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By *ung27yrold OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Padiham

Had a few meets on here but ideally want to meet couples is there not many couples that looking for single guys nowadays or am I going about I the wrong way I've message couples in past introduced my self said what looking for sent face pic etc but never really get a reply what am I doing wrong?

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By *iss KinkWoman
6 weeks ago

North West

I’d start with sorting your profile out first then maybe head over to a few clubs

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 weeks ago

Midlands

You're unlikely to get replies with just a full stop where you're able to describe yourself and sell yourself.

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By *un and Games 2016Couple
6 weeks ago

Darlington

Read your profile and ask yourself if you'd reply to you.....

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By *ung27yrold OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Padiham

I'm on with sorting my profile out and I want to go to a club but really nervous about going to one on my own

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By *ucka39Man
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

You maybe looking for them but are they looking for someone like you, it goes both ways

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
6 weeks ago

Highbridge

Six pictures of your cock and none of your face and where you are given the opportunity to present yourself all you can think of is a FULL STOP.

It would be like walking into a Pub, seeing somebody like and going standing next to them and not saying a word.

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By *andlerMan
6 weeks ago

shipley

Ratio of 60/1 don't help

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By *oastofReadingMan
6 weeks ago

Reading


"Six pictures of your cock and none of your face and where you are given the opportunity to present yourself all you can think of is a FULL STOP.

It would be like walking into a Pub, seeing somebody like and going standing next to them and not saying a word. "

What they said. I'm sure there are people on here that will just go for a large cock. But I'm pretty sure most ladies and couples actually want someone who is able to string a few words together at the best and isn't reliant on the one thing that swings between their legs.

Show your personality and also get to social and club nights where people are more open to chatting to random strangers. But maybe keep the cock in your trousers when you approach them.

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By *orelloCouple
6 weeks ago

Hitchin

Stand out from the rest, put some clothes on.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
6 weeks ago

Flagrante


"I'm on with sorting my profile out and I want to go to a club but really nervous about going to one on my own"

If you are looking for couples who want single guys then you need to go on your own. Big boy pants time. Good luck.

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By *revaunanceCouple
5 weeks ago

Exeter

1. Your profile consists of a single dot to describe yourself, what you offer and are looking for.

2. Your pics are all of you penis (bar one which is your pants).

3. You are using your status to tell the whole site that you want snow. Drugs references are not normally considered as sexy.

As a couple that would meet a younger man of your age (many won't), we would happily pass you by.

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By *oiluvfunMan
5 weeks ago

Penrith

A status post asking for “snow” isn’t going to show you in a great light for starters…..

A profile text of a single fullstop really isn’t selling you to the masses…..

I would say your profile is a ‘work in progress’ mate….

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By *oxy jWoman
5 weeks ago

somerset

your one of many 100 men per woman some areas a lot more so the scene is againts you right from the start no matter what ... there are 1000s of guys on here that get nowhere and properly never will and it simply down to the sea of men looking for the pool of couples / women...

add in poor profiles poor pics poor communication poor social skills then add in the battle you will have with other men pretending to be couples / women see theres far less women and couples than you think due to fake profiles ....

however best advice for a guy wanting to get notice on this scene in this day n age is clubs/organised socials no its not 100% to work as people will still be picky but its better odds than anything else...

really you need to be you only you know you only you know what you want if you ask for profile advice you just get the same crappy profile that 1000s have whos asked before you ... be you work it out dont put all your eggs in one basket and dont forget no one owes you anything

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By *rlandoMan
5 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

nothing wrong , build p the courage and go to a social or club nearby ...

anyone trying to give you advice on your profile , are talking out of their A...

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By *igblackchocolateMan
4 weeks ago

London & Essex

You have to fix your profile and make them find something they like about your profile and pics and check out a few parties,clubs and other events and get atleast 1 verification

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