FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie swinger

By *ARRY221 OP Man
13 weeks ago

…LND/Mcr

Of course new to swinging life style young and no experience in the field of course would love to hear peoples opinions on dos and don’ts what it all is and how couples would like to be approached let me know

as a single MALE not approached anyone just yet just was curious to see the forums so why not ask x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Welcome to the forums Harry. I think couples like to both be included in a message and don't want a first message to be crudely sexual. But I may be wrong !

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By *ARRY221 OP Man
13 weeks ago

…LND/Mcr

Why thank you for the welcome to the forums it’s a fun place greeting both of em I can get and understand to be honest but sexual message wouldn’t know to

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Heyo Harry, welcome to Fab and the lifestyle as a whole 😁

When messaging people, read their profiles to see if you would be compatable with them. When messaging a couple refer to them both. Don't open with a sexual message and for the love of god dont send a pic of your dick.

You would do alot better with a profile pic, doesn't have to be your face but preferably not a picture of your dick. You are listed as athletic so maybe a nice body shot?

Also your profile text needs a bit of work. (ALWAYS HORNY) bit is a tad off putting and that bit at the end about prosicution is useless, maybe lose that.

Also don't get discouraged, this is not a place to get easy sex and theres 50 men to each couple or single woman. So be persistant.

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

As above, you deffo need to add a pic or two, they don't need to identify you can be dressed with head cropped off etc.

Most couples won't interact with bank profiles and against other men with pics, you won't stand out at all.

Always read a profile and only message those you think you're a good fit for and have a genuine interest in.

Be respectful and patient, remember there's 2 people who may have differing work patterns, kids etc.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Welcome, in regards to the approaching people, approach like humans, like you would in a bar, not like an orifice for your pleasure (like many men)

Good luck

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By *ARRY221 OP Man
13 weeks ago

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Am going to all lots of pics just need to take some freshen up take some nice ones and the bio all sorts am going to fix up to be honest feedback been ok and nice thank you

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By *ARRY221 OP Man
13 weeks ago

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Common sense but thank you

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