FabSwingers.com forum: Cock pics in profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Hey guys are girls..

So cock pics yes or no in your profile? I used to show mine but if honest I'm not sure if not showing it is helping me?

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By *randMrsLPCouple
16 weeks ago

london

as a cuk, helps me - your choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

"as a cuk, helps me - your choice"

Thanks

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By *ee-LiteWoman
16 weeks ago

Northampton/Greater London

My preference is ‘no’

But each to their own, I believe it objectifies a guy and as I’m sapiosexual, I like to initially connect with a mind, the cock can follow once that spark has been ignited

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By *bi HaiveMan
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16 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's personal choice.

Obviously a profile containing nothing but dick pics probably won't go down well with the majority, but there's nothing wrong with one or two. Just don't post odd close ups in an attempt to make it look bigger, and try and make them 'interesting'.

And never have one as a profile pic or you'll likely find most will scroll straight past you. 🤷‍♂️

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By *allGuy1000Man
16 weeks ago

Reading

Personally I don’t share them in my public photos. If I send a friend invite I will always let the recipient know that there are more revealing photos in there. It’s for them to then decide if they want to accept my invitation.

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By *ister_EMan
16 weeks ago

Hayling Island

I'm pretty sure that most of the women on here know what a cock looks like by now so I don't see the need to wave mine around and plaster it all over my profile.

I do have some pics and vidios of my cock in action. So I'm not hiding it, I just chose not to define myself by it.

I'm also looking to make a connection with potential partners, so if it's just a cock they're looking for then we probablyaren't goingto be particularly compatible.

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By *ark n kimCouple
16 weeks ago

Durham

It's personal choice,but for us one is OK but when every picture is of their cock,total turn of.

There is more to meeting guy than just his cock.

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By *WANDTGCouple
16 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

The odd one is ok but if that's all they are showing then it's boring , probably says more about them than words can !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

Thanks guys and girls.. I put mine as friends only

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By *harAndBryCouple
16 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

One or two classy dick pics is good, just so we can see that it's not far too big, diseased or quite obviously someone else's.....

A profile full of close up pics of dribbling japs-eyes and hairy mushrooms? No thanks.

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
16 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Just to add.....much the same can be said about female genitals too as some couples profiles are just as off-putting as the dick filled guy's ones.

(Bry)

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By *ink vixenCouple
16 weeks ago

Medway

Sometimes we may be browsing for potential guys somewhere that may not be totally secure from someone looking over our shoulder.

If a cock pic pops up it gets shut down very quickly and we’ve never yet returned to a profile that’s done that to us.

So there’s that to consider.

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By *oxy jWoman
16 weeks ago

somerset

yes i like a cock pic or 2 but no more and better as a whole body shot ...

i wont meet with out seeing a cock pic nothing to do with size but there are some i wont play with ...

plus you wont get a true answer to this as most people on fab dont vist these forums so it reality it proberly a 50/50 thing

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By *avexxMan
16 weeks ago

cheshire

i have two full naked body shots but always unsure to show them

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By *ltra72Man
16 weeks ago

edinburgh

I’ve noticed recently there are less cock pics going up

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

To be fair for me when a man sends a dick pic not a face pick on a first text it's a turn-off as to be you can see all that on people's profiles anyway as I like to leave to the imagination of when I first feel him down there makes sense but of course some people like to see a man's penis and understand that

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By *issy04Woman
16 weeks ago

ealing

Personally I find profiles with endless amounts of dic pics a turn off. Nothing more unappealing than a dick hanging over a sink. Just my personal opinion. But each to there own.

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By *weetRollMan
16 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

"Hey guys are girls..

So cock pics yes or no in your profile? I used to show mine but if honest I'm not sure if not showing it is helping me?"

There seems to be mixed opinions on this so what I decided was,

- Never have a cock pic as your profile picture.

- Make sure around 80% of your public pictures are not cock pic. Focus on the body instead or clothed pics.

- Do what you want with private pictures.

- You may choose not to include any cock pic in your public pics, but I reckon some women would want to see what yours specifically looks like and they might not be involved enough to message you and ask.

I see enough "looking for well endowed or vwe" on profiles so again I personally put some cock pics public so that they can assess whether I fit their needs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
16 weeks ago

"Personally I find profiles with endless amounts of dic pics a turn off. Nothing more unappealing than a dick hanging over a sink. Just my personal opinion. But each to there own."

I only have the one picture...

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By *issmorganWoman
16 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's totally your choice op.

In a mix of others, like you've done, I think it's fine.

You'll never please everyone though and its your profile.

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By *itygamesMan
16 weeks ago

its probably pretty disgusting really.

lets be honest , its not a porn site ,

its a bit like flashing , some say its illegal , especially if you send it un wantedly

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By *iss KinkWoman
16 weeks ago

North West

"My preference is ‘no’

But each to their own, I believe it objectifies a guy and as I’m sapiosexual, I like to initially connect with a mind, the cock can follow once that spark has been ignited

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Most will say no to cock pics and a few will say yes to cock pics.

What we did was put anything showing cock or pussy in the friends only folder.

But as with most things OP, its your profile, your rules.

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By *aughtyLittlePicsCouple
16 weeks ago

Belper

Honestly don’t mind them… actually rather like them. Wouldn’t bother me as a profile pic but I know it does others

You can’t please everyone, so maybe don’t try to? I once saw a profile complaining about cock pics and then had lots of pussy pics

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By *weetRollMan
16 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

"its probably pretty disgusting really.

lets be honest , its not a porn site ,

its a bit like flashing , some say its illegal , especially if you send it un wantedly"

Putting a couple pics in your profile is nothing like sending an unsolicited dick pic.

This is a swingers site not a dating site, I see boobs, bare asses and vulva's all the time on here. There also vids of people having sex. (its not a porn site but porn is regularly shared freely, same difference)

I see profiles constantly referencing male penises wanting to know their length or girth or that they are vwe -- this is single women and couples profiles. I wouldn't have any public dick pics were it not for this.

There's more than enough justification to put one or two dick pics in your public profile as many people don't want to be in the dark about your size and want to know what it looks like aesthetically.

I do think that a vast majority of a males public pics should not be dick pics but someone having a small number is not 'disgusting' in my view given the sort of site we're on.

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By *weetRollMan
16 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

"its probably pretty disgusting really.

lets be honest , its not a porn site ,

its a bit like flashing , some say its illegal , especially if you send it un wantedly"

It is closer to flashing but its still a poor equivalence.

I don't expect to see genitals in a shopping mall, on the streets, in a restaurant or on a dating site.

Environment and precedent matters. So what do you do? You read the room and follow.

There is no way you can convincingly argue that dick pics don't fit in with the site. Like seriously you can try but it futile.

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By *oodford guyMan
16 weeks ago

Spain

With a cock like yours, then most definitely show it off

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By *M696969Couple
16 weeks ago

Wisbech

Some guys post just cock photos..side front..hard soft looking up looking down.. I prefer photos with a big of class imagination and maybe fun. Xx

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By *ShyButNotShyCouple
16 weeks ago

Stafford

Yes as it's 1 he'll of a photo

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