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By *erIndoors OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

I've been on and off of here for a while and had a couple of meets in that time but I've come to realise that I'm just not that into men!

I have had a couple of experiences with women and I want more of that please!

I want to meet women like me to explore my lady loving side and have some laughs along the way but I could really do with a few pals to help me out. Where do I start? Where do I go? What the bloody hell do I wear?

Any advice would be much appreciated! Xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

There are some ladies only events it maybe worth keeping an eye out I know Ruby slippers and there's Quest in Leeds but that maybe too far.

Just start approaching women and have a chat see where it goes.

I have my singles profile for meeting women and there is a lot of women looking for women out there.

Mrs

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By *ojo2joWoman
3 weeks ago

Penclawdd


"I've been on and off of here for a while and had a couple of meets in that time but I've come to realise that I'm just not that into men!

I have had a couple of experiences with women and I want more of that please!

I want to meet women like me to explore my lady loving side and have some laughs along the way but I could really do with a few pals to help me out. Where do I start? Where do I go? What the bloody hell do I wear?

Any advice would be much appreciated! Xx"

Have a look at socials near you. Message the organisers and ask them to introduce you to some friendly people (most socials attract regular attendees).

You’ll likely find when you get talking that opportunities start to evolve from there.

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By *ainbowQueen03Woman
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I host Women Only event every two months based in West Bromwich, Birmingham.

Feel free to message me for more details.

RainbowQueen03

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
3 weeks ago

Medway


"I've been on and off of here for a while and had a couple of meets in that time but I've come to realise that I'm just not that into men!

I have had a couple of experiences with women and I want more of that please!

I want to meet women like me to explore my lady loving side and have some laughs along the way but I could really do with a few pals to help me out. Where do I start? Where do I go? What the bloody hell do I wear?

Any advice would be much appreciated! Xx"

Great post! If anyone is local or not and are looking for friends! Do message ☺️

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By *ever247Woman
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I've been looking for women only socials and swingers space but no luck, especially in the Southwest.

I'll be following this thread as I'm hoping to find swinging women who are happy to play/mingle/socialise with women only!

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By *ever247Woman
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Well, this is so cool to learn about!

I'm definitely going to make this a future goal, to make it to one of these! Thanks for posting!

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By *erIndoors OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

Thanks ladies, glad I posted, trying to reshuffle work so I can be there! Something to look forward to! X

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By *adam PadamWoman
3 weeks ago

leeds

I understand your plight.

I'm in Leeds, would like to meet more women

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By *inky little MWoman
3 weeks ago

Bradford


"I understand your plight.

I'm in Leeds, would like to meet more women "

I'm glad you've found my profile

I run a monthly female event in Leeds at Quest to the OP of this thread. I know you live far down south so the 1 that rainbow is offering is great. I've been as you get your own spa area to relax with the other ladies. The hot tub is a big as a swinging pool lol

If you ever fancy travelling up north get in touch or anyone else that's in the surrounding area. My next events are 7th November and the 5th December. Next year the events start on the 6th February and are the first Thursday of every month

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By *erIndoors OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex


"I understand your plight.

I'm in Leeds, would like to meet more women

I'm glad you've found my profile

I run a monthly female event in Leeds at Quest to the OP of this thread. I know you live far down south so the 1 that rainbow is offering is great. I've been as you get your own spa area to relax with the other ladies. The hot tub is a big as a swinging pool lol

If you ever fancy travelling up north get in touch or anyone else that's in the surrounding area. My next events are 7th November and the 5th December. Next year the events start on the 6th February and are the first Thursday of every month "

Thanks lovely. I would love to do a roadtrip to you at some point. I'm sure you'll be hearing from me and thanks for reaching out xx

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By *erIndoors OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex


"I host Women Only event every two months based in West Bromwich, Birmingham.

Feel free to message me for more details.

RainbowQueen03 "

Looks like I should be able to make this, how exciting! Thanks again xx

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By *carlettxWoman
3 weeks ago

Essex


"I've been on and off of here for a while and had a couple of meets in that time but I've come to realise that I'm just not that into men!

I have had a couple of experiences with women and I want more of that please!

I want to meet women like me to explore my lady loving side and have some laughs along the way but I could really do with a few pals to help me out. Where do I start? Where do I go? What the bloody hell do I wear?

Any advice would be much appreciated! Xx"

Tequila Rose parties - ladies only events

Look fabulous ! Unfortunately my diary hasn’t allowed me to go but you might want to check them out

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By *onnoisseur100Man
3 weeks ago

Woking-ish

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By *roucho7423Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Tequila rose have an event coming up in a couple of weeks. My partner is booked in to go.

