Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Swinging Support and Advice |
Jump to newest |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think some of the replies above are rather harsh, particularly as you didn't ask for feedback on your profile or profile picture.It can be hard going for single men on Fab, especially younger ones. It doesn't necessarily mean you are doing anything wrong. Lots of men have cock pictures as a profile picture, so I wouldn't be so fast to blame it on that. Write yourself a few lines of profile, saying what floats your boat sexually or stuff you would like to try maybe. Don't lose heart. Possibly try a club too .." I'm finding it hard being new . I'm respectful in DMs and I'm willing to learn the scene the right way but I'm struggling to get a look in at present . I may look at clubs down the line but personal situation doesn't allow for it at the moment | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think some of the replies above are rather harsh, particularly as you didn't ask for feedback on your profile" It quite reasonable to critique someone's profile if it's relevant to their post. OP we can see 5 red flags on your profile that could be stopping you getting anywhere. I realise that everone has their own red flags but with so many you increase the chances of putting a lot of people off | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?" Honestly, your profile pic and user name would be enough for us to just delete unread any message you sent. We're sure you mean well but they're both quite off-putting. (Bry) | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?" You’re only 25 mate, what are you doing in here? Get out in to the ‘normal’ world of pubs, bars and general nightlife. I guarantee you will meet more women in one night out in Warrington, than you’re likely to after 6 months in here! The ratios are way out, and you’re quite possibly the age of most people’s children in here…. Jeez I wish I was 25 again…… | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?" Hi Cal, It's notoriously difficult for single guys in the scene in general. It's common knowledge. We outnumber single women something ridiculous like 40:1. The odds are stacked massively against us from the start. Let me tell you honestly that your profile name and pic are massively hindering you (if you're looking for women). This game is a social game. In a nutshell, what you've got to do is treat women like friends at the start. They're not turned on by graphic sexual material. It all starts in their minds then you've got to gradually warm them up. Also, many guys make the fatal mistake of saying "hi", "hey babe", "fancy a fuck", etc... what happens then is that the guys with a different approach scoop them up (sometimes). I feel like a bit of an idiot giving up my secrets, but sent them messages that they can relate to. Messages that you simply can't ignore. Bizarre messages are good too. Basically, the first hoop you need to jump through is grabbing attention. Have a think about how to make a fun and interesting first message. You'll still be ignored 50% of the time, but you'll have an edge over other guys. Good luck! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ffs can't we put an end to the daily guy's moaning about not having any luck with the ladies. It doesn't matter how big your cock is or handsome we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Just like the female scorpion they have all the real power!" Women may have more options to choose from in Fab, but they don’t have “all the real power” lol….. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ffs can't we put an end to the daily guy's moaning about not having any luck with the ladies. It doesn't matter how big your cock is or handsome we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Just like the female scorpion they have all the real power! Women may have more options to choose from in Fab, but they don’t have “all the real power” lol….." I agree. Women have all the power that you allow them to have. 🫢 | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ?" What was your expectations on joining? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve been on here abit now and I’ve been trying to get into the scene but I’m not getting no replies or anything is there something I’m doing wrong ? Honestly, your profile pic and user name would be enough for us to just delete unread any message you sent. We're sure you mean well but they're both quite off-putting. (Bry)" Exactly the same opinion from us too Jules x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |