FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Mini Review (seeking)

By *weetRoll OP Man
9 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

Would like to get some opinions on my profile.

Just wanting to know if there is any red flags/things that would get you to change your mind for the worst even if you had initial interest in me.

I'm not looking to make a perfect profile cus from my research on the forums the time/benefit ratio is not worthwhile. As a single male I'm expecting most meets to come from clubs/social meets not online.

So I'd like advice which would take my profile to an above average standard -- if it isnt at that level already.

If you can, please give specific advice not vague feedback that's difficult to act upon.

Thank you all for your time

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Your bio is decent, pics are a little repetitive but overall your profile is decent.

Mrs

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By *weetRoll OP Man
9 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

Thank you for such a rapid response.

Its reassuring that you find it decent. I'm satisfied with that.

I agree that I could have some more variation with the photo's.

Got some I could use but need to mask my face on em first.

Thanks again.

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
9 weeks ago

There and Here

Looks fairly decent to me.

Might be worth looking at the statement about exploring your sexuality as that can be interpreted in different ways, although I do appreciate you've stated you're strictly hetero.

As far as pointing out red flags, you may find people are reluctant to do so. Red flags on a profile serve a very good purpose and helping people conceal them benefits only the profile owner.

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By *weetRoll OP Man
9 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

Hiya,

That's a good shout I can amend the sexuality part to minimise risk of confusion.

I can understand the bit about 'red-flags' but...

For a newcomer it can be a bit frustrating. Clear example is that some people consider hidden verification as red flags and I had to read the forum to learn that as I had mine hidden initially.

So someone could come to my profile, see the hidden verification and then bail cus its hidden.

So I just don't want to be making that sort of error.

Those sort of innocent things that can be interpreted as red flags.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

You will never have profile that doesn't contain red flags for someone.

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By *weetRoll OP Man
9 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

100% agree.

It gets complicated to try and explain what I'm getting at, maybe a better way to express it is things that are redundant or sub-optimal.

Things in my profile that will repel *most* people.

I know I cant appeal to everyone. And I don't want to. But I want to express myself in a good way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ I think the better approach is to try to appeal to the type of person *you* want to meet without worrying too much about most people. In truth you're unlikely to be compatible with most not many of us are.

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By *weetRoll OP Man
9 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

I find your perspective very reasonable.

I'll continue thinking about how I could better express myself in and engaging way.

Thanks for your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

From personal experience I find a video or 2 helps and best kept in friends area

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By *weetRoll OP Man
9 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

Planning to do it if I become a site supporter one day

Thanks.

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