Check out their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Tequila Rose Parties x attending on the 15th x

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By *adyforlady!Woman
3 weeks ago

Carrick

Same position here - happy to chat to any ladies similar

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By *erIndoors OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

Thanks so much for the Tequila Rose recommendation, looks amazing! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"I host Women Only event every two months based in West Bromwich, Birmingham.

Feel free to message me for more details.

RainbowQueen03

Looks like I should be able to make this, how exciting! Thanks again xx"

I go to this. It is a really safe and welcoming event. Also the host is lovely.

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By *essTTWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Same here if any ladies are local to West Midlands x

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By *ucksSapphiresWoman
3 weeks ago

Bucks

Fab seems dead for FF only meets but can recommend Tequila Rose parties x

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By *ainbowQueen03Woman
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Same here if any ladies are local to West Midlands x"

Tried to reach out but I'm outside your age range. Message RainbowQueen03 over women only event.

Event is on Wednesday 6th November. Look at profile and forum for more details.

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By *isfun2023Couple
3 weeks ago

wakefield

Is love a girl chat group/meet x

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By *inky little MWoman
3 weeks ago

Bradford


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x"

I've messaged you as you're very local to my events. We do alsorts of meets, including coffee socials I'm between events and a ladies only group chat before the ladies nights

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

I've messaged you as you're very local to my events. We do alsorts of meets, including coffee socials I'm between events and a ladies only group chat before the ladies nights"

We need another coffee morning 🥰

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By *inky little MWoman
3 weeks ago

Bradford


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

I've messaged you as you're very local to my events. We do alsorts of meets, including coffee socials I'm between events and a ladies only group chat before the ladies nights

We need another coffee morning 🥰

"

We do, I'm free all this week during the daytime xx

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By *ainbowQueen03Woman
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Fab seems dead for FF only meets but can recommend Tequila Rose parties x "

You'll find that we're not dead in the water

I also recommend Scissor Sisters hosted by me.

Sexy Sirens Soiree hosted by Kinky_Little_M.

It's great that we're getting spoiled for choice here.

I will have to try Tequila Rose Parties next year.

RainbowQueen03

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By *ucksSapphiresWoman
3 weeks ago

Bucks

It's a shame it's so far from me especially on a weekday, hope to see you at a TRP sometime x

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
3 weeks ago

Medway


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

I've messaged you as you're very local to my events. We do alsorts of meets, including coffee socials I'm between events and a ladies only group chat before the ladies nights

We need another coffee morning 🥰

"

This is a good idea, anyone near Kent, want to try this?

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By *xploringdivorceeWoman
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Great post, didnt realise there was so many parties around!

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By *inky little MWoman
3 weeks ago

Bradford


"Great post, didnt realise there was so many parties around!"

Most are kept on the hush hush as there's alot of people that think they have the right to go to any event, even if it's just 1 particular sex only. I got alot of hate towards my first event but it didn't put me off

If men can have there men only sauna, we can have our female only events

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By *xploringdivorceeWoman
2 weeks ago

West Midlands


"Great post, didnt realise there was so many parties around!

Most are kept on the hush hush as there's alot of people that think they have the right to go to any event, even if it's just 1 particular sex only. I got alot of hate towards my first event but it didn't put me off

If men can have there men only sauna, we can have our female only events "

I didnt know there were men only events either hahahaha

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x"

There is a group chat/coffee mornings for the people that go to the ladies night at Quest Leeds x

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By *ucketlist DuoCouple
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I've (L) recently been exploring my bi side more, generally at CJs in Glasgow. Not entirely sure how it happened, but I ended up playing with 3 other ladies. Vodka me is very confident lol

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By *inky little MWoman
2 weeks ago

Bradford


"Great post, didnt realise there was so many parties around!

Most are kept on the hush hush as there's alot of people that think they have the right to go to any event, even if it's just 1 particular sex only. I got alot of hate towards my first event but it didn't put me off

If men can have there men only sauna, we can have our female only events

I didnt know there were men only events either hahahaha"

Gay saunas won't allow females in there

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
2 weeks ago

neath

Hi hun ,I host ladies only parties but it's a pj party so it takes the pressure off on what to wear ect

But many of us still wear some sexy lingerie underneath the pjs

Just be relaxed and always wear what your comfortable in , message ladies and ask if they would chat and advise and help you on your journey

I'm more than happy to chat and help x

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By *samCouple
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

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By *samCouple
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

I tried looking for WLW on hinge for ENM/ poly connections and found it hard work. Most bi/queer women are used to men putting in lots of enthusiasm into messaging and arranging meeting.

