FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies in the midlands

By *idnight experimental OP Couple
11 weeks ago

Congleton / Derby

We are getting a few newbies messaging us over the last few weeks / months asking about the club sense etc. so we have been sending them this message just wondering what everyone thinks

If you have never been to a club before then, what we would recommend is a club that doesn’t have membership fee (The big posh clubs are great but expensive membership).

As then if you don’t like the club sense you haven’t spent a lot or committed to something. A good club for this is the Attic in Derby. Also don’t go on a Saturday party night as it’s to over the top for newbies. Possibly Saturday day time.

Chams is good on a Sunday for chill and quiet time break yourselves in but need membership (look on their website) we highly recommend this club.

Chams tho is what’s known as dress down clubs. So Underwear or towel.

Plus know each other’s play boundaries before you go that’s mega important. These can change overtime as you visit more clubs and get into the lifestyle etc.

Plus also chatting to a couple you want to play with get to know there boundaries to.

Hope this helps