FabSwingers.com forum: NEW TO THE SCENE

By *illy123999 OP Man
40 weeks ago

keynsham

Really looking for someone to teach me the life of a swinger as i am new to this and have been waiting patiently for my first time experience that is yet to still happen.. i would like information on how the clubs work and how general meets pan out without making myself look silly. Maybe some fun along the way too, who knows 😁

By *ojo2joWoman
40 weeks ago

Penclawdd

"Really looking for someone to teach me the life of a swinger as i am new to this and have been waiting patiently for my first time experience that is yet to still happen.. i would like information on how the clubs work and how general meets pan out without making myself look silly. Maybe some fun along the way too, who knows 😁"

Welcome to the scene. These forums are a wealth of information and a bit of browsing, especially in the club discussion forum will give you lots of information.

Find a club near to you, use the club’s own website and the forum search function (magnifying glass) to find out more about it as each one varies a little e.g. dress code.

The types of general meet also vary from person to person but you’ll find out what people are looking for from their profile.

Some want to meet socially for coffee or in a date-like way to build up a rapport, others want to skip straight to the sexy times.

Some want to form an ongoing connection, others want to meet different people each time.

No one can really teach that, it’s about reading lots of profiles and building an understanding.

By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
40 weeks ago

Stoke

There's nothing really to teach. Use Fab as a network, go explore the clubs, be a good human being, be respectful to others and have fun along the way where you can.

By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"There's nothing really to teach. Use Fab as a network, go explore the clubs, be a good human being, be respectful to others and have fun along the way where you can. "

this ... but also expect nothing you another guy and there zillions of guys any so many guys all ready get nowhere nothing is guaranteed there is no sex on a plate ...

these forums are tiny 1 or 2% of the site use it so be careful you dont get sucked in .... you need to be you you need to be socially confident asking for advice will get you the same old same old ... be you not somebody else...

By *rmrseptemberCouple
40 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Have a listen to the ‘sexless swingers’ - ‘bed hoppers’ and ‘swinghub’ podcasts, there’s loads of info discussed about the whole scene on there. Have fun