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By *hrobbinlogon OP   Man
over a year ago

Diss

I'm polite, I'm able to read profiles... I send messages.. Over and over ... No bloody responses.. Single fellas have it hard( no Punn intended) enough, the whole copy and paste gets more inviting every day on this site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm polite, I'm able to read profiles... I send messages.. Over and over ... No bloody responses.. Single fellas have it hard( no Punn intended) enough, the whole copy and paste gets more inviting every day on this site . "

Sad times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*yawn... These threads just get soooo boring!

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*yawn... These threads just get soooo boring!"

So help the guy out, give him the usual.

Whining is unatractive.

Go to clubs.

Keep trying.

Something something.

Good luck!

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By *hrobbinlogon OP   Man
over a year ago

Diss

Yawn indeed..

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im put off by all the cock pics...

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By *hrobbinlogon OP   Man
over a year ago

Diss


"I'm polite, I'm able to read profiles... I send messages.. Over and over ... No bloody responses.. Single fellas have it hard( no Punn intended) enough, the whole copy and paste gets more inviting every day on this site .

Sad times."

I've had the meets just all the bullshit and walking on egg shells takes the fun out of things.. And that's why we're all here..

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Im put off by all the cock pics..."

Yeah, that would be a delete from me as well.

Your profile doesn't actually make you stand out from anyone else on here. You don't say anything about what you like, what you're good at or what you're looking for.

Being honest, it sounds like a pic hunters profile and that you're only perving on the ladies.

Try making some changes and see if thats any better.

And you've had one meet, so you're doing better than a lot of people on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*yawn... These threads just get soooo boring!

So help the guy out, give him the usual.

Whining is unatractive.

Go to clubs.

Keep trying.

Something something.

Good luck!"

No, he's a grown man. I havent the foggest what his wants are from this site. If guys log into this site thinking they are in for a shagfest well im sorry they are gonna be well and truly disappointed.

Your a guy, YOU help him!!

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By *hrobbinlogon OP   Man
over a year ago

Diss


"Im put off by all the cock pics..."

Yeah, sorry.. Some ask, some don't .. Blah blah.. I'd put holiday snaps up but I hate being invited to sir through those too.. Bummer

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By *hrobbinlogon OP   Man
over a year ago

Diss


"Im put off by all the cock pics...

Yeah, sorry.. Some ask, some don't .. Blah blah.. I'd put holiday snaps up but I hate being invited to sir through those too.. Bummer "

Sit through ...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Im put off by all the cock pics...

Yeah, sorry.. Some ask, some don't .. Blah blah.. I'd put holiday snaps up but I hate being invited to sir through those too.. Bummer

Sit through ..."
Try a mixture?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Put the cock pics as private, and then you can send if requested, but not be blocked for seeming a bit obsessed with it!

The successful guys on here seem to leave more to the imagination - so some tighty-whitey boxers, open shirt, nice bottom shot etc.

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By *hrobbinlogon OP   Man
over a year ago

Diss


"*yawn... These threads just get soooo boring!

So help the guy out, give him the usual.

Whining is unatractive.

Go to clubs.

Keep trying.

Something something.

Cheer up !! I fed up not hard up !!

Good luck!

No, he's a grown man. I havent the foggest what his wants are from this site. If guys log into this site thinking they are in for a shagfest well im sorry they are gonna be well and truly disappointed.

Your a guy, YOU help him!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*yawn... These threads just get soooo boring!

So help the guy out, give him the usual.

Whining is unatractive.

Go to clubs.

Keep trying.

Something something.

Good luck!

No, he's a grown man. I havent the foggest what his wants are from this site. If guys log into this site thinking they are in for a shagfest well im sorry they are gonna be well and truly disappointed.

Your a guy, YOU help him!!"

What would I know, I haves gorgeous wife that attracts people into messaging us.

I dunno, read their profile first before messaging, see if there is anything on it you can strike up a conversation about.

Looking at Jangels you know she knows what she wants, she takes pride in herself so maybe pay her a compliment. Maybe ask her what her favourite perfume is as she likes to smell good. She says she wants to get to know someone before meeting so don't even think about sex talk. She has a wicked sense of humour so throw in some humour too.

Check peoples updates, if you see a woman who sounds fed up ask her what's wrong, she May or May not talk to you but at least it makes you stand out as youre showing an intrest in her as a person.

Also just because a woman messages back doesn't mean she wants to fuck you.

Read the forums, you can find plenty.out about people whilst letting them get.to see what you're like as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a witty or funny message will get a response off me or just keep posting here and get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 cock pics and a profile that doesn't really say much.

