *uicycock99Man
4 days ago

midlands

Reliable genuine bi male here

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By *uythetravellerMan
4 days ago

Being reliable and not a time waster has to come from someone you have met. You cant say it about yourself..

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
3 days ago

Wakefield

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond?

Difficult to find bi couples"

We are here if you look x

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 days ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Plenty of us around, but having been stoop up by 59% of the single guys we arranged meets with last year, we're only meeting from our friends list for now.

Oddly enough, they all claim to be reliable and will turn up.....

(Bry)

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By *orthampton jamesMan
3 days ago

Northampton

Any couples looking for a mid 50s bi man, pm me

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By *WANDTGCouple
3 days ago

Borough of Greenwich

Maybe a lot of bi couples are looking for other bi couples, that could be the reason so many single men are finding it difficult.

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By *r_LickCouple
3 days ago

aberdeen

It will cum when the time is right for you so keep looking

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
3 days ago

wirral

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
3 days ago

wirral

"Hi all I'm really struggling to find a bi couple , ideally local but I can travel . Is there anybody else struggling to find bi couples on here who respond? "

Its likely because you have a hidden profile. As a couple we like to be able to see photos, likes, profile write up, veris and to veri the veris before we message people or reply. This is likely where you are going wrong.

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By *lowercandyWoman
3 days ago

Lancashire

Block them!

But if you message people then go off line and hide your profile the person who reads will likely ignore you

You can't excite all to be when you are online

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 days ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"You can't excite all to be when you are online "

Probably one of those that only sends messages to women showing as online now, then three minutes later sends a passive aggressive ??? when they don't immediately reply.

Must agree that it's hard to understand the rationale behind messaging someone then hiding your profile and expecting some kind of reply.

(Bry)

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By *rettCoolMan
3 days ago

Dunfermline

I would love a bi threesome with the right couple ££

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By *omingo77Man
3 days ago

blackburn

I’m finding it extremely difficult to even chat with bi couples

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 days ago

London

"Plenty of bi couples. It’s harder to find a genuine, reliable bi male I think.

Mrs

We're out here too...just looking for hot couples...

Why are the hot ones always so far away…"

Yeah, tell me about it!!

Might have to find my way to the Midlands sometime...

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