Out in the wild flirting with women and getting them to know you’re interested in being more than friendly is a tough going. Generally slipping in that you’re interested in women into the convo helps. Women seeking women will always be massively out numbered by really enthusiastic men seeking women though.

Good to know about the fem parties. Count me in!

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By *isfun2023Couple
2 weeks ago

wakefield


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

I've messaged you as you're very local to my events. We do alsorts of meets, including coffee socials I'm between events and a ladies only group chat before the ladies nights"

Thank you lovely x

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By *isfun2023Couple
2 weeks ago

wakefield


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

There is a group chat/coffee mornings for the people that go to the ladies night at Quest Leeds x"

Not been to a club yet we haven't had the confidence

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By *oxy jWoman
2 weeks ago

somerset

30 years ago woman on woman was easy to find but on swinging site not so not only that and not knocking anyone but swinger bi i found most not all very soft like you can tell its a tick box thing so with online i hit the gay lesbian sites and wow but even better and with hubs being bi too was gay clubs/pubs/nights ive made loads of lush gay /bi female and male friends that way .... and the sex is so different feels like real full on sex rather than the swinger bi stuff

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By *orthern StarsCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

I find it so difficult to meet genuine bi ladies on here, and there isn't many events this far north. Think I need to move South!

I did go the ladies only event at Quest and hoping to get to a Tequila Rose party early next year.

Ruby

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By *samCouple
1 week ago

Cambridge


"30 years ago woman on woman was easy to find but on swinging site not so not only that and not knocking anyone but swinger bi i found most not all very soft like you can tell its a tick box thing so with online i hit the gay lesbian sites and wow but even better and with hubs being bi too was gay clubs/pubs/nights ive made loads of lush gay /bi female and male friends that way .... and the sex is so different feels like real full on sex rather than the swinger bi stuff"

100% matches my/our experience. I think it’s all to do with openness to intimacy, which swinging often misses but does make it feel more wholesome.

You also get a lot of newbies trying sex with women for the first time and it does take a bit of practice and communication to give your female partner a good time. Your regular partner knows what you like, for everyone else you need to tell them.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
1 week ago

Leeds


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

There is a group chat/coffee mornings for the people that go to the ladies night at Quest Leeds x

Not been to a club yet we haven't had the confidence "

I only go to the ladies nights, the 1st event I didn't even dress down, I just go for the social really & all the ladies are so lovely x

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By *inky little MWoman
1 week ago

Bradford


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

There is a group chat/coffee mornings for the people that go to the ladies night at Quest Leeds x

Not been to a club yet we haven't had the confidence "

We would look after you at quest in Leeds. We have our next event on the 5th December. Message me if you'd like to be put on the list and as someone has mentioned I have a group chat in-between events and that's through a verification process or actually meeting at my events so I know they are real. So many men try to fake it to get in to the chats and they've even tried to get into the event lol

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By *urvyownedsubCouple
1 week ago

Rochdale


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

There is a group chat/coffee mornings for the people that go to the ladies night at Quest Leeds x"

I'm going to have a look on the forums and meet pages for info on the ladies night at Quest. How would I find out about the coffee mornings please?

Very nervous about attending a club for the first time so this could b a good ice breaker to ease into first

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By *inky little MWoman
1 week ago

Bradford


"Is love a girl chat group/meet x

There is a group chat/coffee mornings for the people that go to the ladies night at Quest Leeds x

I'm going to have a look on the forums and meet pages for info on the ladies night at Quest. How would I find out about the coffee mornings please?

Very nervous about attending a club for the first time so this could b a good ice breaker to ease into first "

Coffee mornings are arranged in the group chat we have. I'm the admin of the group chats and I'm the host to the event at Quest. I'll message you xx

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
3 days ago

La La Land


"I find it so difficult to meet genuine bi ladies on here, and there isn't many events this far north. Think I need to move South!

I did go the ladies only event at Quest and hoping to get to a Tequila Rose party early next year.

Ruby "

Next TRP date is set- 17th Jan and it's booking up quickly!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
2 days ago

Durham


"I find it so difficult to meet genuine bi ladies on here, and there isn't many events this far north. Think I need to move South!

I did go the ladies only event at Quest and hoping to get to a Tequila Rose party early next year.

Ruby

Next TRP date is set- 17th Jan and it's booking up quickly! "

Checking my diary. Heard such great things about the last party

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