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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mean to be big headed or anything but I have been told by a number of women that I have a large cock,,, but its on times no means a god send as it has hurt women before especially when it don't seem to fit all the way in so to speak,,, in those cases I do try to be careful and not go too deep, my question is has any men or indeed ladies got any pointers or tips??? As I want to make it more enjoyable for her,, please discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of lube and don't go all the way in. I had a boyfried once who was REALLY well endowed and I spent a helluvalot of time with cystitis and had to go to hosp in the end for investigation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mean to be big headed or anything but I have been told by a number of women that I have a large cock,,, but its on times no means a god send as it has hurt women before especially when it don't seem to fit all the way in so to speak,,, in those cases I do try to be careful and not go too deep, my question is has any men or indeed ladies got any pointers or tips??? As I want to make it more enjoyable for her,, please discuss"

Penetrating a woman with a big cock is no problem if you warm up slowly and gently. I'm not going to pretend that I spend hours on foreplay, but its nice to start off with plenty of kissing (very much enjoyable in itself), then when it feels right to initiate the actual sex, enter her slowly, give her a little time to relax and get used to the feeling of your penis inside her (sometimes I like to use a little extra lube just to begin), then use slow, shallow thrusts, building up until she's warmed and loosened sufficiently to let you glide in and out with ease - I've always found a deep, smooth and slow rhythm is most enjoyable for both of you.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I don't mean to be big headed or anything but I have been told by a number of women that I have a large cock,,, but its on times no means a god send as it has hurt women before especially when it don't seem to fit all the way in so to speak,,, in those cases I do try to be careful and not go too deep, my question is has any men or indeed ladies got any pointers or tips??? As I want to make it more enjoyable for her,, please discuss

Penetrating a woman with a big cock is no problem if you warm up slowly and gently. I'm not going to pretend that I spend hours on foreplay, but its nice to start off with plenty of kissing (very much enjoyable in itself), then when it feels right to initiate the actual sex, enter her slowly, give her a little time to relax and get used to the feeling of your penis inside her (sometimes I like to use a little extra lube just to begin), then use slow, shallow thrusts, building up until she's warmed and loosened sufficiently to let you glide in and out with ease - I've always found a deep, smooth and slow rhythm is most enjoyable for both of you."
is the op a virgin ? hope he is taking notes altho im sure compared to some on here he is that big tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always thought I was just average till the other night,, I mean I been told I was a decent size n stuff but it has happened twice in my adulthood,, I met a lovely lady,, very sexy n got on well,, started penetration and I got three quarters inside and that was it, felt like hitting a brick wall,, the sex was amazing but as I could not go fully deep it just lacked that certain closeness,, sorry if I come across big headed I don't mean too x

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

1) Talk. Let her tell you what she's feeling and what angle is best/how deep to go.

2) Lube. Don't think that needs explanation...

3) Foreplay. Ditto, look up erogenous zones, they help relax certain muscles you want relaxed

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Always thought I was just average till the other night,, I mean I been told I was a decent size n stuff but it has happened twice in my adulthood,, I met a lovely lady,, very sexy n got on well,, started penetration and I got three quarters inside and that was it, felt like hitting a brick wall,, the sex was amazing but as I could not go fully deep it just lacked that certain closeness,, sorry if I come across big headed I don't mean too x"
thats cool mate i wasnt having a dig its a good size.

i guess every lady is different like us guys im sure you have also fucked many where u didnt touch the sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok another thought here. .maybe the lady who you were with didn't have a long vagina ..There do vary in length so maybe you were hitting her cervix eg..her brick wall as you call it and it's more her than you being vwe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i should have typed was i am small inside and find certain positions with large guys very uncomfy if they are say above a 6, i find lying on my side with them behind entering from behind is a nice position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your cervix is at the top of your vagina..and the length of a woman's vagina can and is varied in length you can't do anything about the length but you can do plenty to the width. .eg kegal exercises to give you more grip and muscle control. .that's the important thing when it comes to sex and being tight ..good muscle control. .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women like their cervix's being"hit"..some don't. ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm an 8 fully erect which I always thought was average myself but I'm roughly 3 in width with a slight curve that makes it feel wider than it is,, thank you for all the in sight, it has been helpful, and its great to get a woman's perspective x

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over a year ago

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