You don't really stand out from the other single male profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not much info on profile really as what actualy looking for and about you!

id delete fact about msn addy too as its not needed if on here to meet people!

and as nice as pics are...maybe some different ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most."

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started "

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm polite, I'm able to read profiles... I send messages.. Over and over ... No bloody responses.. Single fellas have it hard( no Punn intended) enough, the whole copy and paste gets more inviting every day on this site . "

Percy Vere is the name mate. Then you meet some lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And OP, your profile is full of cock picture. If you read the Forums you will find out what a complete turn off that is for ladies and couples. Try getting some nicer shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup "

How about Utrinque Paratus..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mile high club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup

How about Utrinque Paratus.."

Isn't that a transformer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mile high club "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup

How about Utrinque Paratus.."

Having worked in a pub which served a lot of the parachute regiment I know that one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am affraid old chap your at the bottom of the food chain.

1. Single Bi Fems

2. Fems

3. Couples

4.vvwe guys

5. Black guys

6. Bi Guys

7. average joe single guy.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"*yawn... These threads just get soooo boring!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am afraid old chap you're at the bottom of the food chain.

1. Single Bi Fems

2. Fems

3. Couples

4.vvwe guys

5. Black guys

6. Bi Guys

7. average joe single guy.

"

Oh, to each be treated as individuals and not automatically ranked by gender, race and orientation - then summarily sent to a preordained place in a metaphorical social queue.

Elitism - alive and well in a social group that have to keep their socio-sexual practices hidden from the moral vanilla majority for fear of rejection and moral damnation.

Irony at these levels is considered toxic, you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup

How about Utrinque Paratus..

Having worked in a pub which served a lot of the parachute regiment I know that one xx "

Which pub? You may have served me...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am afraid old chap you're at the bottom of the food chain.

1. Single Bi Fems

2. Fems

3. Couples

4.vvwe guys

5. Black guys

6. Bi Guys

7. average joe single guy.

Oh, to each be treated as individuals and not automatically ranked by gender, race and orientation - then summarily sent to a preordained place in a metaphorical social queue.

Elitism - alive and well in a social group that have to keep their socio-sexual practices hidden from the moral vanilla majority for fear of rejection and moral damnation.

Irony at these levels is considered toxic, you know!"

That's funny coz its true! And professor Xxx what a genius name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site isn't just about meeting and having sex,

Talk to people make friends

Enjoy everything else and be nice,

And if you get a meet bonus just be like you would be in public

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup

How about Utrinque Paratus..

Having worked in a pub which served a lot of the parachute regiment I know that one xx

Which pub? You may have served me...lol"

The elephant and hind in Dover. 3 para were there for a few years then they went to colly and 1 came from aldershot I believe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup

How about Utrinque Paratus..

Having worked in a pub which served a lot of the parachute regiment I know that one xx

Which pub? You may have served me...lol

The elephant and hind in Dover. 3 para were there for a few years then they went to colly and 1 came from aldershot I believe xx "

Depending on the year, you may have pulled me a pint! x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"At a quick glance at 3rd persons profile you can see she has Carpe diem, if you dunno what it means Google it if you had to Google it, tell her, it'll be nice for her to see you took the time to research a little before messaging her then ask her how she plans to seize this day.... May or May not get a reply but at least you're putting in more effort than most.

Very true i had passed about 10 messages with a guy all in latin even tho half of it i did not know but it was a conversation started

So I could have started a conversation on those two little words? And got the chance to learn some more about you?

Yup

How about Utrinque Paratus..

Having worked in a pub which served a lot of the parachute regiment I know that one xx

Which pub? You may have served me...lol

The elephant and hind in Dover. 3 para were there for a few years then they went to colly and 1 came from aldershot I believe xx

Depending on the year, you may have pulled me a pint! x"

Crikey. I'm trying to think, I was working there from about 98/99 for a few years and drinking in there a long time after that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am affraid old chap your at the bottom of the food chain.

1. Single Bi Fems

2. Fems

3. Couples

4.vvwe guys

5. Black guys

6. Bi Guys

7. average joe single guy.

"

Sorry but that list reflects your preferences and yours alone, can't say it's indicative of our experiences on the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am affraid old chap your at the bottom of the food chain.

1. Single Bi Fems

2. Fems

3. Couples

4.vvwe guys

5. Black guys

6. Bi Guys

7. average joe single guy.

Sorry but that list reflects your preferences and yours alone, can't say it's indicative of our experiences on the scene."

It isnt our preferance it just seems after reading loads of profiles mainly couples ones that this seems to be a generalisation of "looking for"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. Like others have said above, revamp your profile text and upload a nice variety of pics to make your profile stand out. Swinging is a scene not just a website so try clubs, socials and the chatrooms to get yourself known. Good luck.

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