FabSwingers.com forum: Am I being unrealistic?

By *sf1200n OP Couple
over a year ago

Winslow

Hi there. My wife and I have been on the scene for a short while, have had some fun but have also had our fingers burnt.

My big turn on would be a young (18 to 30) fit slim girl with big boobs, with singularly or as part of a couple.

Trouble is I am 44, a little on the large side and am tattood and pierced ( as is my wife)

Am I being unrealistic. Any advice would be really helpful.

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By *urvesAllOverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not entirely...everyone has a preference. But the girls you are describing are chased by the majority on here

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Being brutally honest? Yes, you probably are. Expand your range a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shit happens mate lol

dont throw all ur eggs in 1 basket tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shit happens mate lol

dont throw all ur eggs in 1 basket tho"

Yeah agreed keep it open and eventually, you could well get what you are looking for

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By *CupWoman
over a year ago

Rochdale

"shit happens mate lol

dont throw all ur eggs in 1 basket tho

Yeah agreed keep it open and eventually, you could well get what you are looking for "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

close your eyes, use your imagination and you can fuck a stunner every time

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By *ornishBiLoverMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

There are ladies as you describe who would quite happily have a meet with you, I know of at least two.

Its not the looks that count (in my opinion) its the character. To me swinging is not just about sex but making good friends, having a laugh, helping each other (such as on forums) and being able to be yourself without the constrains of perceived normal society. Shit, now I've confused myself lol...

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

I think you will have to adjust your expectations on what you are likely to achieve, I am a member of a few other sites and one actually posts their membership details on the title page so here is todays total.

Registered users: 395485

Male/Female ratio: 13:1

Male/Couple ratio: 8:1

As you can see females are outnumbered by males and it could be an even higher ratio depending on where you live. best to open your preferances out a bit and maybe you will get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well in all honesty...you`ll be lucky ..but...if you keep looking bide your time..visit a few clubs...?? chat.. well it happened for us

we met a really sexy single girl at cupids...had fun and had a couple of really horny nights with her at our home!!! and hey..we not mr n mrs sexy...but...lol we try our best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"close your eyes, use your imagination and you can fuck a stunner every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shit happens mate lol

dont throw all ur eggs in 1 basket tho

Yeah agreed keep it open and eventually, you could well get what you are looking for "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there. My wife and I have been on the scene for a short while, have had some fun but have also had our fingers burnt.

My big turn on would be a young (18 to 30) fit slim girl with big boobs, with singularly or as part of a couple.

Trouble is I am 44, a little on the large side and am tattood and pierced ( as is my wife)

Am I being unrealistic. Any advice would be really helpful.

There are a lot of women on here who arent that fussy, so you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh I'm too old, that's me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there. My wife and I have been on the scene for a short while, have had some fun but have also had our fingers burnt.

My big turn on would be a young (18 to 30) fit slim girl with big boobs, with singularly or as part of a couple.

Trouble is I am 44, a little on the large side and am tattood and pierced ( as is my wife)

Am I being unrealistic. Any advice would be really helpful.

There are a lot of women on here who arent that fussy, so you never know.

Lol...well thankfully I'm not one of them as I am fussy...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi there. My wife and I have been on the scene for a short while, have had some fun but have also had our fingers burnt.

My big turn on would be a young (18 to 30) fit slim girl with big boobs, with singularly or as part of a couple.

Trouble is I am 44, a little on the large side and am tattood and pierced ( as is my wife)

Am I being unrealistic. Any advice would be really helpful.

There are a lot of women on here who arent that fussy, so you never know.

That so made me chuckle!

Op, some of us are here for fantasy which means we won't meet as often as those with broader tastes.

It comes down to what you want, your fantasy or "anything". Don't let other dissuade you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there. My wife and I have been on the scene for a short while, have had some fun but have also had our fingers burnt.

My big turn on would be a young (18 to 30) fit slim girl with big boobs, with singularly or as part of a couple.

Trouble is I am 44, a little on the large side and am tattood and pierced ( as is my wife)

Am I being unrealistic. Any advice would be really helpful.

There are a lot of women on here who arent that fussy, so you never know.

Lol...well thankfully I'm not one of them as I am fussy...

xx"

Good for you. no regrets then.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If you're willing to wait for it - it MIGHT happen...

I'd think about widening your age range a little... but thats just my suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My big turn on would be a young (18 to 30) fit slim girl with big boobs, with singularly or as part of a couple.

Trouble is I am 44.

Am I being unrealistic. Any advice would be really helpful. "

If you are relying on meeting someone through messaging and meeting privately through the site, I think that to say it is a long shot is a serious under-estimate.

The only way, in my humble opinion, that you might stand any chance of achieving your fantasy would be to get yourselves to a club or two on a regular basis so people get the chance to see you and that may be what attracts them to want to play.

If you are seriously expecting to play with an 18yr old, the one thing which is against you is that you would have been 26 when she was born... and that could make you older than her Dad... That is an inescapable fact you will have to face.

Yes, we have all had the same fantasy from time to time, but the reality is that it usually ends up staying a fantasy - if that's not a contradiction in terms.

Ted

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By *sf1200n OP Couple
over a year ago

Winslow

Thought I would get those answers lol. I am open to an older age range, up to and above my own. It was just really indulginging in my own fantasy that was the big question.

If I came over as not willing to accept anything but then that was not what I meant.

I guess the trouble is I still feel 21 lol

Thanks all ??

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