FabSwingers.com forum: Growers vs showers

By *untime40 OP Man
12 weeks ago

Currently in Sevenoaks

Hi all this has more than likely been covered at some stage before but im unable to find a post on it.

What a ladies opinions on growers vs showers, i regularly go to spas and nudist beaches im a grower, flaccid its around 3inch and due to having large balls it pokes forward.

Ive never had negative comments but a few ladies i have met over the years a couple have been like no sorry not for me when ive dropped my boxers. I did explain a bit embarrassed that it does get bigger but left.

When hard im around 6inch and 5.5 girth.

As a honest answer do you wait to see when it grows of straight no.

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By *heekyCharmMan
12 weeks ago

Colne

From what I've read here on Fab, most people understand this is a thing and I don't think it matters.

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By *loydyboyMan
12 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

I’m a grower too I’ve only had one bad experience in my life and that happened the next day as I get aroused very quickly so I can hide it to an extent but obviously what goes up must come down no hiding then. I also only have one testicle due to a bmx bike accident when I was a kid. Always catches people out when they can’t find the other even had a lady who rang her friend who was a nurse out of worry which was nice

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By *rafter69Man
12 weeks ago

upminster

Grower here, lucky enough never to have any problems

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By *aveJones76Man
12 weeks ago

Rotherham

I'm really small flaccid, like an inch. Grows to just below 5 inches which isn't great IMO. Been told twice be ladies I'm smallest they've seen flaccid.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Bristol

I'm certainly a grower. 3-4" flaccid which is handy for wearing knickers.

Then if I get aroused then 7.5" and girl pants become a little problematic...

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By *ature housewifeWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Personally, I don't care. I think it's more important that the guy is confident with it, regardless of its size. Many guys have an "it is what it is" attitude. Others seem compelled to apologise before they show it. I don't understand why anyone would be so appalingly rude as to reject someone because of their size. What does that do to a guy's confidence?

Some guys LOVE a woman humiliating them and their wee willy.

I think a guy showing pics and vids of his small flaccid cock can be quite arousing. Maybe I see them as vulnerable or something. I can't explain it.

I say show-er rather than grower. It's Fab, ffs. Show it off and be proud

Just as an aside, I'm a woman who loves anal. A small cock can be very enjoyable cos everything feels HUGE up the bum

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

It's the engagement which is important, not the presentation. I think most men are growers.

The very most important thing is who you are and not your dick. Then it's about how you relate and compatibility and how you use your talents and assets

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

"Hi all this has more than likely been covered at some stage before but im unable to find a post on it.

What a ladies opinions on growers vs showers, i regularly go to spas and nudist beaches im a grower, flaccid its around 3inch and due to having large balls it pokes forward.

When hard im around 6inch and 5.5 girth.

As a honest answer do you wait to see when it grows of straight no. "

I have to admit I don’t envy you penis owners one bit! And your post tickled me to be honest. I think I’d like to say I’d prefer a grower opposed to shower and unfortunately really upset one chap when I mentioned that for most women it’s probably about girth than having a 10” pencil dick. Ultimately I think you guys need to know what to do with it. Ps endless dick pics are yawn worthy as seen one sort of seen them all!

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By *hartlonHMan
12 weeks ago

dartford

I must admit on a soft I am quite small but when it’s hard it gets to about 8” but soft about 2 and it has caused some birds to go is that it before it’s hard 😂

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By *orthmanMan
12 weeks ago

Kendal

Grower here, as highlighted on my profile!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

I love a grower, the Mr is and there's nothing better than it growing in your mouth, plus it's cute and big all at once.

Mrs

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Farnborough

I’m definitely a grower, which is very fortunate for me, as it makes things easier to hide when required x … but is very much there when needed.

I don’t mind either, but it is fun making a grower ‘grow’ ! mmm

R xx

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By *r-8-BBCMan
11 weeks ago

LONDON

Please excuse my naivety but can someone explain growers vs showers ?

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By *otfunx1Man
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I’m definitely a grower, which is very fortunate for me, as it makes things easier to hide when required x … but is very much there when needed.

I don’t mind either, but it is fun making a grower ‘grow’ ! mmm

R xx "

Similar although doesn't doesn't grow up and if not required stays hidden x

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By *heekyCharmMan
11 weeks ago

Colne

"Please excuse my naivety but can someone explain growers vs showers ?

Your willy is small when flaccid but substantial and much bigger when erect.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
11 weeks ago

LONDON

"Please excuse my naivety but can someone explain growers vs showers ?

Your willy is small when flaccid but substantial and much bigger when erect. "

Thank you

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My ex was a grower, 2.5 inches flaccid, over 8 inches when erect

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By *77incuncutMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster

Aim a grower

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By *r-8-BBCMan
11 weeks ago

LONDON

I guess I am a grower. Is that good ?

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By *loydyboyMan
11 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

As long as you’re happy fella. I once was ashamed about it all until I met a lovely lady in Melbourne Australia she told me that it’s definitely an eye opening moment from flaccid to full erection. As for those ladies that aren’t so impressed about it well that’s their own misfortune really.

But us growers do have an distinct advantage over showers

We can get aroused in public and nobody knows it where as showers have to start thinking pink elephants very quickly lol.

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By *heekyCharmMan
11 weeks ago

Colne

"I guess I am a grower. Is that good ?"
I wouldn't say it's good or bad, it's just the way your todger lives its life.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

OP; the not for me might not be because of the size, it might be because it isn’t hard.

I can’t speak for others, but if I’m in a club I prefer people who are up and ready to go. I’m not one for foreplay or the risk (to me or others) that comes with handling multiple dicks without condoms on. It’s easier to politely decline or ask them to return when ready.

Just a thought. Be confident and the rest will go from there. Shower or grower they are all amazing.

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